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shylilbear -> RE: Being pissed on (1/29/2012 6:29:49 PM)
For me, I don't think it ever will have a "turn on" factor for me. Although, considering my relationship with Daddy shatteres a few of my "I don't think I could" statements, it wouldn't surprise me if at some point it did become a turn on. Right now I'm just trying to focus on the symbolism of what he'll be doing so I can-hopefully-be able to be ok with it when it does happen. Believe me, the eeewwww factor is still there, but when I think of it as his way of marking me as his, claiming me.....I don't know how to describe it but it somehow makes it better. quote: ORIGINAL: jennileigh8182 Hrm...would "curious" or "intrigued by" be better than "partially into?" You know how there are some activities that, even though you've never done them, and even though there might be a weirdness factor that pops up in your mind with them, some part of your brain says, "hmmmmmmmm....?" That's what I meant by partially into. I am not even remotely intrigued by or curious about urine. There is no reaction in any part of my brain except absolute revulsion and utter shame...neither of which are a turn-on for me. Maybe a better example....when reading erotica (or watching porn for the more visual), a story/film may contain some activities we don't normally go for, but if you can go along with it and still stay in the mood, i think you're "partially into" it, or receptive in some way. Ass play is one of those for me....never done it because I've never had a partner that was both trustworthy and dominant enough for it (though the dominant I went out with last weekend is quite excited about the prospect of gently introducing me), but i'm curious. Urine, however....shudders...that's grounds for shutting off the porn or closing the story.

xssve -> RE: Being pissed on (1/29/2012 6:34:09 PM)
I think that's probably right.

xssve -> RE: Being pissed on (1/29/2012 6:38:50 PM)
Oddly enough however, while some of my fantasies involve humiliation, this one doesn't, she's smiling, maybe blushing a little, but teasing - more... naughty than nullified.

BurntKitty -> RE: Being pissed on (1/29/2012 6:56:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 He pisses on me and in me. I've received piss enemas. I've drank his piss. It's not humiliating. It's extremely intimate and incredibly hot...literally and figuratively. My sentiments exactly.

DaddySatyr -> RE: Being pissed on (1/29/2012 6:58:38 PM)
What kind of a man would pee on a lady? WTF? No, seriously, as previously stated; I see it as a way of "marking" my ladies. I don't engage in the activity with anyone who is not mine. Simple. To me, it is an intimate act ... a sign of ownership ... or territorial boundary. Yes, I know that I am painting myself as a "dog, peeing on a fire hydrant" but, until a bigger (better) dog comes along, I will let the whole world know what's mine. (Don't ask her about a trip to the store for cigarettes LOL) Peace and comfort, Michael

Aileen1968 -> RE: Being pissed on (1/29/2012 7:05:28 PM)
The first time I was alone with Shorey in a private room, knowing only his first name, he pissed on me. It was such a turn on for both of us. I couldn't wait for the next time I could be with him. Then there was that one time in the Borgata.... that was the day that I learned that a man could piss with a hard on while being in my ass. I still feel sorry for and mentally apologize to the cleaning ladies. We left a good tip when we checked out.

xssve -> RE: Being pissed on (1/29/2012 7:07:04 PM)
I should clarify, I use the term nullified in the gestalt sense of the nullification of experience in the sense of objectification, which is a nullification of the experience of being human, in abstract, or the nullification of the experience of being independent or unowned, e.g., marking, as above; you are mine now - neither of which always a bad thing, depending on circumstances.

Hippiekinkster -> RE: Being pissed on (1/29/2012 7:45:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 .... that was the day that I learned that a man could piss with a hard on while being in my ass. I was never able to make that happen. Hard to describe... I just couldn't "relsx" whatever muscle(s) or valve(s) are involved. Same thing happens if I have a full bladder and have an orgasm; there's a refractory period where I was just not going to piss until that sphincter relaxed. Of course, with age, I have different "difficulties".

xssve -> RE: Being pissed on (1/29/2012 7:58:45 PM)
I don't think I could do that either - with that image burned permanently into my synapses now though, I'll not rest until I've given myself a UTI trying! I think it must be one of those things like being able to cross your eyes or make the Spock hand. Which I can do.

DesFIP -> RE: Being pissed on (1/29/2012 8:02:53 PM)
The Man and I had a discussion about this. He sees it as humiliation solely. I said that for many people it's more like a dog marking his territory. With that said, if he does want to do it, it better be in the shower or outside. Urine isn't something I want on the carpet or into the mattress, for that matter.

