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RE: Any sub feels they can adhere to all these rules? - 1/4/2012 7:12:37 PM   
Lucylastic


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Status: offline 		if its against your "limits "as on the other thread, I can see why you think its unrealistic.
Many of them would be unrealistic for me as a woman, but as a dominant, not wildly hilarious, change them down to fit gender


1st my slut will have a full bush on her ........not unreasonable, but I prefer trimmed or nude and yes, its required

2nd my slut must swallow her master ...the visual is making my jaws hurt, but , as I like oral on myself, its not unreasonable and eating on demand is a requirement.

3rd ass fucking, my slut will be fucked in the ass whenever master wants to.......... Again not unreasonable, IF You know that your master has some sense of decorum and isnt gonna do you in the middle of the shopping mall over a foodcourt table. However if it is a hard limit of yours then it should be respected or at least negotiated/discussed.

4, masters property will be shown off where ever and whenever master wants too.......... Again NOT unreasonable If you can trust him to negotiate limit inappropriate situations,

5th slut will never do anything behind her masters back.......... Oh I would want MUCH More clarification on that, LOL

6th other couples will be brought into play with master and his slut People change, limits change over time, BUT If it aint your thing right now, it aint your thing, I would NOT agree to this myself HOWEVER for many it is a happy part of their lives. so I dont find it unreasonable if negotiated properly

7th masters slut will compete against other subs for masters attention . Not my idea of smart at all

8th slut will sing a bum tit tit song every night entering the house and ask master if he would like to sick his thumb up sluts bum . Humilation is a funny thing, or not. I dont think its unreasonable. WIth the right person you could be fine with it, but witht he wrong person, it can be very very unpleasant and damaging.
9th photos will be taken of my slut where ever i want in anyway i want I have taken pics, but I have a healthy sense of decorum and understanding of how damaging they can be. I have an awful lot of proven trust invested, others may feel different, its JMHO

Be smart with yourself, please, think about what you really want and if those rules are gonna help you find it. Submission means different things to different people. Find someone who will respect you, not abuse you.

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RE: Any sub feels they can adhere to all these rules? - 1/4/2012 7:15:43 PM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		Some can accept those points. Some can not. So what is your point? Are you trying to show a submissive how unreasonable she is? If you are, you have lost.

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RE: Any sub feels they can adhere to all these rules? - 1/4/2012 9:30:46 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: jaslyn82

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ORIGINAL: BKSir
There's your answer then. :)

I already know it's a no for me, but the purpose of this is that I am curious how much of these are acceptable to other subs out there.


It's not that simple.  There are subs that would do things for me they wouldn't do for others, and vice versa.


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RE: Any sub feels they can adhere to all these rules? - 1/4/2012 10:15:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		I find the list ludicrous. If I was just talking to someone and he said that this is what he expected in his "slut". I would know he and I are not compatible.

Next thing you know he would be asking me to be kneeling with my legs open and my palms resting on my thighs.

Now, if someone I was already involved with brought these things up I would probably be ok with doing things he wanted, even if he put it in the ridiculous way this list was presented. But, if he started to call me his slut I might be laughing too hard to carry anything out.
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ORIGINAL: jaslyn82

1st my slut will have a full bush on her

2nd my slut must swallow her master

3rd ass fucking, my slut will be fucked in the ass whenever master wants to

4, masters property will be shown off where ever and whenever master wants too

5th  slut will never do anything behind her masters back

6th other couples will be brought into play with master and his slut

7th masters slut will compete against  other subs for masters attention .

8th slut will sing a bum tit tit song every night entering the house and ask master if he would like to sick his thumb up sluts bum .

9th photos will be taken of my slut where ever i want in anyway i want



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RE: Any sub feels they can adhere to all these rules? - 1/4/2012 10:30:40 PM   
Firebirdseeking


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Status: offline 		To OP: If you want to accept a relationship that includes humiliation, (IMO, that is what many of these are); and where you appear to be a piece of ass; and, where it is all about him, I guess that is your business and there are many who will support you in this and say my what s good sub you are. I just dont happen to agree. Nor do I think dominance has anything to do with what rules you described.

If a man had required any of these things of me, he would have been deleted. Sorry, but to me he sounds like an idiot.

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RE: Any sub feels they can adhere to all these rules? - 1/4/2012 10:53:15 PM   
myotherself


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Status: offline 		When I was looking I always made sure I shared my wants and limits with a prospective Dom before we even got into a relationship. I would also expect him to do the same. If there wasn't a significant amount of overlap then we weren't compatible and we moved on.

