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RE: got a ? for sub boys - 12/31/2011 8:28:07 PM

FantasyKisses

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That's because there are no true submissve males. They are all so willing to "serve" because they think that means "tie me up and get me off".

That's entirely untrue miss Amy. I've been in the Life for nearly 20 years to one degree or another--pre 'net. There not only are very submissive men out there, there are submissive straight men out there.

If you doubt it, go to your local munches, dungeons, or Lifestyle clubs. My brothers of the bruised rose are most certainly out there and so beautiful for stepping outside socially-imposed ideals of masculinity equating to dominance. Kudos to them!

(Post edit: formatting issues.)

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RE: got a ? for sub boys - 12/31/2011 8:36:20 PM

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I realize for females the challenges are different. Can the sub boys explain why (some) so many of you are so very willing to serve a female Dominant without knowing them? Depending on the state and local taxation...it's generally cheaper to move abruptly.

My question doesn't have a tone, I'm just trying to understand how I can get emails, daily, from boys willing to meet me without knowing what I look like, or knowing me as a person at all.

Well, that's because you're a chic.

See, here's how the math works (I'm here to help).

There are exactly 12 kabillion, 900 quintillion male subs to every ONE Domme.

Ergo and hence....your email load (Glad I could help).

I understand needing to serve, I get that. Just as badly as I want someone to serve me. But I need to get to know someone on a vanilla level as much as a bdsm level. Well that's just a waste of time dammit! Men have things to do.....on a related note....all you women bitch about the fact that men cum too fast....that we need to "be there to stay with you while you get off". WOW!!!! How fucking focused on you can you be?

Do you have ANY fucking concept how busy we are?

We are NOT selfish.....we're efficient!

Things to do, people to see.....and all that.

(Gentlemen.....brotherhood....help me out here).

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RE: got a ? for sub boys - 12/31/2011 8:38:59 PM

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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

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ORIGINAL: LovelyLady39

I realize for females the challenges are different. Can the sub boys explain why (some) so many of you are so very willing to serve a female Dominant without knowing them? Depending on the state and local taxation...it's generally cheaper to move abruptly.

My question doesn't have a tone, I'm just trying to understand how I can get emails, daily, from boys willing to meet me without knowing what I look like, or knowing me as a person at all.

Well, that's because you're a chic.

See, here's how the math works (I'm here to help).

There are exactly 12 kabillion, 900 quintillion male subs to every ONE Domme.

Ergo and hence....your email load (Glad I could help).

I understand needing to serve, I get that. Just as badly as I want someone to serve me. But I need to get to know someone on a vanilla level as much as a bdsm level. Well that's just a waste of time dammit! Men have things to do.....on a related note....all you women bitch about the fact that men cum too fast....that we need to "be there to stay with you while you get off". WOW!!!! How fucking focused on you can you be?

Do you have ANY fucking concept how busy we are?

We are NOT selfish.....we're efficient!

Things to do, people to see.....and all that.

(Gentlemen.....brotherhood....help me out here).

You make me laugh sir. Thank you! (Normally I lurk, but ...)

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RE: got a ? for sub boys - 12/31/2011 8:58:20 PM

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ORIGINAL: FantasyKisses

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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

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ORIGINAL: LovelyLady39

I realize for females the challenges are different. Can the sub boys explain why (some) so many of you are so very willing to serve a female Dominant without knowing them? Depending on the state and local taxation...it's generally cheaper to move abruptly.

My question doesn't have a tone, I'm just trying to understand how I can get emails, daily, from boys willing to meet me without knowing what I look like, or knowing me as a person at all.

Well, that's because you're a chic.

See, here's how the math works (I'm here to help).

There are exactly 12 kabillion, 900 quintillion male subs to every ONE Domme.

Ergo and hence....your email load (Glad I could help).

I understand needing to serve, I get that. Just as badly as I want someone to serve me. But I need to get to know someone on a vanilla level as much as a bdsm level. Well that's just a waste of time dammit! Men have things to do.....on a related note....all you women bitch about the fact that men cum too fast....that we need to "be there to stay with you while you get off". WOW!!!! How fucking focused on you can you be?

Do you have ANY fucking concept how busy we are?

We are NOT selfish.....we're efficient!

Things to do, people to see.....and all that.

(Gentlemen.....brotherhood....help me out here).

You make me laugh sir. Thank you! (Normally I lurk, but ...)

That's what they pay me $2.73 an hour for.

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RE: got a ? for sub boys - 1/2/2012 10:35:41 AM

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I think it's probably the same answer as to why more guys are willing to go to a prostitute/call girl who they don't know at all. That is basically a kink-based fetish rather than a person-based fetish relationship. Guys often fail to se that if you'd submit to anyone or anything, site unseen, it's basically just saying that you place no worth on the Dominant besides them being dominant. They might as well be a Dom-O-Matic robot, or an inverted trash can with a frowny face painted on it.

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RE: got a ? for sub boys - 1/2/2012 12:08:38 PM

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i believe there are a few reasons subs are willing to serve You without any real knowledge of You.

First, men whether in the vanilla world or in the BDSM world are willing to have sex or the BDSM equivalent with women they don't know. I guess it is part of the hole natural selection and finding as many partmers as possible.

Second, there are a lot more Mistresses then slaves so men are willing to serve a Mistress first and then find out if they are compatable later.

Third, part of being a slave is not having a choice as to what You do and having to serve a person You do not even know just because you are a slave is kinda hot.

These are just some reasons i could see me serving a Mistress that i knew very little about

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RE: got a ? for sub boys - 1/4/2012 5:54:45 AM

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find it insulting you would compartmenalize sub males as you do! Secondly, if you are able to separate BDSM, then you most likely the true sadist you porport to be, boohoo, you didn't get the dolly for your fifth birthday you wanted to behead
most will never understand a submissive individual, other than for your own gratification.
ps, kudos "darksteven", one could learn from you

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RE: got a ? for sub boys - 1/4/2012 5:58:48 AM

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Second, there are a lot more Mistresses then slaves so men are willing to serve a Mistress first and then find out if they are compatable later.

Maybe pros, but not lifestyle dommes.

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