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RE: Where are all the serious lifestyle Domme and/or sw... - 12/31/2011 9:45:17 AM

LanceHughes

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And a subtle point:

Maybe the "good ones" from your point of view are in the type of relationship you seek. I can tell you on the gay side, the ratio of tops to bottoms has always been 1 to ten. I hear tell same ratio applies with Domme women to sub men, maybe even worse. So, you need to be in AT LEAST the top ten - get it? Furthemore, maybe, just maybe (as is true in the gay world) the "good Dommes" have found a sub and have removed themselves from the search. LadyPact pops to mind.

Sitting around isn't gonna "cut it."

As indicated by some above.... it is now "okay" for subs to approach Doms/Dommes.

I hope you enjoy the journey.

WELCOME to the boards.

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RE: Where are all the serious lifestyle Domme and/or sw... - 12/31/2011 7:33:49 PM

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Greetings and welcome to CM.. Personally, I think it's pretty pointless to rant and rave about the obvious in an intro forum. Not only does it give you a negative first impression, you've already seen how many others here will respond to it..

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RE: Where are all the serious lifestyle Domme and/or sw... - 1/1/2012 8:33:29 AM

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ORIGINAL: zenmoment

There seems to be plenty of pro-women that fit this category that aren't looking for any sort of relationship that typically lasts longer than a few sessions to have some fun and make a few bucks...

Yes, you are correct when you say there are a LOT of "Pro Dommes" on CM.

And there are a LOT of scams and petty thieves, too! People who want money for nothing ...

There also are a number of really legitimate, great people.

And real Dominant Women, too!

So it is a mixed bag.

But honestly, CM seems to work the same way real life does. Usually men need to approach women, regardless of the side of the kneel.

I do not even post a picture on my profile. It isn't necessary, and I have professional reasons not to.

I just read Ladies profiles, and if they seem compatable, I write them relating to their profile. It is basic Marketing 101.

When I write, I attach picture(s). Face and clothed! LOL

Sometimes it helps to have a little higher profile too. Like posting on the boards. Because there are lots of Women all over the world who do not post, but will read the boards, and then email you!

Of course this requires one to write write intelligent words, which I do not always do!

)

But posting here is not a requirement. I can get the same response rate with a profile that has never posted, too.

The trick is read Ladies profiles, and if they seem compatable, write them individually relating to their profile. As I said earlier, it is basic Marketing 101.

That is all!

Wish you luck! And from the earlier posts, it seems you have help, too!

PS: Typically, the ONLY way a submissive man has a chance to meet a Domme here is to write Her! And good letters are usually well received by Dommes, too!

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RE: Where are all the serious lifestyle Domme and/or sw... - 1/1/2012 10:18:48 AM

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Welcome to the boards. Good luck in your search.

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