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RE: Hi? - 2/1/2012 4:30:09 PM

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Someone point out where I asked to be entertained?

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RE: Hi? - 2/1/2012 4:44:14 PM

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Please tell me how my intellect and personality shall be shown by ticking boxes or typing a few words.

It's quite evident so far that you can compose a sentence, with punctuation correctly used or not. Says something about intellect, don't you think?

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RE: Hi? - 2/1/2012 4:46:04 PM

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Okay, you've filled out your profile. Thanks for doing that.

It sounds like you're taken care of in the bedroom, and are looking for a man to control you online, except for sex and play. Someone to guide you and direct you. Is that it?

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RE: Hi? - 2/1/2012 4:46:42 PM

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Interesting analogy, unfortunately online we don't have the luxury of body language, eye contact etc, words are all we have at first, and hi (to me personally) does not cut it.

THAT, my dear, is exactly why a profile should be fully fleshed out, ENTICING, and INVITING. Nobody is going to make an effort towards you, unless you do the same, and put yourself out. It's called marketing. Who wants to know or date a "blank."

You may be a marvelous person, with much to offer, but no one will know, unless you show yourself. One can't expect another to invest in them, if they offer no return.

Think of it like fishing in a big ole pond. You need to put out bait. The better the bait, the better the bite you'll get.

Now, be a dear, stop complaining, and get with the program...if you want results, that is.

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RE: Hi? - 2/1/2012 4:51:04 PM

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I'm am no ones 'dear', but I shall take note of your advice. thank you

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RE: Hi? - 2/1/2012 4:52:30 PM

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If you didn't want anyone to give you their opinions, why the hell did you ask? It's obvious that you have zero interest in lifting a finger to get to know anyone, as friends OR potential partners, and frankly, your attitude isn't very attractive.
It's like you're saying why bother wearing anything clean, or brushing your hair to go out to a bar, because you'll probably just hate everyone anyways and never go back.
Self fulfilled prophecy, my dear.

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RE: Hi? - 2/1/2012 4:56:07 PM

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Oh dear me, such strong words, and how do you seem to know so much about me?

You have no fucking idea about me, so come down a few pegs, mate. :)

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RE: Hi? - 2/1/2012 4:58:41 PM

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We're nearing

time. Glad I have my comfies on.

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RE: Hi? - 2/1/2012 4:59:36 PM

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We don't know you at all. Just what you've shown us. Which is why we suggested sharing about you. What was the point of your post? Do you really need us to tell you that a "Hi" is not a conversationalist move?
You've gotten some good suggestions here, but have chosen to be above taking them, hence my point, mate.

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RE: Hi? - 2/1/2012 5:00:51 PM

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So what I have achieved this morning? I have proven to myself that this site is similar to a lot of others, lots of experts who wrap opinions up as fact and a condescending tone is normal.

Nothing new

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RE: Hi? - 2/1/2012 5:00:58 PM

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Your level of anger doesn't match the comments you are receiving on this thread. I'm not sure what is making you so mad, but it isn't us.

I hope you feel happier in the morning.

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RE: Hi? - 2/1/2012 5:01:18 PM

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I want to contain my sarcasm, I find that it puts people off a bit.

What I see, and I have not looked at the profile, is a person who is bitter.
You want a just add water type thing, or some cyber play, but you think that it is beneath you to reach out for those things.

You come to the boards and you ask what gives, and when you don't get the desired response of it's them and not you...you get ass hurt about it.

I think you need a reality check.

I don't think it will sink in. I don't think you will get beyond this point.

I think you will continue to make pointed, defensive, and bitter remarks about how no one likes you, (rather you don't like anyone) and how you should be able to do what you want.

To me this is another case of you know the answer but you just want to hear it out loud.

You don't want to put yourself out there, and that is fine. If you give nothing, you get nothing. This is the way of life.

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RE: Hi? - 2/1/2012 5:03:00 PM

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Howdy !

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RE: Hi? - 2/1/2012 5:04:01 PM

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What about "Poppet"?

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RE: Hi? - 2/1/2012 5:04:12 PM

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Y'all got nothing better to do, read your own comments and tell me they are meant in a nice way.. No they are not.

Maybe take a look at how you speak yourselves, I have taken on board true advice given.

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RE: Hi? - 2/1/2012 5:04:34 PM

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Do you realize how emo and bitter you sound?

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So what I have achieved this morning? I have proven to myself that this site is similar to a lot of others, lots of experts who wrap opinions up as fact and a condescending tone is normal.

Nothing new

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RE: Hi? - 2/1/2012 5:07:13 PM

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You seem to think you know, but you don't. But hey why let that ruin your fun.

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RE: Hi? - 2/1/2012 5:09:41 PM

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I'm am no ones 'dear', but I shall take note of your advice. thank you

When I use the term dear, to which many others here can attest, it is done with friendly intent. I use it for my intents and purposes, only, as it pleases me to do so. Whether or not you choose to embrace, or be offended, by it, is entirely up to you.

As for my advice, solicited by you, what you do or don't do with it, is again, entirely up to you.

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RE: Hi? - 2/1/2012 5:10:47 PM

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And I'm done, I'm not here to argue, I'm not an emo or bitter, what I don't tolerate is what I see as condescending people with nothing better to do.

Enjoy running the next one outta Dodge

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RE: Hi? - 2/1/2012 5:11:42 PM

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You got some very valid advice and you chose to snark everyone.

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