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Unobtanium2011 -> How do you find it... (12/11/2011 2:17:58 PM)
I'm new to serving as a submissive boy, and my dome is interested in some things I haven't tried before. Msotly my question is about queening... I've only ever orally pleased my go's in the past, and for them it was just about excitement. What do female domino's expect when they 'queen' their subs? I'm sorry this is vague and a little naive, but i really want to serve her well

kalikshama -> RE: How do you find it... (12/11/2011 3:34:36 PM)
As you'll get a different answer from everyone you ask, best to ask your D. eta - are you posting from your phone? Your post was really hard to read.

MariaB -> RE: How do you find it... (12/11/2011 4:06:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Unobtanium2011 What do female domino's expect when they 'queen' their subs? You simply do exactly what she tells you to do!

AdorkableAiley -> RE: How do you find it... (12/11/2011 6:24:15 PM)
Well when I play dominoes... wait what? [&:] Ailey

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: How do you find it... (12/11/2011 7:14:59 PM)
I didn't know dominoes came in two genders, I thought there was only one kind. [;)] Just teasing you. Seriously though, you should ask YOUR Domme what it is she wants or gets out of it, if you want to know. I like it....sometimes....but my answers will probably be different than hers. Or maybe not. There's no way of knowing w/o comparing notes. Bottom line? Ask her. NBMG

caelestis -> RE: How do you find it... (12/11/2011 7:15:37 PM)
We can't tell you that, only she can. D or s, kink or vanilla, there isn't one way for each type of woman. [:D]

BoxwineForBrunch -> RE: How do you find it... (12/12/2011 4:09:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Unobtanium2011 I'm new to serving as a submissive boy, and my dome is interested in some things I haven't tried before. Msotly my question is about queening... I've only ever orally pleased my go's in the past, and for them it was just about excitement. What do female domino's expect when they 'queen' their subs? I'm sorry this is vague and a little naive, but i really want to serve her well honey, no

lizi -> RE: How do you find it... (12/12/2011 8:45:14 AM)
Well, my partner and I play the eye doctor game with oral. He says do you like this.....or this.....and then I tell him which feels better. Kind of like when your eye doctor says which is better, this lens, or this one? Obviously you need real time interaction with her to know what she likes, bodies are all different. I can see what you're trying to do here in preparing yourself, sorry, but there really isn't a clear answer for anyone to give you. Good luck with things.

Lucylastic -> RE: How do you find it... (12/12/2011 3:34:19 PM)
Excellent advice Lizi!! Disclaimer following **Im not going to go into online versus real time, because the differences should be obvious to everyone, and not everyone manages to get offline queening everytime they feel the need to "play" queen"*** I would only ask, is this for online or offline queening Online queening..read some lesbian porn, with regard to oral.. , while im not bi, most regular porn is written with guys in mind, and unless its written by a femdom in detail, it will likely be disapointing for a femdom to read. Also some Femdoms "queening", is another femdoms "smothering" so it might be a good idea as to what her definition is. For some its oral service, licking, kissing, "eating" of the pussy, for some it is simply face sitting, in underwear, clothed or nekid nether regions it can include, pussy and or the ass.. penetration, suction, or light strokes As Lizi stated...Find out thru the game, .. we are all different in likes and sensitivities, play smart:) Online is easy, you dont HAVE to do anything except type well and be attentive, Offline is a whole lot harder, to focus on her needs not yours, your sensations and hers, and be attentive:) Oh and Breath when you can, or learn to breath thru your ears Most of all ensure its enjoyed:) Just my opinion and my POV.

Buzzzz -> RE: How do you find it... (12/17/2011 1:56:28 PM)
drooling over Lucylastic's ass :)

Lockit -> RE: How do you find it... (12/17/2011 2:21:02 PM)
I am surely going to be looking at those domino's differently than I did before today! I will never not laugh at a domino again! ROFL! I used to see them all lined up to flip and watch... now... they are all going to be queening too. I need a break! [:D]

tazzygirl -> RE: How do you find it... (12/17/2011 5:51:45 PM)
I saw the title and thought.... you reach down and there it is... but then I read the posts... [:D]

SimplyMichael -> RE: How do you find it... (12/17/2011 7:51:55 PM)
I am too lazy to type up something new but some of this will be useful... quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael Ms C, Performing oral sex on a woman is hard for some men because they do not understand that every woman's body is different. I know some women who you can suck JUST their clit into your mouth, suck and nibble on it and they go mad with pleasure, other's like yourself would just get mad... The trick is to first understand that for MOST women while pleasure is centered around the clit, that you need to discover how much sensation is right, starting soft and then slowly adding sensation till you get it right. I start with the lightest of butterflies with my tongue, so light some women might not even notice. If they are sensitive... only the softest caresses with the tongue direct perhaps none at all if they are really sensitive. If so, then start soft and find the right pressure near or around the clit. I dance my tongue most in air so that it feels like a butterfly when it just touches the high point of the clit or whatever I am aiming for. If they like lots of pressure... All sorts of things, sucking the clit into the mouth can be hot, it is like firecupping/hickies, it releases endorphins AND pleasure. VERY light biting or not... Sucking the clit into the mouth and then shaking your head side to side or pumping it up and down while pressed against the clit Misc. Again, depending on the woman, few really enjoy being pumped with a finger. HOWEVER, sliding one in and playing the G spot often DOES work. Pulsing that or any play with the same motion as the tongue so every bit of sensation you are giving comes in the same rhythm, REALLY works on someone who has a hard time cumming, it sort of makes sorting out the sensation easier or something Again, women differ, some are not into anal sex but simply touching, especially when they are close to cumming, their area around or on their ass often yields yelps of pleasure, again, pulsing that with your tongue works. Finger in both, priceless... I don't recommend this for male submissives but grabbing the bitches hair and lifting her head up so she HAS to look at you, especially a bit before she comes, lock eyes with her, shake your head no and slow down so they DON'T cum... Oh, and LA, I have my red wings too so PLENTY of us dominants LOVE eating pussy!

Focus50 -> RE: How do you find it... (12/17/2011 8:06:10 PM)
OMFG, Tony Soprano's a sub - who likes to service domes and female domino's...! Thinks back with equal horror to that old video clip of the Rifleman (Chuck Connors) freckle-punching another guy.... <shiver> Not to mention the idea that the old domino set we played with (or handled) as kids apparently had genitalia...! Ick! No sleep tonight.... [8\|] Errrm, welcome to CollarMe, T. [:)] Focus.

Lockit -> RE: How do you find it... (12/17/2011 8:15:36 PM)
Not to mention the idea that the old domino set we played with (or handled) as kids apparently had genitalia...! Ick! ROFLMAO!!!!

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