Lockit
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ORIGINAL: Ohanasvib A slave's acceptance, (The pivot point) As a Master, one may think you grab a woman with a fist full of hair and drive her into submission whether it be sexual or BDSM and she is to perform to unrealistic expectations. The reality could not be farther from the truth... At least foe me. It truly begins with a relationship filled with love, respect and TRUST, in time, it is the responsibility of the sub/slave to offer her self in service or as possession, I call this the pivotal point of the total power exchange. Newbie Dom/Masters commonly miss this or deny this in haste as a means to .... well you know the rest... Short term or casual play is one thing BUT, accepting the slave and the responsibility for her also means fulfilling her emotional needs, this is not a small milestone. Before you say, "but she is a slave, she has no rights to feelings.". To you I say Wake up ! Is she less than a dog ?even a dog has feelings, she may be a slave in her heart, she may long to serve but when she is happily and emotionally secure and invested she is then free with the power to serve beyond your dreams and desires. Taking responsibility for her is to accept full responsibility for her heart and happiness. You think you are going to keep an unfulfilled and unhappy woman because you can overpower her? Your life will be miserable because she is. Remember who is in charge and controlling the future. Be a real Master! Yes domination is a part, but it is equally balanced with important fulfillment of her needs. Will she serve without it? Perhaps, for a while. The question is, "is she serving because it is a part of who she is and overbearing shallow dominance is forced at the time? Or is it love from the depths of her soul. Remember this, when she is in her zone of fulfilled emotional needs you will receive her gifts beyond all expectations. My happiness as Master starts with my responsibility to her for both of us. Who might I ask you are talking to? You came in as if you were here to argue a point or prove your point with an argument and what you had to say on a whole was rather elementary and situational depending on the adults involved. Whether I can agree with something or all of what you said or not, your presentation of whatever point you were trying to drive home wasn't thought out well, wasn't presented as a full picture and was rather basic for those that do believe in accountability and having a personal relationship that includes love or romantic feelings. You posted this in the master forum with dominants of varying styles, life styles, experience and relationships as if you were talking to newbies or those less informed than you are. In all... whether I agree or not or live a certain type of relationship, your post was a fail in my book as it wasn't clear, wasn't directed and was so basic I wonder why you felt it so important to announce it as you did.
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