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RE: New honest and intelligent Dom saying "Hi." - 11/16/2011 10:01:43 AM   
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If you don't see a "take-charge" quality, it is because I have not shown it to you.


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RE: New honest and intelligent Dom saying "Hi." - 11/16/2011 11:05:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: loriellen



Dearest Richard, love of my life-
Perhaps I know all I need to know now. You are being so open with strangers, yet you will sit there on the phone with me and accuse me of NOT communicating with YOU. Really? You would discuss these things openly, knowingly do so in an open forum, all the while knowing I would eventually read what you posted? And I turn myself inside out trying to figure out why you call me unreliable and imply that I am the one not interested in a commitment, and otherwise engage me in impossible conversations. You blame ME, so you can perhaps not feel guilty about looking at the profiles of other, more desirable submissives?

You have wounded me in ways you cannot possibly imagine.




Well, there you have it, from the woman herself. You go, girl!

Sounds like the consensus here is your man's a douchecanoe, though really the only opinion that counts here is yours. You are a submissive female; news flash, sweetpea: you're in high demand! You can do better. Much better. Take that and run with it. Whatshisass your overly verbose windbag 'dom' just buried himself 6 feet under.

I suggest giving DarkSteven a shout. He knows from whence he speaks, and he's a hella nice guy too. Welcome to the boards. Enjoy your freedom and may you and a wonderful man find each other.

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RE: New honest and intelligent Dom saying "Hi." - 11/16/2011 11:12:45 AM   
Lockit


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quote:

ORIGINAL: loriellen


quote:

ORIGINAL: RichardAS
nor is she proving to be reliable in a relationship (which I am interested in), and I am looking at other submissive profiles and finding myself a little more than casually interested - none of which I expected, either.

So, I suspect I'll be participating more in the CM community than I thought I would be; and by this statement alone, I can see that I am leaning away from my current relationship with a submissive who is non-committal and towards a relationship with a submissive who would be more interested in a committed relationship.

Now I'm going to have to deal with my submissive reading this - which should help the relationship to no end.

- Richard
Now I'm going to have to deal with my submissive reading this - which should help the relationship to no end.


Dearest Richard, love of my life-
Perhaps I know all I need to know now. You are being so open with strangers, yet you will sit there on the phone with me and accuse me of NOT communicating with YOU. Really? You would discuss these things openly, knowingly do so in an open forum, all the while knowing I would eventually read what you posted? And I turn myself inside out trying to figure out why you call me unreliable and imply that I am the one not interested in a commitment, and otherwise engage me in impossible conversations. You blame ME, so you can perhaps not feel guilty about looking at the profiles of other, more desirable submissives?

You have wounded me in ways you cannot possibly imagine.




Wow... I feel for you darlin! This was so uncool! Please consider what MistressDarkArt has said. Time after time I have watched people give far more than someone was worth and they need to find someone worth all they give... one of the most precious things in life... their heart. Go find a heart which is open and honest and true, that will be worth all you have been giving. Good luck to you and gentle hugs for the heartbreak.


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RE: New honest and intelligent Dom saying "Hi." - 11/16/2011 12:21:01 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: loriellen


quote:

ORIGINAL: RichardAS
nor is she proving to be reliable in a relationship (which I am interested in), and I am looking at other submissive profiles and finding myself a little more than casually interested - none of which I expected, either.

So, I suspect I'll be participating more in the CM community than I thought I would be; and by this statement alone, I can see that I am leaning away from my current relationship with a submissive who is non-committal and towards a relationship with a submissive who would be more interested in a committed relationship.

Now I'm going to have to deal with my submissive reading this - which should help the relationship to no end.

- Richard
Now I'm going to have to deal with my submissive reading this - which should help the relationship to no end.


Dearest Richard, love of my life-
Perhaps I know all I need to know now. You are being so open with strangers, yet you will sit there on the phone with me and accuse me of NOT communicating with YOU. Really? You would discuss these things openly, knowingly do so in an open forum, all the while knowing I would eventually read what you posted? And I turn myself inside out trying to figure out why you call me unreliable and imply that I am the one not interested in a commitment, and otherwise engage me in impossible conversations. You blame ME, so you can perhaps not feel guilty about looking at the profiles of other, more desirable submissives?

