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crazyml -> RE: Warning for sub's (12/20/2011 7:03:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Daddysgudgirl The ones hiding behind computer screens and never active in the actual BDSM community are becoming wiser with this, they have been outted... trying new tactics... "I'm very active womp womp womp" Don't believe it till you see it. They are up to new tricks!!![sm=iwin.gif] Is it your contention that a Dom has to be "active in the actual BDSM community" in order to be real, genuine, experienced and sane? [ED to add question mark]

crazyml -> RE: Warning for sub's (12/20/2011 7:05:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven I agree. I have seen several sub women set up their first meet at a munch or kink event. If the guy refuses to meet there, there's a reason. Depending on the munch, my "reason" might be - "They are a load of cliquey tosspots" I'm with the posters who have a preference for a nice vanilla cuppa as a first meeting.

MissImmortalPain -> RE: Warning for sub's (12/20/2011 10:10:45 AM)
fr PSA for the day is it? Than let me correct it for you.... EVERYONE should be careful when meeting strangers. It matters not what they call themselves or where they will be met. Stranger danger kids. There are nutty bugs everywhere, and I don't mean the kind you can catch and need a doctor to get rid of. It doesn't matter what side of the lash they are on. Or what side of the computer. It doesn't even matter if all their kink friends say they are "just fine" As to the munch thing...yeah there are some that can even hide there. I have a friend that is very much into the "community"...well she was, until she met a very sweet sub who when he was told she really didn't think things would work out beat her cat to death and nailed it to her front door. As far as I know he is still part of the "community" Safety first kids, check them, than yourself and don't do stupid things that would make your mother wonderful if she raised you or wild rabbits did.

searching4mysir -> RE: Warning for sub's (12/20/2011 10:24:47 AM)
FR Since I don't play publicly or casually, I have no ties to the "community" and don't go to munches at all and couldn't care less if Master had been in the community either. Group think isn't usually my thing anyway. I trust my instincts far more than I trust the opinions of strangers.

tazzygirl -> RE: Warning for sub's (12/20/2011 10:37:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crazyml quote: ORIGINAL: Daddysgudgirl The ones hiding behind computer screens and never active in the actual BDSM community are becoming wiser with this, they have been outted... trying new tactics... "I'm very active womp womp womp" Don't believe it till you see it. They are up to new tricks!!![sm=iwin.gif] Is it your contention that a Dom has to be "active in the actual BDSM community" in order to be real, genuine, experienced and sane? [ED to add question mark] I moved to live with a man without meeting him. I knew three of his exes. One lived down the street from him. No munch, no "community" attachments, and I was completely safe with him.

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Warning for sub's (12/20/2011 11:19:36 AM)
Just out of curiosity, how many submissive individuals have had to have plastic surgery because someone 're-arranged' their face for them? Is this some hushed up epidemic? Some kind of kink conspiracy? Now I iz askeerd. Someone hold me?[sm=needahug.gif]

kalikshama -> RE: Warning for sub's (12/20/2011 11:49:13 AM)
quote: If a man tells you he helped start a kink event or tells you he teaches this or says he is a pro or Master of ANYTHING. Do the homework, with what men tell you they do, have or whatever. You have a right to be informed. Ask the right questions, Its not snooping, its not sneaky, its covering you're ass and being smart. Email the website or person in charge and ASK! Ask for a reference of character. While I don't see anything wrong with verifying, I personally just meet for coffee or a meal.

Lucylastic -> RE: Warning for sub's (12/20/2011 1:43:04 PM)
I just wants to hug Winnie cos Im a deviant strickly dickly dominant and after squishing her bits to add a notch to my wall. Beware dominates and submittives because they come in all flavours, crazy and eh not so much.and they are the good ones!

stef -> RE: Warning for sub's (12/20/2011 1:52:08 PM)
I had dinner last week with a man who said he discovered the element carbon and his wife who claimed to have invented the harpsichord. I feel like such a fool for not checking them out first. If only Daddysgudgirl had been here sooner I would have known better!

OsideGirl -> RE: Warning for sub's (12/20/2011 2:05:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder Personally I would never meet someone at a munch or a play party. I always preferred the old fashioned way...one on one for dinner or coffee or a walk in the park. To me meeting someone at a munch or a play party is just creepy and I would get the feeling that there was some kind of hint of play or posturing for others. I'm the same way. I was make very clear that our first meeting would have nothing to do with BDSM or D/s. So, meeting at a party or an event would have made for a mixed signal. Part 2 is that if I go to a social or a party, I'm there to see friends. If you meet and don't like him, you're stuck dealing with him for the rest of the evening. As for the OP: What you've posted is just common sense. While appreciate the intention, I would hope that what you've said would be painfully obvious.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Warning for sub's (12/20/2011 3:45:33 PM)
~envious of Stef having dates with 500 yr olds~

Fornica -> RE: Warning for sub's (12/20/2011 3:51:05 PM)
sadly rips up the plane ticket she just purchased to go meet crazyml Thank you, OP, for saving me from myself.

DaddySatyr -> RE: Warning for sub's (12/20/2011 4:00:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stef I had dinner last week with a man who said he discovered the element carbon and his wife who claimed to have invented the harpsichord. I feel like such a fool for not checking them out first. If only Daddysgudgirl had been here sooner I would have known better! Hey!!! I invented the harpsichord (I couldn't afford the wood to make the whole piano)! Peace and comfort, Michael

Lucylastic -> RE: Warning for sub's (12/20/2011 4:13:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus ~envious of Stef having dates with 500 yr olds~ quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus ~envious of Stef having dates with 500 yr olds~ a bit musty n dusty for my taste [:D]

Azonier -> RE: Warning for sub's (12/20/2011 4:32:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lucylastic quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus ~envious of Stef having dates with 500 yr olds~ quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus ~envious of Stef having dates with 500 yr olds~ a bit musty n dusty for my taste [:D] That's not what you were saying last night...

Lucylastic -> RE: Warning for sub's (12/20/2011 4:36:34 PM)
I was nose gazing last night Oh Mighty One

Azonier -> RE: Warning for sub's (12/20/2011 4:48:43 PM)
Are you saying you were awe-inspired by my beautiful (and extensive) collection of noses?

Lucylastic -> RE: Warning for sub's (12/20/2011 4:56:00 PM)
Who knows groan I was mesmerized by the sheer awesomeness that is your self. I wont thumb my nose at another look

Azonier -> RE: Warning for sub's (12/20/2011 4:57:46 PM)
Ah...a nose joke! This woman really nose how to get my attention.

Lucylastic -> RE: Warning for sub's (12/20/2011 5:03:32 PM)
snot really hard:) I turn up my nose at some, but you inspire me:)

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