MaitresseEden
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I thought I would continue with the whole 1st impressions thread, as I thought back to the all the potential subs I have met in the past 2 months. Yes, I meet people rather quickly, and that is my prerogative, as the shortest distance between two points is a strait line in my book. Lady Angelika and I wrote about how to make a great Email first impression, but I thought I’d share a bit of my recent experiences with some recent real life first impressions.
Sub #1: ( handsome single man seeking LTR) We had talked on the phone several nights, at length and engaged in great conversation, and he was going to be in my town on business, so we planned to meet for lunch. His business meeting was delayed due to bad weather so we pushed it up to dinner. Being understanding that he didn’t know his way around town, I agreed to pick him up at his hotel and we went to eat at Bennigans. Talked extensively, appeared to hit it off, when I returned him to his hotel we went to his room to talk. The air was palpable with physical chemistry, but my need to get home and my desire not to play on first meeting meant I only stayed in his room talking about 30 mins. He walked me to my car, I kissed him goodbye and played with his mind heavily as he walked me out. He called me later that night telling me he couldn’t wait to get to spend some time with me. . Then silence for a week, when he called briefly to chat.. Still saying he would let me know his schedule during the week , and that he couldn’t wait to come spend time with me, and get to know me better. Again another week has passed.. no call, no email.. Despite the fact that I had chemistry with him, and he had great potential, his lack of respect or lack of interest spoke louder to me than his words. My impression was, all flash, and big talk, but heart just wasn’t into it. He was very submissive and responsive sexually, but I didn’t see much concern for me.
Sub #2 (handsome married man seeking to be domestic servant) A bit paranoid about any personal information via emails, which I could respect. Agreed to meet him for breakfast at the local IHOP’s. he was there promptly, albeit so nervous he was shaking. Before ordering my breakfast he said, he just felt to scared being there and he felt that he needed to leave, as if someone dining in my part of town made him unfaithful to his wife. so I said. Leave them.. He was gracious enough to leave money to cover my breakfast, he then emailed me begging to still be allowed to serve me as a houseboy. My impression of his was too paranoid and way too high maintenance for my liking, while he is definitely a submissive, he is too novice for my needs.
Sub #3 ( middle aged single guy) We met for lunch a month ago and a Vietnamese restaurant, with bugs in our food so it was not a pleasant dining experience and we left. He talked incessantly during the lunch and was a nervous wreck.. HE has consistently messaged me and kept in contact with me, there is NO chemistry aside from our professional commonality, but last night we went to dinner and a movie as friends. Which is all we will ever be. My Impression, I didn’t see a submissive bone in his body, but he is intellectually stimulating enough to be friends with and have a new movie buddy.
Sub #4 ( 25yr old experienced single slave) We met Friday night at a Club Fem party Within moments he was fixing my drinks, and attending to my needs. When he heard me say I love foot worship he promptly offered me a foot massage, and then spent hours attending my feet while I talked to sub #5. I told him to email me the next day, he did telling me his skill set, and his eagerness to serve. My impression.. Very sincere and service oriented sub who unfortunately lives too far away from me to see regularly, but may be fun to see casually.
Sub #5 ( 37 yr old Married Novice) This was his first club fem party., and first foray into anything public. He was full of questions and the boys and mistress’s all worked hard at enlightening him. He was a bit of a pretty boy and I had fun getting into his head and messing with him. He got visibly aroused with my talks of anal play, and I can spot a slut in a heartbeat. Ended up playing with him and taking him with a strap on. ( opps.. I broke my not on first meeting rule here… blame it on the bubble buns). Impression however was that of a “Do me”.. and I fell for it and he got done. Why do I say “do me”.. because that ass was way too easy to fuck, and he was way to eager for me to fuck it.
I think the common thread in all these is how they treat me. Did they just want to get done, or do they actually make an effort to get to know me and have a relationship with me. Thus far, none are candidates for anything serious, and some have removed themselves from consideration at all by their lack of respect. I think the key point I’m trying to make is.. ACTIONS speak louder than words. As I tell subs all the time. I don’t pursue men, it is their job to pursue me, but if you talk the talk you had better walk the walk. This is just the past two weeks, I could tell you countless tales in this regard.
Ms. Eden
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