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Im confused im new - 5/31/2006 10:18:56 AM   
sexytexansub4dom


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Status: offline 		ok Im confused can a switch still be.  Im more sub than dom and thats the way I like it but every once in a while I like bein a dom is there something wrong with me????
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RE: Im confused im new - 5/31/2006 10:53:07 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ok Im confused can a switch still be.  Im more sub than dom and thats the way I like it but every once in a while I like bein a dom is there something wrong with me????

No.

Although plenty of people will tell you yes and try and make you think what they want.

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RE: Im confused im new - 5/31/2006 4:29:50 PM   
Dustyn


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Status: offline 		Until you say there is something wrong with you, there is nothing wrong with you.  Well, unless you're crazy and when you say you're not, you most likely are,, to one extent or another.  At least that is what my shrink told me. *shrug*

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RE: Im confused im new - 5/31/2006 6:37:04 PM   
FloridaISIS


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ORIGINAL: sexytexansub4dom

ok Im confused can a switch still be.  Im more sub than dom and thats the way I like it but every once in a while I like bein a dom is there something wrong with me????

Not at all. Being true to yourself is never a mistake. Embrace who you are.

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RE: Im confused im new - 5/31/2006 6:49:02 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		Nope as long as you enjoy what your doing and feel good about yourself you are ok. And yes others may say otherwise but what the fuck do they know? lol

~Lashra

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RE: Im confused im new - 5/31/2006 7:02:02 PM   
FloridaISIS


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Nope as long as you enjoy what your doing and feel good about yourself you are ok. And yes others may say otherwise but what the fuck do they know? lol

~Lashra

Agreed. We aren't taken seriously for the most part, but you know what, I don't give a flying f---.
I'm content in knowing that I don't have to put on an act to try and fit into this neat, and tidy box that many want to see us in.
This whole lifestyle revolves around truth, and how can one be truthful to others if they aren't first truthful with themself?
Live it,  Love it, Embrace it.
To thine own self be true.

Just my 2 cents worth.



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RE: Im confused im new - 6/1/2006 2:05:03 AM   
LaMalinche


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ORIGINAL: sexytexansub4dom

ok Im confused can a switch still be.  Im more sub than dom and thats the way I like it but every once in a while I like bein a dom is there something wrong with me????


Nope, nothing wrong with you.  Varity is the spice of life.  Live it up and enjoy yourself.

Don't spend time worrying what others may be thinking of you.  You should worry about what you think of you.  Are YOUR needs being met?  Well there you go. . . 'nuff said.



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RE: Im confused im new - 6/4/2006 9:09:09 AM   
Hellgate


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Status: offline 		You're  quite sane.  Enjoy!

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RE: Im confused im new - 6/5/2006 7:29:39 PM   
leanbutsoft


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Status: offline 		Dear Texan,
I too am confused. I enjoy being taken and used. However sometimes with a different partner, I feel as if I want to dominate and call the shots. I am single and have several partners. Not perfect but it woks.
Jim

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RE: Im confused im new - 6/5/2006 8:29:33 PM   
sweetbbwsub31


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Status: offline 		Welcome to CM. There are others like you. I am about 90% sub and 10% Domme. It also depends on the person.
 
Good luck in finding what you seek,
sub tara

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RE: Im confused im new - 6/6/2006 4:06:36 AM   
LaMalinche


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Status: offline 		To sexytexas and anyone else. . .

There is a part going on. . .

Plus feel free to PM me about your concerns.

Yes it is okay.  Yes it is an acceptable way to grow.  Yes there are people like you.  Yes we will love you for you for who you are or for who you think you are.  You are welcome here.  Dom/me, sub, slave, switch. . . you have someone who wants to understand and care about you.  Feel welcome. 

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Over the centuries, mankind has tried many ways of combating the forces of evil... prayer, fasting, good works and so on. Up until Doom, no one seemed to have thought about the double-barrel shotgun. Eat leaden death, demon...

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RE: Im confused im new - 6/6/2006 4:07:51 AM   
LaMalinche


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Status: offline 		Sweet,

Why are you not in the hot tub with us?

Come on!


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Over the centuries, mankind has tried many ways of combating the forces of evil... prayer, fasting, good works and so on. Up until Doom, no one seemed to have thought about the double-barrel shotgun. Eat leaden death, demon...

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RE: Im confused im new - 6/6/2006 11:45:50 AM   
Suleiman


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Status: offline 		Quick reply, because I know how others will generally respond without having to read their answers, is NO.
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU.

If you said something to the effect of, "I really enjoy bottoming, but once in a while I get an overwhelming urge to kill my dom, devour his still-steaming internal organs, then go to a bondage party wrapped in his skin", THEN there would be cause for worry.

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RE: Im confused im new - 6/6/2006 3:15:06 PM   
iliv2servher


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ORIGINAL: sexytexansub4dom

ok Im confused can a switch still be.  Im more sub than dom and thats the way I like it but every once in a while I like bein a dom is there something wrong with me????


Of course there's nothing wrong with you.  You can be whomever or whatever you want to be just as long as you are comfortable with it. 

However, I have encountered some prejudices against switches by the community...maybe just in my community...but it's like they can't beleive that someone can go both ways.

I was just curious as to what trips you into each mode...and can you switch back and forth during a scene?


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RE: Im confused im new - 6/6/2006 9:37:56 PM   
champagnewishes


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ORIGINAL: sexytexansub4dom

ok Im confused can a switch still be.  Im more sub than dom and thats the way I like it but every once in a while I like bein a dom is there something wrong with me????


OMG...yes there is!  Your a free thinker and in touch with your inner self...you may even know what feels good and go after it without fear of fitting into a nice little label that you plaster on your forehead....Just kidding...a moment of insanity swept over me...i think your quite sane and not a thing wrong with you.....i'm off to the hot tub now  

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RE: Im confused im new - 6/7/2006 5:26:34 AM   
LaMalinche


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ORIGINAL: Suleiman

If you said something to the effect of, "I really enjoy bottoming, but once in a while I get an overwhelming urge to kill my dom, devour his still-steaming internal organs, then go to a bondage party wrapped in his skin",


That is good.  I need to remember that.  What is the acronym. . . ROTFLMAO ?  I think that I would add STC (Scaring the cat).  So ROTFLMAOSTC.


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Over the centuries, mankind has tried many ways of combating the forces of evil... prayer, fasting, good works and so on. Up until Doom, no one seemed to have thought about the double-barrel shotgun. Eat leaden death, demon...

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