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sean333333 -> Looking for a 2nd wife. (11/20/2011 8:11:03 PM)

Good day,


Please if you need more info don't be bothered to ask. I'am Looking for a 2nd wife to my first. we are still in love but she has had some illness and cant have sex anymore due to her body not being able too. Looking for someone to fill my needs and hers. Looking for someone that is a submissive type personality that likes a strong man to take care of the household. Looking formone that likes to clean and help 1st wife cook. Looking for someone that can hang out and just be themselves and be willing to fill my needs when I want them when I want them ... yes sex.  I'am a Dominate type male that only into females. Please live close to Vancouver, Wa or willing to relocate. Looking for someone that wants to have a LTR with a future of having kids with me.


If any of this catch's your eye and you want to know more please contact me and lets see where we can go with this.




DarkSteven -> RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. (11/20/2011 8:28:40 PM)

Um.  Hi, Sean.  You have a few strikes against you.

1.  Your profile nowhere mentions that you are married or even in a relationship.
2. Your profile of course does not explain how you expect wife #2 to interact with wife #1.  Nor does your post here.


Congratulations on your honesty and welcome to collarme.




lizi -> RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. (11/20/2011 8:55:17 PM)

Well good luck with things, it might be difficult finding that special woman who will fit your household. I'd have to agree with DS,  its a bit odd that you haven't mentioned your wife in your profile? You might like to do that so women will know where they stand with you and what exactly you're looking for. 




sean333333 -> RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. (11/20/2011 9:03:31 PM)

Honestly... didn't see a spot to add her. If you would like to know more about her... shes a Southern Belle that at one time was everything I wanted and needed. 6 months after marring her she came down with Lupus then she got Fibro then ya cancer and ya been with her for 8 years and haven't had sex in 7 years. Due to her being ill and Doctors telling us its not a good idea.. we wanted a lot in life.. and he illness as taken most of it away. She has recently told me she doesn't want to lose me and is open to me have lovers or a open relationship with her. I would rather find someone that can move in and be my 2nd wife. My profile was made for me not her but i do see a option to put her information in too and will fix this. Thanks for the heads up!

Sean




HeatherMcLeather -> RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. (11/20/2011 10:05:41 PM)

Good for you! Good luck in your search, my only piece of advice is to remember that wife #2 needs to appeal to wife #1 as much, if not more, than she appeals to you.




sean333333 -> RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. (11/21/2011 12:53:05 AM)

"[Awaiting Approval]" hmmm?




xxblushesxx -> RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. (11/21/2011 1:28:39 AM)

Exactly why do the doctors say she can't have sex?




Ogrelord999 -> RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. (11/21/2011 2:57:30 AM)

Hmmmm ... :::Sniffs Air :::::




lelloy -> RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. (11/21/2011 5:24:53 AM)

Yep, I smell it too.

Good luck with that.




KnightofMists -> RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. (11/21/2011 5:30:26 AM)

Quickly steps out of the way before the stampede of applicants rushes to this stars door.............


Was that a pin dropping?




xxblushesxx -> RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. (11/21/2011 5:31:51 AM)

I thought maybe it was the first shoe...




Fornica -> RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. (11/21/2011 6:00:59 AM)

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kalikshama -> RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. (11/21/2011 6:02:29 AM)

She's 36 and can't have sex anymore?!?

As someone who has struggled with weight issues, I suggest with all sincerity that what you both need to find is not a second wife but a gym.

Don't believe me? Watch any of the Biggest Loser season's episode 2 when the doctor tell the contestants how their weight is affecting their health and longevity.




Fornica -> RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. (11/21/2011 6:03:53 AM)

This was an amazing journal entry, btw. Esp since you list yourself and your wife as morbidly obese.

Um. Read them, ppl.




Fornica -> RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. (11/21/2011 6:05:31 AM)

If you've been with her all that time, why the fuck are you just now adding her to your profile and pretending not to have thought of it before? You've been seeking (according to you) a chick for over 4 years on here.




kalikshama -> RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. (11/21/2011 6:06:46 AM)

Double face palm indeed.












Rule -> RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. (11/21/2011 6:07:13 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sean333333
I'am Looking for a 2nd wife to my first. we are still in love but she has had some illness and cant have sex anymore due to her body not being able too.

She probably has got some contagious disease and she either got it from you or she has given it to you. So now you, as you are likely a carrier, want to infect another woman with the cause of her disease too?




Fornica -> RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. (11/21/2011 6:08:34 AM)

Thanks! Edited.




LillyBoPeep -> RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. (11/21/2011 6:10:02 AM)

It's not a weight issue, she has lupus, fibro, and cancer. She may not feel well enough to go to the gym or do much of anything.

OP, good luck finding what you're looking for. If this second person is going to be a 2nd wife, and move in and have a relationship with you and your wife, you have to take your wife's feelings and compatibilities into account, too. Don't lead with your dick, be patient and thoughtful, and find someone who will really mesh well with you and your wife. If your wife is too ill to go out, this person will have to be willing to come to the house and get to know her.
Go ramble through KnightofMists posts -- I'm not poly, but to me, he and his family are a great example of a functional poly relationship that fulfills everyone involved.

Your wife is dealing with a lot, so don't take advantage of that. The home still needs to be a place where she can be comfortable, too, and hopefully you'll find a Second who cares just as much for your wife as you want her to care for you and your needs.




ashjor911 -> RE: Looking for a 2nd wife. (11/21/2011 6:12:25 AM)

What did I miss?




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