You have wounded me in ways you cannot possibly imagine.





You mean this has been on the forum for 6 days and he still didn't have the bottle to talk to you about it. Yet he is supposed to be a Dom. Someone to be looked up to and respected.


Loriellen, do yourself a favour hun. Kick him to the kerb. You can do so much better than him. There are lots of decent Dom's out there. No matter what he says to you, you really are worthy. Not of a wannadom, but a real one. One that is a man and not some spoilt child that never grew up.

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RE: New honest and intelligent Dom saying "Hi." - 11/16/2011 12:49:18 PM   
Fornica


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O snap.
Loriellen, please tell me you ditched the asshat.
quote:

ORIGINAL: loriellen


quote:

ORIGINAL: RichardAS
nor is she proving to be reliable in a relationship (which I am interested in), and I am looking at other submissive profiles and finding myself a little more than casually interested - none of which I expected, either.

So, I suspect I'll be participating more in the CM community than I thought I would be; and by this statement alone, I can see that I am leaning away from my current relationship with a submissive who is non-committal and towards a relationship with a submissive who would be more interested in a committed relationship.

Now I'm going to have to deal with my submissive reading this - which should help the relationship to no end.

- Richard
Now I'm going to have to deal with my submissive reading this - which should help the relationship to no end.


Dearest Richard, love of my life-
Perhaps I know all I need to know now. You are being so open with strangers, yet you will sit there on the phone with me and accuse me of NOT communicating with YOU. Really? You would discuss these things openly, knowingly do so in an open forum, all the while knowing I would eventually read what you posted? And I turn myself inside out trying to figure out why you call me unreliable and imply that I am the one not interested in a commitment, and otherwise engage me in impossible conversations. You blame ME, so you can perhaps not feel guilty about looking at the profiles of other, more desirable submissives?

You have wounded me in ways you cannot possibly imagine.





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RE: New honest and intelligent Dom saying "Hi." - 11/16/2011 12:57:39 PM   
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quote:

Here's what loriellen had to say about him;
"Everybody has balls on the Internet."
... and;
"He must think he's real special."


I'm wondering about the above post.  The OP APPEARS to have discussed this thread w/loriellen or he's pissing & telling us it's raining.

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RE: New honest and intelligent Dom saying "Hi." - 11/16/2011 1:04:19 PM   
ChatteParfaitt


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quote:

You mean this has been on the forum for 6 days and he still didn't have the bottle to talk to you about it. Yet he is supposed to be a Dom. Someone to be looked up to and respected.


Loriellen, do yourself a favour hun. Kick him to the kerb. You can do so much better than him. There are lots of decent Dom's out there. No matter what he says to you, you really are worthy. Not of a wannadom, but a real one. One that is a man and not some spoilt child that never grew up.


I take it this was Richard's way of doing the deed. He was too chicken to break up with her in person, so he posted here. That way he can (in his mind) not be the bad guy, b/c she kicked HIS ass to the curb, not the other way around.

Wow, just wow.

You know when this thing started I purposely stayed out of it, wondering how it would unfold, suspecting Richard for a dick but wanting to withhold judgement. (I do think this boards can be far too judgmental at times).

What can I say? You all nailed him to the wall and then loriellen came in stuck the knife in him.

In case you need one more vote of support, loriellen, move on and don't take this guy back. Apparently he can only see your faults, and not his own.






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RE: New honest and intelligent Dom saying "Hi." - 11/16/2011 1:08:48 PM   
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Very sorry you had to find out this way, loriellen. I wish you better luck for the future...

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RE: New honest and intelligent Dom saying "Hi." - 11/16/2011 1:09:16 PM   
ChatteParfaitt


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Deleted a double posting that I am blaming on CM (as opposed to user error)

< Message edited by ChatteParfaitt -- 11/16/2011 1:10:56 PM >


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RE: New honest and intelligent Dom saying "Hi." - 11/16/2011 1:14:41 PM   
poise


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quote:

ORIGINAL: VirginPotty

quote:

Here's what loriellen had to say about him;
"Everybody has balls on the Internet."
... and;
"He must think he's real special."


I'm wondering about the above post.  The OP APPEARS to have discussed this thread w/loriellen
or he's pissing & telling us it's raining.


