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DBWhiskey -> Looking for some imaging. (1/23/2012 6:58:54 PM)
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The following questions comes from the fact that my entire kink history has been private experience (yes I seem to naturally attract women who want to be tied up and abused). I've never really initiated contact with a BDSM community, and so I'm curious to share a few things and see whether they stick to the ceiling.
1) I take the majority of my pleasure in the BDSM spectrum from designing, building, and implementing creative and controlling/humiliating methods of restraint, be it furniture, rope-systems, etc. I don't really care for giving or receiving pain at all, only taking and relinquishing control, and in the aesthetics of the restrained female form. Is this unusual?
2) I have absolutely no attachment to a dominant or submissive role. I suppose my controlling/directing instincts grew out of my desire to manifest my submissive fantasies for others, and so in some strange way I might be considered primarily submissive at heart, though I tend to always find myself playing a dominant role, merely because the fantasies of others are just not creative enough to hold me fascination for long. Is this unusual?
3) Whiskey, I find it delicious. Strange?
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