LookieNoNookie
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ORIGINAL: lizi I can understand especially for a submissive man the reluctance to even take a chance at being found out. However, the other side of this is that a woman is going to need to see if she's attracted to you. If I were considering someone, I'd have to see them before I'd agree to meet them, preferably before we'd started talking on the phone. I need to know if I'll be wanting to invest any time. I can feel a connection to someone over the computer and it means nothing, I need to know if there's even a chance that I want to keep nudging things along or just stop it now. ESPECIALLY if they're a leader in a local community, ESPECIALLY if they have any kind of presence beyond local. (ESPECIALLY if they have a presence nationally or internationally). Yeah, ok, I already agreed with you silly. So do you send one after you've started corresponding with someone? Depends.
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