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abqoralman -> New New Mexico Thread (1/6/2012 8:56:37 AM)

Getting back into the social scene after a long period of voluntary solitude. Had forgotten just how sparse the BDSM community is here in NM. Tried looking up threads to follow and found the latest to be from 2 years ago.
So, starting this thread and hoping to hear back from some local members of the community. Is anybody out there?!! Lol!




Fornica -> RE: New New Mexico Thread (1/6/2012 9:08:03 AM)

I'm not near you, but welcome back.




abqoralman -> RE: New New Mexico Thread (1/6/2012 9:20:47 AM)

Thanks! 




hausboy -> RE: New New Mexico Thread (1/6/2012 4:18:23 PM)

I spent some time in Abq.  There was actually a really nice, thriving leather scene--hope that's still the case.





stellauk -> RE: New New Mexico Thread (1/7/2012 2:46:39 AM)

I'm also not near you but welcome.

I met some people a while back from New Mexico. Cool people. One collected Gary Larson's 'Far Side' cartoons.




OohAahMrs -> RE: New New Mexico Thread (1/7/2012 5:02:10 AM)

Welcome abq, it's a surprise, i thought there'd be far more going on!




ashjor911 -> RE: New New Mexico Thread (1/7/2012 7:17:59 AM)

Welcome




abqoralman -> RE: New New Mexico Thread (1/8/2012 12:19:44 AM)

Thank you all for the welcomes and welcome backs!
Few years ago, before my hiatus, I looked up local leather groups and such. Only one such group then. They may still exist but have consistently been sore to update their website and calendar. Not sure anyone actually maintains the site any more. Sites of other groups are no longer valid. Expired domain names and such.
There are groups and information sources for swingers. However, I am not a swinger. Just not my style.




GreedyTop -> RE: New New Mexico Thread (1/8/2012 12:31:15 AM)

try this: https://fetlife.com/administrative_areas/3968




abqoralman -> RE: New New Mexico Thread (1/8/2012 7:32:27 AM)

Thanks, Greedy! That helps a lot. Much more current info than anything else I found!




Casteele -> RE: New New Mexico Thread (1/8/2012 12:08:23 PM)

Welcome to CM.. I know how it goes.. It's often not easy finding local resources in any but the more populated areas/major cities. They're out there, but often out of date and no one wants to work at maintaining them :-(




abqoralman -> RE: New New Mexico Thread (1/8/2012 3:47:23 PM)

Yeah, well. NM isn't exactly known for the work ethic. Land of "Manana..maybe..or maybe not."




hausboy -> RE: New New Mexico Thread (1/8/2012 7:50:58 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: abqoralman

Yeah, well. NM isn't exactly known for the work ethic. Land of "Manana..maybe..or maybe not."


exactly...so most of the "web" stuff was never kept up to date, but there was a lot of activity going on.  Every year they have the Mr. and Ms. Rio Grande Leather contests, they had leather/BDSM socials at a Country/Western bar way down Central Avenue....the play parties were usually at private homes, so a little harder to find but once you find folks in the scene, it shouldn't be too hard.

I met a lot of BDSM folks when I was there--I'll try to remember the name of the club--it was a leather bar once a month, I think....

Edited to add: 
Here's some more: http://newmexicoleatherleague.org/CurrentContent/Events/LeatherFiesta/LeatherFiesta2011.html

Also...look for the New Mexico Leather Wolves... even if you aren't a gay man, where's the are leathermen, you'll find leather women....and ways into the scene.  (it's the old fashioned way.....face to face..)




chiaThePet -> RE: New New Mexico Thread (1/8/2012 8:17:35 PM)

Well, whenever I'm feeling mischievous and masochistic here in Nuevo Mexico,
I throw myself on a cactus. Un hombre tiene que hacer un que' hombre tiene
que hacer.

chia* (el animal domestico)




abqoralman -> RE: New New Mexico Thread (1/9/2012 7:27:47 AM)

Thanks, Hausboy.

Funny, Chia!




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