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ORIGINAL: zumala

Okay, I just had someone contact me who seems to have read my profile and can actually combine the English language and a keyboard with decent proficiency.  Which is nice to see.  However, what they actually SAID has just thrown me for a loop.  What I want to know is, is my reaction intelligent and reasonable?
 
Here's the scenario.  My profile states that I'm married to a submissive male and that we're both interested in non-sexual training (D/s mostly) with the right people.  So I get mail from a couple (which again, is in line with what my profile indicates is desired) saying they will be happy to train and would "you and your husband be open to having you come to" their location for a weekend.
 
For some reason I read that as 'would you both be willing to come here'.  I asked them why they would offer to train both of us when their profile states they're looking for a beta slave (female only) and they responded that PTE was another interest of theirs.  I stated that going to their location would be expensive.  They said they would pay for my travel and then clarified that my husband was not invited.  That no sexual service would be required, but that nudity, breast play, and spanking would be part of the training.
 
Now...  First off, I don't like stripping down for a doctor, much less a stranger that wants to spank me.  Secondly, I'm a shy type of person.  Thirdly... how can one train both myself and my husband if I'm the only one there?  They suggest I take back what I learn to him, but that just doesn't sound like it would be nearly as effective.
 
To sum it up, the invite to just travel to them raised a red flag.  The clarification that I would be expected to go there alone raised a stadium full of red flags.  Am I right in responding this way, or am I over-reacting?
 
Thanks.
 
zuma