The list you give would break a few of my hard limits (I DO NOT SING, dammit!) so I would wish him well and keep on searching.



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RE: Any sub feels they can adhere to all these rules? - 1/4/2012 10:57:11 PM   
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quote:

Firebirdseeking

If a man had required any of these things of me, he would have been deleted. Sorry, but to me he sounds like an idiot.


Not necessarily. Maybe he has dozens of ladies nipping at his heels and wants to thin out the herd.

No, it wasn't said directly. But, 'subs competing against one another' is right next door. Think it over. Pretty bad situation to be cultivating, isn't it?


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RE: Any sub feels they can adhere to all these rules? - 1/4/2012 11:52:08 PM   
RaspberryLemon


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Status: offline 		First of all, these rules are very odd and specific, and seemingly irrelevant to what I would consider a relationship as a whole. Second of all, my Master would not call me "slut"--we both find it a disrespectful term and he does not wish to degrade me or show me any disrespect (I wouldn't be with someone who did.) But since you asked...
quote:

ORIGINAL: jaslyn82
1st my slut will have a full bush on her

He actually prefers to have me shave once every week.

quote:

ORIGINAL: jaslyn82
2nd my slut must swallow her master

This seems too hard set to be a rule. Of course I'd swallow if he wants it, and I do. But what if (assuming we're talking about oral here) he wants to do something else with the "end result" once in a while, huh? It's up to him and all he has to do is tell me what he wants.

quote:

ORIGINAL: jaslyn82
3rd ass fucking, my slut will be fucked in the ass whenever master wants to

My Master doesn't do anal, but I am available to him sexually 100% of the time and I'm not allowed to say no.

quote:

ORIGINAL: jaslyn82
4, masters property will be shown off where ever and whenever master wants too

If you mean what I think you mean by "shown off," then no. My Master keeps me to himself and doesn't "show me off" or share me with anyone. And I like that. Once again, I wouldn't be with someone who felt differently.

quote:

ORIGINAL: jaslyn82
5th  slut will never do anything behind her masters back

Of course not, that would be rude and disrespectful. I don't think that's an unreasonable thing to ask of anyone you're in a relationship with, regardless of the dynamic.

quote:

ORIGINAL: jaslyn82
6th other couples will be brought into play with master and his slut

Nope. We are in a committed and 100% monogamous relationship.

quote:

ORIGINAL: jaslyn82
7th masters slut will compete against  other subs for masters attention .

Haha, no. See above. He also doesn't feel the need to destroy my self-esteem by making me feel I'm not good enough.

quote:

ORIGINAL: jaslyn82
8th slut will sing a bum tit tit song every night entering the house and ask master if he would like to sick his thumb up sluts bum .

Now that just sounds ridiculous.

quote:

ORIGINAL: jaslyn82
9th photos will be taken of my slut where ever i want in anyway i want

He can take whatever photos of me he'd like.

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RE: Any sub feels they can adhere to all these rules? - 1/5/2012 12:37:22 AM   
Lucylastic


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ORIGINAL: myotherself

When I was looking I always made sure I shared my wants and limits with a prospective Dom before we even got into a relationship. I would also expect him to do the same. If there wasn't a significant amount of overlap then we weren't compatible and we moved on.

The list you give would break a few of my hard limits (I DO NOT SING, dammit!) so I would wish him well and keep on searching.



would you say "Bless yer heart" to him at the same time?

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RE: Any sub feels they can adhere to all these rules? - 1/5/2012 2:33:49 AM   
fragilepieces


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Status: offline 		The third person speak 'master' is using is a hard limit for me---also being called slut would be annoying---yep I have been in relationships where it was used and I accepted it but it always bugged me---so did a host of other names I feel are cruel like 'white bitch" (I date black men and this term has been used a lot), cunt, whore....I can go on...my current partner has NEVER EVER called me a cruel name---we never discussed the use of these names he just has never went there and used those types of names---I adore that about him so if I had to be with someone who insisted on using those names---I'd not correct them but would move onwards.

Some of the things mentioned are typical in many relationships (especially the bum and tit song I am surprised no one else knows this song REAL D/s couples all know that song ) However if someone I just began speaking to presented me with that list---he'd be way above me on the ladder of 'real' and 'true' I'd ignore and block. I am just too kinda laid back for that.

