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CollarMe works, a big thank you. - 2/3/2012 12:00:58 PM   
areallivehuman


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Howdy,

I'd like to take this opportunity to thank this site,and pay homage to a woman I met here, who will soon be my live-in, full-time, woman. Also I'd like to relate my experience in internet woman hunting, and maybe offer up a couple of tips that worked for me.

First, to Boundforfreedom, who is the simply the greatest woman I've ever had the pleasure of knowing. She's kind, smart, funny, and cute. She, a submissive of some experience, active in her local community. Me, a 50ish, recently divorced,absolute newb. Her profile was one line ,"i have a question. Is there truly truth honesty trust and strength out there?" I would normally ignore one line profiles, nor do I send one word replies. This time though, I answered simply "Yes". We wrote a few C-mails back and forth. Somewhere along here she let slip that she rode her own motorcycle, at which point I was already half in love, I love girls who ride their own bikes.
As it happened, I was scheduled to attend some training seminars in her city, which is about 95 miles from me. It was a 2 day seminar, I was staying in a motel, and I arranged to meet her for dinner. Never have I met a woman to whom I could talk with so easily. There was instant rapport, and an incredible flow to the conversation. And I am not particularly talkative. We agreed to meet again, Friday next, as I had another seminar that day. I am sure she was not expecting me to step in and kiss her goodbye, I pretty much ran my face into her head when she jerked it up.
Next week came, and we met at a coffee shop. The plan, a long motorcycle ride. Her bike was not on the road; abused , uninspected, and needing tires. So, my trusty old FLH, a beautiful summers eve, the wilds of western NY, just the ticket. A funny thing, we met at a coffee shop, she in her car,when I suggested we leave her car in the parking lot of a nearby grocery store, she instead told me she'd be more comfortable with it in her own driveway, and did I mind following her home. I had not asked her for her home address, or phone number, figuring she would share those with me when she felt comfortable. Apparently, trust was established early. More so I believe after an hour on my pillion, you can tell a lot about a person by observing how they ride.
That was our first night together, nearly 6 months ago, and the rest will soon be history. CollarMe worked for me, all I had to do was be myself, not lie, be polite, and treat people as I would treat family. And to have faith, believe in myself, and be patient.
Thanks again to CollarMe, and all the people who contribute to make it what it is. I have learned a lot by reading these boards. And thanks especially to my girl boundforfreedom, for giving yourself so graciously to me.

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RE: CollarMe works, a big thank you. - 2/3/2012 12:02:21 PM   
Iamsemisweet


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Hurray for you guys!  I hope you  have much happiness together.



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RE: CollarMe works, a big thank you. - 2/3/2012 12:03:22 PM   
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HUZZAH!

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RE: CollarMe works, a big thank you. - 2/3/2012 12:26:27 PM   
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Absolutely fantastic! Thanks for sharing, and every happiness to you both. Keep the shiny side up!

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RE: CollarMe works, a big thank you. - 2/3/2012 12:37:17 PM   
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Congratulations!

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RE: CollarMe works, a big thank you. - 2/3/2012 12:58:50 PM   
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By Gawd, that's good news!

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RE: CollarMe works, a big thank you. - 2/3/2012 1:51:28 PM   
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RE: CollarMe works, a big thank you. - 2/3/2012 1:59:41 PM   
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That's wonderful news. I hope you have a long and happy life together. May it bring you both everything you desire.

edited cause I can't spell/type today.

< Message edited by MsLadySue -- 2/3/2012 2:00:46 PM >


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RE: CollarMe works, a big thank you. - 2/4/2012 7:16:16 AM   
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I have never posted in this forum, however, i was honored by this post. The last several months have been amazing. Imagine finding someone who finishes your thoughts, looks you in the eye and gets that evil smile... their eyes glisten and you just know... Until now i never really knew "boundforfreedom". You have taught me that ropes are not the only thing that bind. You refer to yourself as a newbie often, but Your natural tendencies and enjoyment of what You do prove that true Dominance is innate. Sharing my thoughts and feelings in a public forum is not easy, but, in this instance, important. I have learned so much from you. Never have i felt such trust of another person. You are honest, caring and fiercely loyal. I am grateful everyday for your simple reply to my profile. As for that first ride on your bike, my initial thought as we rode down the street was "OMG, am i crazy? I am on the back of someone else's bike." By the time we hit the second red light, i was at ease. 40 or 50 miles into our ride, i was feeling a familiar buzz, it was all i could do to keep myself focused on our ride. As you know, you have had a profound impact on my life. So, from the bottom of my heart i would like to thank Collarme.com for offering the venue that brought us together. I am Yours and look forward to everyday with You. My heart, my soul and what is left of my mind, is Yours. Thank You for the honor of being Yours.
k~

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RE: CollarMe works, a big thank you. - 2/4/2012 7:50:02 PM   
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What a beautiful love story. It gives me hope someone out there still might find me. I have run into so many fakes and abusers. I really want to find love again. I want romance and kink. I'm glad the two of you found both in each other!~ :)

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RE: CollarMe works, a big thank you. - 2/4/2012 9:28:09 PM   
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Awwww...I want to have a story like this someday...

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RE: CollarMe works, a big thank you. - 2/4/2012 11:56:47 PM   
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Best wishes as you start your journey together.

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RE: CollarMe works, a big thank you. - 2/5/2012 8:56:50 PM   
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Congratulations to you both.

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CollarMe worked for me, all I had to do was be myself, not lie, be polite, and treat people as I would treat family. And to have faith, believe in myself, and be patient.


Sounds like you're reaping the rewards of your own wisdom.

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RE: CollarMe works, a big thank you. - 2/6/2012 11:43:46 AM   
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Woo-Hoo!! Congrats to you both!!

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RE: CollarMe works, a big thank you. - 2/6/2012 11:58:42 AM   
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congrats! ^_^

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RE: CollarMe works, a big thank you. - 2/6/2012 12:40:48 PM   
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I'm so happy for you two. This gives me hope.

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RE: CollarMe works, a big thank you. - 2/6/2012 9:25:38 PM   
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Congratulations Human. I hope that you experience a long and full relationship with this woman.

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RE: CollarMe works, a big thank you. - 2/7/2012 10:11:38 AM   
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yaaaay

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RE: CollarMe works, a big thank you. - 2/7/2012 12:31:40 PM   
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A huge congratulations to both of you!!!

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RE: CollarMe works, a big thank you. - 2/7/2012 12:39:35 PM   
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Way to go you 2. Wishing you many years of happiness.

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