NuevaVida
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ORIGINAL: littlewonder yeah, see, that's the problem I'm having with turning 40. I'm restarting my life now with my daughter gone, I've sold my home I lived at for over 10 years, sold or gave away almost everything I owned, up and moved to another state to be with Master, quit my job and now I'm finishing college since I was never able to before, going on a vacation overseas since I was never able to and just doing things I want to do for me now. But I think about how half my life has "wasted" away. I know I know...I raised a daughter, worked in a career that will help me to advance when I decide to go back to work, etc....but I still feel like I should be so much further ahead especially since I see my friends from high school who now have good jobs, have really done stuff with their lives. But it's funny....4 of them either got married or just got engaged and just had children or currently pregnant while I did that 20 years ago lol. I went through almost the same thing, minus the having kids part. But here's the thing. I spent my 40th birthday alone in New York City, front row at the Macy's Parade (yes it was on Thanksgiving that year) - then met up with my sister and we saw Chicago on Broadway. And I thought - oh hell yeah THIS is LIFE! That was my starting point to start getting the most out of life and really enjoying the time I have left. It's been awesome ever since. Life isn't about accomplishments, it's about enjoying what's around you, loving, giving, experiencing, exploring, etc...in my book, anyway!
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