Hippiekinkster -> RE: Being pissed on (1/29/2012 9:30:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xssve I don't think I could do that either - with that image burned permanently into my synapses now though, I'll not rest until I've given myself a UTI trying! I think it must be one of those things like being able to cross your eyes or make the Spock hand. Which I can do. It very well could be there are people who have some voluntary control over their urinary sphincter. I tried to do it quite a few times, both anally and orally, and just couldn't get it. That was one of the first kinky things I did, pissing on a chick, when I was 18 or so (I don't consider anal "kinky"). I didn't really get much out of it. I do recall I had a bit of Seconal in my system, so I wasn't going to get too excited about anything anyway. [8D] My little and ring fingers on my left hand are doing the Spock thing all by themselves. I can't bring my ring finger up against my middle finger, and I can't get the little finger to touch the ring finger. It's like a double Spock. I've been told it's Rheumatoid arthritis; I'll talk to my pain doc Wednesday. As long as I can hold a pen, my cleaver, and a 5A drumstick it won't affect me much.

xssve -> RE: Being pissed on (1/29/2012 10:31:58 PM)
I cant even take a piss unless I orgasm first, unfortunately I described that situation in the scat thread. All I know is I don't get as much sympathy about that as you might think - compassion is dead I tell ya.

Aileen1968 -> RE: Being pissed on (1/30/2012 3:57:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Hippiekinkster quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 .... that was the day that I learned that a man could piss with a hard on while being in my ass. I was never able to make that happen. Hard to describe... I just couldn't "relsx" whatever muscle(s) or valve(s) are involved. Same thing happens if I have a full bladder and have an orgasm; there's a refractory period where I was just not going to piss until that sphincter relaxed. Of course, with age, I have different "difficulties". Imagine my surprise when he stopped fucking, grabbed me by the back of my hair and growled in my ear that he was pissing in my ass. My reaction...priceless. The first piss of the morning no less.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Being pissed on (1/30/2012 5:39:07 AM)
Shorey is astounding.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Being pissed on (1/30/2012 5:40:48 AM)
A few of my femdom pals and I were agreeing that we wanted to have some kind of detachable functioning peen entirely for the purpose of peeing into someone. Though one of them did have a funnel when the urge struck, and there ya go!

mummyman321 -> RE: Being pissed on (1/30/2012 4:24:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP The Man and I had a discussion about this. He sees it as humiliation solely. I said that for many people it's more like a dog marking his territory. With that said, if he does want to do it, it better be in the shower or outside. Urine isn't something I want on the carpet or into the mattress, for that matter. The humiliation and the marking territory seems to be very common. What I do not see very many people saying is TPE or ultimate control. To me I see it as a form of giving up control to the Dominant. And yes...if its going to be done, its going to be some places easy to clean up and sanitize!

needlesandpins -> RE: Being pissed on (1/30/2012 4:33:24 PM)
it's something i never thought i'd be into, but between he and i it would seem that nearly all things are good with us both. he pressed my full bladder so hard he made me pee in little bits. it was a very strange experience for me, but very nice. we've taken it further it it just gets better. needles

mummyman321 -> RE: Being pissed on (1/30/2012 4:54:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus A few of my femdom pals and I were agreeing that we wanted to have some kind of detachable functioning peen entirely for the purpose of peeing into someone. Though one of them did have a funnel when the urge struck, and there ya go! Hibbie, Here, this is just what you need :) [image]local://upfiles/191162/9A827AED29B74C86989F74E252804939.jpg[/image]

SimplyMichael -> RE: Being pissed on (1/31/2012 7:56:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 The first time I was alone with Shorey in a private room, knowing only his first name, he pissed on me. It was such a turn on for both of us. I couldn't wait for the next time I could be with him. Then there was that one time in the Borgata.... that was the day that I learned that a man could piss with a hard on while being in my ass. I still feel sorry for and mentally apologize to the cleaning ladies. We left a good tip when we checked out. That is on my bucket list along with grudge fucking her till she passes out or at less is fucked so raw she has to beg me to stop.

doctorgrey -> RE: Being pissed on (1/31/2012 12:06:52 PM)
it appeals... a lot. I have plans, and so does my playmate. DrG

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