From: Sacramento, California
~shrug~ who knows. i'm really really clear in my profile that i'm looking for dialog and friends and NOT owners, dominants or play partners. all the same, i get a surprising number of people wanting just that.
*chortle* I just had the same exact experience here, and I just found this forum tonight. I was *immediately* getting messages from hopefuls as I was just beginning to set up my profile, so I slapped a note that clearly stated all I'm seeking is conversation - and yet, I'm still getting a few.
I can tell folks straight out, look I am just too busy to add another person into the chaotic mix that is my life - they *say* they grok that - and then a few weeks down the road they are hinting around and trying to get me to say if I might be interested soon or someday. <shakes head>
I'm always been of the opinion if it happens, so be it ... if it doesn't ... so be it.
I never understood this rush to start vulturing new faces rigt out the gate. For all they could know I'm some unbalanced nutcase! lol
Heck, weird I *may* be, odd too, but I sure as hell can balance my little heart out! LOL
< Message edited by ShadeDiva -- 3/31/2004 11:00:27 PM >
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