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RE: Any sub feels they can adhere to all these rules? - 1/5/2012 2:50:53 AM   
LillyoftheVally


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Status: offline 		I personally do not like a massive list of rules, indeed someone wrote some down for me once and it ended the relationship (mind they were far more insane than the list here, including never sitting on furniture without asking- impractical more than anything seeing as I didn't live with them)

So I would say the list is unreasonable because I do not list.

The specific acts, well it depends on a person, the only one that made me think no way was competing for attention to be honest


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RE: Any sub feels they can adhere to all these rules? - 1/5/2012 4:04:45 AM   
thishereboi


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quote:

ORIGINAL: jaslyn82

quote:


It doesn't matter what any of us think. Can you be happy with these rules?

I think it's unrealistic.



In that case, it really doesn't matter what other people think. You are the one who is going to have to follow the rules. If you don't like them, then find someone you are compatible with.


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RE: Any sub feels they can adhere to all these rules? - 1/5/2012 4:08:19 AM   
Focus50


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quote:

ORIGINAL: jaslyn82

1st my slut will have a full bush on her

2nd my slut must swallow her master

3rd ass fucking, my slut will be fucked in the ass whenever master wants to

4, masters property will be shown off where ever and whenever master wants too

5th  slut will never do anything behind her masters back

6th other couples will be brought into play with master and his slut

7th masters slut will compete against  other subs for masters attention .

8th slut will sing a bum tit tit song every night entering the house and ask master if he would like to sick his thumb up sluts bum .

9th photos will be taken of my slut where ever i want in anyway i want


I love it...!!!! People out there living the fantasy and hoping against hope that one day, "my slut" will morph into an actual living/breathing entity to indulge my every silly whim.

Problem with "5th" but.... When you say "slut will never do anything behind her masters back", how's that work? You actually have to be there in audience when she's ironing your shirt or making you a cuppa, etc?

Anyway; one day when I'm all out of ego and self-esteem etc, I'm gonna make a list, too!

Focus.

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RE: Any sub feels they can adhere to all these rules? - 1/5/2012 4:36:52 AM   
tazzygirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: jaslyn82

1st my slut will have a full bush on her

2nd my slut must swallow her master

3rd ass fucking, my slut will be fucked in the ass whenever master wants to

4, masters property will be shown off where ever and whenever master wants too

5th  slut will never do anything behind her masters back

6th other couples will be brought into play with master and his slut

7th masters slut will compete against  other subs for masters attention .

8th slut will sing a bum tit tit song every night entering the house and ask master if he would like to sick his thumb up sluts bum .

9th photos will be taken of my slut where ever i want in anyway i want


So much for spontaneity.

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RE: Any sub feels they can adhere to all these rules? - 1/5/2012 6:18:30 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: jaslyn82

quote:

ORIGINAL: BKSir
There's your answer then. :)

I already know it's a no for me, but the purpose of this is that I am curious how much of these are acceptable to other subs out there.


Please, please, could you string him on long enough to get the lyrics and melody for the bum tit tit song?

I'm thinking "The CollarMe Choir" and its "came from nowhere" no 1 global hit.

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RE: Any sub feels they can adhere to all these rules? - 1/5/2012 6:47:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		Good lawd, Toppingfrmbottom!

(LMAO) The OP wasn't ASKING how you manage your pubic area, dear!

And besides your post being TMI, I was attempting to eat my breakfast! (gags)



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RE: Any sub feels they can adhere to all these rules? - 1/5/2012 6:53:07 AM   
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RE: Any sub feels they can adhere to all these rules? - 1/5/2012 6:54:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well, she can goddamn sure hum.   (if you dont get that, someone will be along to explain it to you).

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RE: Any sub feels they can adhere to all these rules? - 1/5/2012 7:25:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Too silly for words to assume that no matter what, things will always occur to his desires. Real life interferes with silly stuff all too often.

It doesn't matter what any of us think. Can you be happy with these rules?

This is exactly what I was thinking.


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RE: Any sub feels they can adhere to all these rules? - 1/5/2012 8:55:50 AM   
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quote:

I find the list ludicrous. If I was just talking to someone and he said that this is what he expected in his "slut". I would know he and I are not compatible.

Next thing you know he would be asking me to be kneeling with my legs open and my palms resting on my thighs. Now, if someone I was already involved with brought these things up I would probably be ok with doing things he wanted, even if he put it in the ridiculous way this list was presented.

But, if he started to call me his slut I might be laughing too hard to carry anything out.


This ^ with the qualification that I like to be called a dirty little slut during sex but find it rude and unacceptable in the courting stage.

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