lizi
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ORIGINAL: Arturas
You actually hold this up to challenge my post? Incredible. People get killed at ATMs too but that does not mean you don't use them.
My advice is based on real world experience with submissives and even in vanilla meetings and knowing people in the local community and how things really work.
My post reflects the real world and while some basic precaution is needed when both using ATMs and meeting a man for the first time, the suggestions here I read are just parroted posts from others who sit behind a keyboard and never meet a new man because in real life subs go with Doms on their first meeting all the time and don't "find a local mentor" or "meet at lunch for several days" or some other nonesense, the truth is most women make up their mind about a guy on the first meet and most go with him the first meeting or at least the second (to show him she is not "easy") after taking the basic precaution I mention.
I've read the parroted nonesense before and it simply is not really done that way and don't even get me started on the subject of "safewords' because you cannot handle the real world story on that subject.
So glad you came back Artstar. See, we were asked by Mod 21 to ignore things we thought were outlandish and I wanted to say something about your stance on going home with strangers, but in light of her request I declined. Now that you've reiterated your rubbish I think maybe it's time to speak up.
I'll ignore the blah blah blah quality of most of this posting like I usually do, not sure how you think what you have to say is ever realistic or relevant, and I'd like to concentrate on this....would you tell your daughter, you know, the one staying at your home, to go out and go home with a man on the first meeting? Would you honestly do that as a loving and careful father? Would you tell her "Sure honey, it's fine. Go home with the guy and have fun!"
Earlier, I actually couldn't believe that you were espousing the OP of this thread, this very young OP btw (younger than your daughter I believe), to go ahead and just get her jollies by going home with a guy she hardly knows on their first meeting. You seemed to be saying that very thing just to pick up a beef with some posters here, how very manly of you. I am touched by the fact that you don't seem to care what happens to the OP as long as you get your digs in. She doesn't know she's being used, she's young - we do foolish things when we're young- she thinks you're a Dominant man too  , she might just go ahead and take your advice. How crappy would you feel if she got hurt? To me its a little like telling a little kid it's ok not to watch for cars when she crosses the street. We can hope the child doesn't listen to the person that says that, but youth is always a liability and who knows what the kid will do in the end.
I know we're supposed to ignore your baiting, I'll go ahead and do that when I'm sure that everyone involved is on a level playing field. However, this young girl might not be yet on that level playing field. She's not mature yet, she needs a bit of hand holding yet. That's my opinion and I'll stick with it. If it's too cautious I think that's ok when we're talking about a 19 year old. What you're doing here is abominable. Knock it off and act like the Dominant you supposedly are.
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