Loriellen, my dear loriellen, there are mean people on the internet, and they are calling my
character into question! Please soothe my shattered ego as only you can, and make me whole again.


The funny thing is, he supposedly discussed this with her yesterday, and yet she wasn't curious enough
to come see what he was talking about until this morning? And only then because someone was questioning
whether or not she even existed?

Another funny thing is, loriellen could very well be describing Richard when she says
"Everybody on the internet has balls". It's a shame she found out thats the only place he has them.
If she actually isn't just a figment of Richards drama filled fantasy.

< Message edited by poise -- 11/16/2011 1:17:27 PM >


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RE: New honest and intelligent Dom saying "Hi." - 11/16/2011 1:16:36 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: loriellen


quote:

ORIGINAL: RichardAS
nor is she proving to be reliable in a relationship (which I am interested in), and I am looking at other submissive profiles and finding myself a little more than casually interested - none of which I expected, either.

So, I suspect I'll be participating more in the CM community than I thought I would be; and by this statement alone, I can see that I am leaning away from my current relationship with a submissive who is non-committal and towards a relationship with a submissive who would be more interested in a committed relationship.

Now I'm going to have to deal with my submissive reading this - which should help the relationship to no end.

- Richard
Now I'm going to have to deal with my submissive reading this - which should help the relationship to no end.


Dearest Richard, love of my life-
Perhaps I know all I need to know now. You are being so open with strangers, yet you will sit there on the phone with me and accuse me of NOT communicating with YOU. Really? You would discuss these things openly, knowingly do so in an open forum, all the while knowing I would eventually read what you posted? And I turn myself inside out trying to figure out why you call me unreliable and imply that I am the one not interested in a commitment, and otherwise engage me in impossible conversations. You blame ME, so you can perhaps not feel guilty about looking at the profiles of other, more desirable submissives?

You have wounded me in ways you cannot possibly imagine.




Richard, you ignorant slut. You need to man up and be honest, truthful and above all, COMMUNICATE. I have this thing about ending things badly. I bust my ass to end things positively no matter how it hurts. You have given this women the fuzzy end of the lollipop....no Dom i would submit to would have those traits.

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RE: New honest and intelligent Dom saying "Hi." - 11/16/2011 2:24:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: anniezz338



Richard, you ignorant slut.


BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! I haven't heard that line in forever.

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RE: New honest and intelligent Dom saying "Hi." - 11/16/2011 3:31:29 PM   
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This sounds like a page out of The Young and the Restless. I dont believe a word of it. Nice fictional story btw.
Im calling bullshit.

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RE: New honest and intelligent Dom saying "Hi." - 11/16/2011 5:25:13 PM   
Fornica


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It was a fun read regardless xD
quote:

ORIGINAL: JanahX

This sounds like a page out of The Young and the Restless. I dont believe a word of it. Nice fictional story btw.
Im calling bullshit.



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RE: New honest and intelligent Dom saying "Hi." - 11/16/2011 5:28:37 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: JanahX

This sounds like a page out of The Young and the Restless. I dont believe a word of it. Nice fictional story btw.
Im calling bullshit.


If it was fiction, hope the OP keeps his day job since NOBODY would buy it!

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RE: New honest and intelligent Dom saying "Hi." - 11/16/2011 5:33:44 PM   
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Ok, Obligatory polite "Welcome to CM"

And to the girl in question.... well said and well said again

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RE: New honest and intelligent Dom saying "Hi." - 11/16/2011 6:27:33 PM   
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Thank goodness. I thought I was the only one that didn't buy this load.

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RE: New honest and intelligent Dom saying "Hi." - 11/16/2011 6:28:37 PM   
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RE: New honest and intelligent Dom saying "Hi." - 11/16/2011 7:04:41 PM   
Iamsemisweet


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God, this is worse than breaking up with someone by leaving them a voicemail. Breaking up by message board? That is really cold. If I were loriellen, I would get a new phone number, all new email addresses, and never speak to that asshole again.
It actually sounds like something from a really bad "Sex in the City" episode.

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RE: New honest and intelligent Dom saying "Hi." - 11/16/2011 7:07:54 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: JanahX

This sounds like a page out of The Young and the Restless. I dont believe a word of it. Nice fictional story btw.
Im calling bullshit.



This.



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