fragilepieces -> RE: is 24/7 possible (1/22/2012 4:22:43 AM)
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Personally I don't believe in the 24/7 other than the relationship is 24/7. The things that were mentioned grocery shopping, working outside the home, cleaning, cooking well jesus everyone does that and it has NOTHING TO DO WITH D/s. Even if you were not in a D/s relationship you'd still have to cook, clean (well some people don't clean), get groceries, work a job or have some sort of income. I love my partner 24/7---I don't think about serving him 24/7 I just do what every other person does on a daily basis, I get up go to work, I do my household chores, I cook, I clean---when I am at his house it is a mini vacation because then I don't have to work because I am on vacation but I do cook for him and I clean--I get him a drink--bring his supper to him---but he does the same for me at times. When I am not at his house he cooks for himself and he cleans for himself and does his own laundry. The only thing I can think of 'submissive like' that I do is I do everything to the best of my ability---I do the best that I can on my job each day, I try to control my spending habits, I try to keep myself healthy, I try to never break the law (but I do jay walk on occasion) however I'd probably do those things if I were single. For me---he normally has the final say so---and I do as he asks but know I do have the right to opt out of anything I feel uncomfortable doing----and we have kinky sex----the is the jist of our D/s relationship----90% vanilla. So nah for me it's not 24/7
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