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Looking for a Dom for online fun NOW! - 1/10/2012 12:39:48 PM   
Zachsails91


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Status: offline 		hi I'm a 20 that finds himself with urges too often. I was hoping to find someone quicker with this. Maybe other desperate doms/subs can use this thread too.
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RE: Looking for a Dom for online fun NOW! - 1/10/2012 12:41:23 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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This is the "discussion" side of the room, where we talk about stuffs. Maybe this can get moved to Introductions.

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RE: Looking for a Dom for online fun NOW! - 1/10/2012 12:42:56 PM   
Ninebelowzero


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Status: offline 		What's a 20?

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RE: Looking for a Dom for online fun NOW! - 1/10/2012 12:44:11 PM   
Zachsails91


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Status: offline 		20 year old

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RE: Looking for a Dom for online fun NOW! - 1/10/2012 12:46:17 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Well damn... if you hadn't put that NOW in there, I might have been desperate enough to do it around seven. Sorry... your mistake.

< Message edited by Lockit -- 1/10/2012 1:18:29 PM >

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RE: Looking for a Dom for online fun NOW! - 1/10/2012 12:48:01 PM   
Ninebelowzero


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Status: offline 		Thanks for the clarification Zach welcome to the forums. Hope you enjoy the ride.

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RE: Looking for a Dom for online fun NOW! - 1/10/2012 12:48:30 PM   
Zachsails91


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Status: offline 		it was just showin my urgency.. 7 sounds like fun too..

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RE: Looking for a Dom for online fun NOW! - 1/10/2012 12:49:20 PM   
searching4mysir


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Welcome to the discussion side of CM, Zach.

Here's a bit of a newsflash for you: the number of men on this site FAR outweigh the number of women, on both sides of the slash.

Desperation is not attractive, either. The idea that you will find a dom/me faster online than in person is one you should scratch out of your head.

Unless you want to pull out the credit card, demanding that your urges be satisfied is not an effective way of finding a domme.

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RE: Looking for a Dom for online fun NOW! - 1/10/2012 12:53:33 PM   
Zachsails91


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Status: offline 		ah, alright thank you then. how should I go about it then?

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RE: Looking for a Dom for online fun NOW! - 1/10/2012 1:01:31 PM   
searching4mysir


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Status: offline 		A good start would be to read the FAQ at the top of this page. Flesh out your profile, and not just with kink/sex stuff either.

Treat women as human beings instead of just something to help you get your rocks off. Be respectful and courteous.

You are on a kink site, we can kinda figure out you're kinky just from that So show her the person she'll be spending time with outside of playtime. Make friends and be patient. Playtime costs, so decide if it is going to cost you money or if it will cost you time (developing at the minimum a friendship).

BTW: Cross-posting in the forums is generally frowned upon. The Mods have placed a sticky at the top of the rooms for new members to help them get the lay of the land.

< Message edited by searching4mysir -- 1/10/2012 1:29:44 PM >

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RE: Looking for a Dom for online fun NOW! - 1/10/2012 1:07:10 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Hey! Stop messing up my seven o'clock score!  I was counting on that! 

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RE: Looking for a Dom for online fun NOW! - 1/10/2012 1:12:45 PM   
Fornica


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RE: Looking for a Dom for online fun NOW! - 1/10/2012 1:31:35 PM   
Zachsails91


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Status: offline 		yes,

newbie move #2

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RE: Looking for a Dom for online fun NOW! - 1/10/2012 4:38:06 PM   
Fornica


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Status: offline 		Newbie #3 error, which is also your fatal one, was messaging me on the other side.
If my inbox wasn't full of gold trim right now..so many things i want to say.
So so many.

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RE: Looking for a Dom for online fun NOW! - 1/10/2012 4:44:14 PM   
SorceressJ


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Status: offline 		Oh my. And to think I actually MISSED this.. *tsk*

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RE: Looking for a Dom for online fun NOW! - 1/10/2012 4:45:57 PM   
Fornica


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Status: offline 		He's got another intro in here as well, which, oddly, he messaged me AFTER.

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RE: Looking for a Dom for online fun NOW! - 1/10/2012 5:01:15 PM   
BurntKitty


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Status: offline 		Welcome to CM.

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Hey! Talk to me.


Rather verbose profile, dontcha think?


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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir

Desperation is not attractive, either. The idea that you will find a dom/me faster online than in person is one you should scratch out of your head.





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RE: Looking for a Dom for online fun NOW! - 1/10/2012 5:18:00 PM   
Casteele


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From: Near Sacramento, California, USA
Status: offline 		Greetings and welcome to CM, Zach. From the previous posts.. The only thing I would add is get it in to your mindset that this is NOT a sex site. I'm not even sure I would call it a dating site, either, more of a social site. So all the normal rules apply (as you've seen from the responses so far!), except that here it's not considered taboo to discuss sex or have kink related interests. A lot of people come to kink sites thinking they're just the red light district of the Internet; good for picking up something easy, sleazy, and cheap. But the truth is, in my experience, kinks and BDMS lifestylers are ten times more picky than plain ol' vanillas. Good luck.

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RE: Looking for a Dom for online fun NOW! - 1/10/2012 5:18:01 PM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		Hey there Zach.

Sure, what 20 year old guy doesn't find himself with overwhelming urges and all. I'm sure you'd like to know if the quick hookup/wank material you seek is here on this site? It kind of looks possible with all of the adult content and ads about, but well remember.....it's populated with people. People don't generally just give you stuff in real life right? Probably not here either. If you want your dick attended to that's nice, but I don't know any women going around giving mercy wanks since they pretty much dont' give a rip about the state of your dick. Lots of people are having sex in some form right now....with people that they know. With strangers not so much.

It's a common fallacy amongst horny guys that they'll find the quickie, they usually don't. Women can get sex whenever they want it, they don't even have to try, they don't have the same desperation. Therefore you just don't find as many of them around on places like this. Don't take my word for it, keep trying.

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RE: Looking for a Dom for online fun NOW! - 1/11/2012 12:33:02 AM   
MistressDarkArt


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Status: offline 		Welcome to the CM Board of Education, Zach.

Take the advice everyone's given you to heart. You're young, cute, you sail, and it looks like you're open to learning. You'll be fine. Good luck in your search.

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