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Focus50 -> RE: Can any dom possibly be content with these limits? (1/5/2012 1:29:24 PM)
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ORIGINAL: jaslyn82
Yea, I'm refering more to, tie you up, go out and party and leave you alone at home for hours, and maybe untie you 8 hrs later or something. Not sure..., I'm gonna enjoy that sort of things.
Whoa, you've had that done to you or some jerk is proposing to do so???? I'd have thought such a practise is more in keeping with sociopaths - somewhere during the torture stage in between kidnapping you and murdering you. Not so much a hard limit itself but you should stay away from him altogether...!
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I don't even understand why is fisting a turn on for men. What is the kick out of putting a whole fist into a vagina? But it's psychological, I know a baby head could get out of that, but..., it scares me. And I find kegel a real hassle to do, to get it back in shape again after all that.
I don't understand it either (if it really is) and it's not a specific turn-on of mine. But for all the creative things one can do to tease/torture/tantalise my sub's most private of parts, "sock puppet" doesn't even require props.
But ok, a psychological issue, particularly one that scares you etc; that's a valid reason. In my relationships, we discuss such things - and not with a skewed intention to changing your mind. I'd wanna know all things that might cause my sub property to "melt down", and not in the good way.
And I'll just pass straight over "kegel" like I know what that even is.... [8|]
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Well, no matter how safe you try to be, you could get robbed, or you could die, and people would have to go through your things. Somehow, nude pictures could get out EVEN if it's not your fault.
Weeeeeeeeell, yeah....., but are you some sort of celebrity? Otherwise, nude pics aren't exactly a rare commodity to obtain. My own particular trophies come from her being my personal property rather than just another naked lady. And did I mention I like *tasteful* - rather than hardcore or graphic? I won't go so far as to say artistic 'cause that would imply "ten thumbs" Focus is artistic....
Everyone dies and uncovering a family secret as a consequence is all part of being family. The things my mum yousta frown on only for us to go through her things when she passed.... lol I guess mum's are entitled to be hypocrites when it concerns their own kids. And so what - A), she died; and B), we're not talking anything shameful or illegal...! If she were anyone but family, we wouldn't even blink and it'd be forgotten in a minute....
I value my privacy and take houshold security quite seriously. While my home isn't a fortress, there's enough security obstacles in place to make a would-be burglar look at other houses in the street, first.
Overall, and assuming you're not some well known celeb, I think what you're describing amounts to a dose of paranoia. And that's the kind of thing that affects trust in relationships - which is why it stood right out in your list....
Focus.
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