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What is the true meaning in BDSM of "switches"... - 12/22/2011 2:43:36 AM

mons

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Hello

I have receive many letters from submissive whom said they are "switches"! I was blasted by words the
other day when someone wrote to me and they had the word "switch" on the profile I am not sure if
I had written before but, i was not interested in a switch person! I made a mistake to me the defintion of a
"switch" is someone whom is interested in both sexes be is male or female"? Was i wrong which is the right way to
find out what the true meaning of switch is?

I do not wish to insult anyone again so please gave me the correct meaning and if i am wrong about the
wanting a male and a male but the also enjoy the company of a female!

Thanks so much
Mons

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RE: What is the true meaning in BDSM of "switches&... - 12/22/2011 9:09:01 AM

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Hello mons,

A switch is someone that can switch between being a dominant or a submissive basically.

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RE: What is the true meaning in BDSM of "switches&... - 12/22/2011 11:58:22 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit
A switch is someone that can switch between being a dominant or a submissive basically.

I get all excited about an all-too-rare post to "Ask a Switch", and it's even a question I can answer, and you have to go and give a perfect answer. Didn't even leave me room to correct you or add something useful you missed.

And I was all excited about showing off how I've made enough posts to move up from "Vanilla", too.

* pout *

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RE: What is the true meaning in BDSM of "switches&... - 12/22/2011 12:33:49 PM

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<pat pats Rex and gives him a (vanilla) cookie>

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RE: What is the true meaning in BDSM of "switches&... - 12/22/2011 1:24:03 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt
<pat pats Rex and gives him a (vanilla) cookie>

Vanilla cookie wants to go to the party in my tummy? Hurray! There's a party in my tummy (so yummy, so yummy).

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RE: What is the true meaning in BDSM of "switches&... - 12/23/2011 10:55:44 AM

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A person who's interested in both sexes is bisexual. A person who can be both Dominant and submissive is a switch.

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RE: What is the true meaning in BDSM of "switches&... - 12/25/2011 10:06:53 AM

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How is it that you have been on this site for six years and dont know the difference between Bi-sexual and a switch? I dont understand that.

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RE: What is the true meaning in BDSM of "switches&... - 12/25/2011 10:23:15 AM

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based on the way she writes i would guess english isn't her first language, so it isn't inconceivable that she didn't know the meaning of the word switch.

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RE: What is the true meaning in BDSM of "switches&... - 12/25/2011 10:29:59 AM

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and based on how many times she has posted here in english in response to other posts, I would think she not only is smart enough to understand english, but has the ability to read it and write it as well. She might even have the ablity to use the internet to look up terms that she doenst understand five years after the fact of posting on a BDSM website.

I dont know ... just a shot in the dark.

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RE: What is the true meaning in BDSM of "switches&... - 12/26/2011 1:02:20 PM

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I don't mind giving a little extra help to those who need it.

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RE: What is the true meaning in BDSM of "switches&... - 12/29/2011 2:48:44 AM

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Kalikshama thank you for being helpful, Lockit, also thank you! It is a rare person whom can help
someone!

Misery I looked at your profile, as an artist i see someone whom is very pretty, and you
have good taste in music i love Johnny Cash the Highway men! I do not see why someone
with intelligence and a good soul needs to follow someone with no profile at all! Pretty is as
Pretty does! I do not word fight with strangers! If you thought to get a response from me other then
this you made a mistake and now you look foolish, be a leader not a follower!

Janahx you may have hidden your profiler whom cares, as i said to misery go find someone
whom does cares, lol I do not care for school yard games this is the adult world your playing with
now, take care and do not do silly things! Many know of my learning problems but I can read
pass college level, so no harm! I wonder why you have no profiler?

girls play nice
mons

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RE: What is the true meaning in BDSM of "switches&... - 4/18/2012 8:14:46 AM

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Switch refers to enjoying both sides of being Dom/me or submissive. When referring to enjoying both genders that would be bi. So to describe me I would be a bisexual switch.

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