shayla
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Joined: 1/10/2004 Status: offline
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i'll admit it, i'm a coward :) i often come across profiles that i really want to respond to, but i can't ever seem to work up the nerve to...in part because i'm not sure that we'd click in any fashion, but mostly because i'm unsure what the proper way is to go about addressing the initial contact... i worry about being to stiff and formal and turning someone off, and while i slip into the role of ritual and protocal with ease and with joy, i am also a lighthearted, joyful, funloving person, so i want to convey a bit of that as well, but, i worry that it will be perceived as me being "unsubmissive" (a fate truly worse than death!!!) so what is a good way to start up a conversation with someone through their profile? make a comment on a common interest? just say "Just wanted to say 'hi!'"? (in that case, i always figure if they were interested in my profile, they might have said it first, unless that's an unDomly thing to do?) i think to much and worry to much, but i would appreciate any help on this topic :) Brightest of Blessings! eternally, ~shayla (Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart. Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. --Carl Jung)
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