outlier
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ORIGINAL: outlier As a man I cannot imagine any woman I was intimate with not thinking that I found hers to be wonderful. Otherwise why would I like to visit so often and lavish affection on it? I see the vagina as the essential physical manifestation of the female with whom I am involved. What's not to love? A wonderful sentiment, indeed. Unfortunately, not all men get warm and fuzzy when... *cough* faced with a woman's nether regions. Perfect just doesn't seem to be an adjective even considered for that particular piece of womanhood. It's sad I know, but from my own personal experiences, I believe a good majority of men are loathed to get within visual range of a woman's bottom side, and consider it nothing more than place to masturbate. Add that to the unrealistic ideals of womanly beauty set by the more commercial industries out there, and it is no wonder that ordinary women will go to unbelievable lengths to try to attract and keep their men interested... and maybe occasionally get a little attention in that area. Hello Treasure, Thank you for your kind words. Your phrase "consider it nothing more than place to masturbate" is the key as I see it. Those people who stop at the level of the physical, either by choice or due to their own limitations frequently act this way. At least that is what I was told by the woman who christened me an "outlier". She was a psychologist who did a lot of work in the area of sexuality and women's health. It is also the case that we had those times when, I would demand she bring forth her most wanton aspects. Afterwards I would, in a number of ways, be certain she knew I still treasured her. It only makes sense to me. After all positive reinforcement is more effective than negative. I don't want to waste my time using a woman to masturbate. I want a woman who is worthwhile on multiple levels or I don't want to make the investment of time required. When I think I have such a woman than I want all of her. Not just all the physical; the emotional, the mental, the psychological, ......ALL OF HER! So I want her to feel good about opening up to me in all those ways. As I said, "What's not to love?" I hope you and FIRM have a GREAT HOLIDAY SEASON!
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