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RE: Dominant Long Haired Asian Master looking for Exhib... - 1/26/2012 4:57:15 PM

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I have to be honest, I haven't drafted a first contact email yet. Would you mind sending me a sample? Thank you.

You will find that since men far outnumber the women on this site, you are going to have to do the majority of the contacting. Your initial email should be personal, not a form letter (we can tell when it's just a form letter), and it should show that you've read her profile by commenting on things in it that drove you to write to her in the first place.

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RE: Dominant Long Haired Asian Master looking for Exhib... - 1/26/2012 5:10:40 PM

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Just put in your name, or handle. Simple and effective, No need to add sir, master, lord, alpha, super, etc.... Just you.

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RE: Dominant Long Haired Asian Master looking for Exhib... - 1/26/2012 7:24:28 PM

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Just put in your name, or handle. Simple and effective, No need to add sir, master, lord, alpha, super, etc.... Just you.

I agree with Buzzzzz (add or delete a coupla z's!) I also feel that speaking in the third person (at least in the beginning) sounds pretentious and can be tough reading at times.

Welcome to CM and enjoy the discussion side!

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RE: Dominant Long Haired Asian Master looking for Exhib... - 1/27/2012 5:04:02 AM

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ORIGINAL: stickbreaker

kalikshama
I have to be honest, I haven't drafted a first contact email yet. Would you mind sending me a sample? Thank you.

You will find that since men far outnumber the women on this site, you are going to have to do the majority of the contacting. Your initial email should be personal, not a form letter (we can tell when it's just a form letter), and it should show that you've read her profile by commenting on things in it that drove you to write to her in the first place.

stickbreaker - Well, of course they're not responding if you're not writing! If someone Views me but doesn't write, I figure he's not interested.

An email that hooked me was one that mentioned our common vanilla interest, that he'd be in town for such, and some light flirting.

What you can extract from that is that it showed he'd read my profile, we had something in common, and he kept it mostly vanilla.

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RE: Dominant Long Haired Asian Master looking for Exhib... - 1/27/2012 6:15:25 AM

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Welcome to the site and good luck.

I think you will find that al that is a lot to expect in online only as most of the girls are either taken or looking for real life...

I would be -put off- by a man speaking in the third person, describing himself as a Master and also if they view but don't write i would assume they were not interested.

Best way to make contacts imho, if you see a girl you are interested in, read her profile, write out an introduction personal to her, eg why you liked her, what caught your eye (not all about kink)

Welcome to the boards, jump on in the waters lovely

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RE: Dominant Long Haired Asian Master looking for Exhib... - 1/27/2012 8:12:10 AM

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Welcome stick.

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RE: Dominant Long Haired Asian Master looking for Exhib... - 1/28/2012 1:53:27 AM

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BurntKitty:

Thanks for the advice... Reading it again, it sounds very arrogant, ignorant and pretentious. I am adding little bits and pieces now, please do give my profile a short read if you have time. Thanks.

kalikshama:

Thanks for the advice...I realize now that people don't really know me and whatever they see on my profile will lead them to think of me as just an empty, self-serving arrogant prick. (Which I sincerely hope I am not)

I have tried adding new stuff to the profile...please take a peek if you please.
Again, merci.

amaidiamond:

Great advice...I am just not seeing all the facets because as soon as I found this site I got too focused on the getting some instead of the getting there. Thank you, I appreciate the input and the welcome.

OohAahMrs:

Thanks and hope to see you around!

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RE: Dominant Long Haired Asian Master looking for Exhib... - 1/28/2012 2:25:25 AM

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A "dominant master". Well, better than a submissive or vanilla master, I suppose.

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I hope that any and all slaves seeking to find an outlet for their exhibitionist and auto-erotic desires get in touch with me.

Advertisements and solicitations are supposed to be kept to your profile, not the forums FYI.

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RE: Dominant Long Haired Asian Master looking for Exhib... - 1/28/2012 5:52:55 PM

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Nice rewrite on your profile!

I'd kill your 1/26 journal entry - save negative/depressing things for a private journal. Also, it's white on white, so impossible to read unless you are a nerd like me who knows how to highlight.

Additionally, have patience. See How many years have you sought a dom or sub?

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RE: Dominant Long Haired Asian Master looking for Exhib... - 1/28/2012 6:29:52 PM

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wittynamehere:

Thanks for the splash of sarcasm, I needed that. But I see your point.. I like to think that it clarifies a point which I think might be vague. I think.

kalikshama:

Sounds good. I will try not to put people off by writing negative stuff and save that for a different setting. :) I've been seeking a SUB for about 4 years off and on. I wasn't sure about it because I had incorrect assumptions about the lifestyle at first and dismissed it. After reading a little more material online about it, and checking out this site I changed my mind.

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RE: Dominant Long Haired Asian Master looking for Exhib... - 1/30/2012 5:39:58 AM

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Looking forward to hearing from you in other parts of the discussion boards :)

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RE: Dominant Long Haired Asian Master looking for Exhib... - 1/30/2012 1:21:29 PM

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Welcome to CM Stickbreaker. I just wanted to say that I really am impressed with your polite responses to all of the comments made in this thread to you. This could so easily have turned into a very negative experience for you however by keeping your cool, being polite and seeming eager to listen and learn you have now got people willing to take some time to give suggestions.

As others have said - be patient, be realistic, read the various forums as there can be some great information (as well as a lot of dumb stuff), post and make yourself known through what you write and lastly, enjoy yourself.

all the best

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RE: Dominant Long Haired Asian Master looking for Exhib... - 1/30/2012 5:28:19 PM

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@ kalikshama

I am trying to look for a discussion which interests me...so far the standard chat and video chat rooms seem to be a pleasant, if shallow, diversion. I promise to look with more diligence starting today.

@wandersalone

Thank you. I believe in the necessity of politeness and secretly hope that more of us will take over the world from the crass, vulgar and uninspiring people.

Nice to meet you, Godmother.

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RE: Dominant Long Haired Asian Master looking for Exhib... - 1/30/2012 5:54:13 PM

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The only thing I feel I can add here is that your journal took about five seconds to give me a headache. You might want to think about changing the font colour you use. Welcome to the forum side of collarme. Good luck finding what you seek.

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RE: Dominant Long Haired Asian Master looking for Exhib... - 1/30/2012 6:10:02 PM

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Very good re-write, best of luck!

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RE: Dominant Long Haired Asian Master looking for Exhib... - 2/5/2012 9:55:13 PM

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Just checking back to see if people left any more advice. Sorry I haven't been on for a couple of days...my vanilla life had to be tended for a while.

@MissImmortalPain
Thanks, I will try to figure out what colors will look better when read. I'd love to hear your suggestions.

@BurntKitty
Merci beaucoup. Je vous remercie de vos paroles encourageants. Thank you for the kind words and I hope to be able to contribute something meaningful through my writing.

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