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ORIGINAL: Aderious

Message to doms: Find a relatively attractive young female sub who isn't 50 lbs overweight? Then don't bother messaging her because you'll never get a response.

Source: Been here for 9 months, probably sent over 1,000 messages, response rate is WELL under 1%. Tried every strategy in the book. Absolutely nothing works. Female subs almost never view my profile (I get one hit every other month, if that). It's just a constant stream of PM's and views from old gay guys. This is what BDSM is all about. Leather perversions for sexual rejects. My pics speak for themselves. I am not a sexual reject. If this site truly had a population of attractive young sub girls then my inbox would be filled with messages from them. But it's not because they don't exist. This is a fantasy site not a dating site for those under 45 and <300 lbs. If you're over 45 and weigh more than 300 then it becomes an actual dating site, but not before.

Just a friendly FYI to straight male doms: don't waste your time. If it looks too good to be true, it is.Those 18-25 year old sub girls are either gay guys wanting to jerk off to your pics or else they're hit-and-run profiles made once and then forgotten by girls who have no intention of meeting anyone off the site.

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ORIGINAL: Aderious

Message to doms: Find a relatively attractive young female sub who isn't 50 lbs overweight? Then don't bother messaging her because you'll never get a response.

Source: Been here for 9 months, probably sent over 1,000 messages, response rate is WELL under 1%. Tried every strategy in the book. Absolutely nothing works. Female subs almost never view my profile (I get one hit every other month, if that). It's just a constant stream of PM's and views from old gay guys. This is what BDSM is all about. Leather perversions for sexual rejects. My pics speak for themselves. I am not a sexual reject. If this site truly had a population of attractive young sub girls then my inbox would be filled with messages from them. But it's not because they don't exist. This is a fantasy site not a dating site for those under 45 and <300 lbs. If you're over 45 and weigh more than 300 then it becomes an actual dating site, but not before.

Just a friendly FYI to straight male doms: don't waste your time. If it looks too good to be true, it is.Those 18-25 year old sub girls are either gay guys wanting to jerk off to your pics or else they're hit-and-run profiles made once and then forgotten by girls who have no intention of meeting anyone off the site.

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ORIGINAL: Aderious

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ORIGINAL: MissAsylum

OK, i'll bite.


*deep breath*

I'm under 25, at a weight that was recommended to me by a doctor, female, to what people tend to unanimously attest to as being attractive.

Not submissive, but I look at it from that point of view.

1. You're naked. Am I supposed to be naked too? Are all we are going to do is fuck? Is that all you think about

Not sure much else needs to be said, but I'll continue.

2. You're intelligent (as you claim), financially stable, mature *tries to hold in giggle*, a personal trainer, like to shove things up my ass, treat me as an object, put me on a leash while I do housework with my sister submissives while you take photos of us in our stockings.

This is what I got from your profile. You don't really explain who YOU are.

3. You are looking for live-in without any details of my living arrangement.

4. You say no men, but you are seeking submissive men, male-dom couples...plus, you're naked. Are we crying foul here?

You aren't interesting. And I mean as a person, not a dominant. And fyi, women in my age group aren't as into physical attributes as much as men your age are.

All i am seeing is that you are interested in fucking more than looking for a mate. If you want a live-in(s), you'll have to present yourself as wanting that.

I'm more than a little bit amused that you are so peeved about not getting any attention that you seem to deserve. As another poster pointed out, men outnumber women by a looooooooong shot.

So fuck a submissive running backwards with a crowbar if she doesn't want to respond to you, when she has a choice.

Seriously, get it out of your head that you are entitled to a response or a submissive girl should be clamoring to be at your black bar.

"1. You're naked. Am I supposed to be naked too? Are all we are going to do is fuck? Is that all you think about"

I am NOT naked in all of my profile photos. How did that fact elude you? When I was NOT naked in my main profile, guess how many replies I got from female subs? ZERO! Is being naked the reason why I'm not getting replies? Logical error detected!

"2. You're intelligent (as you claim), financially stable, mature *tries to hold in giggle*, a personal trainer, like to shove things up my ass, treat me as an object, put me on a leash while I do housework with my sister submissives while you take photos of us in our stockings.

This is what I got from your profile. You don't really explain who YOU are."

So? Ask me (privately) and I'll tell you. There are plenty of people on this site who maintain blank profiles. I used to have a longer profile, but guess how much good that did me? ZERO! Now I give a basic overview, and if anyone wants to know more I can tell them via PM. What's so hard to understand about that? Yes, I am more mature than the 50 year old overweight doms and dommes on this site. Reason? One of many: I take care of my body, which shows that I have discipline. Nowhere in my profile does it say I want to treat you as an object or put you on a leash. But if you object to those things, maybe you shouldn't be on a BDSM site, genius. Try Match.com or eHarmony.

"3. You are looking for live-in without any details of my living arrangement."

PM me for details.

"4. You say no men, but you are seeking submissive men, male-dom couples...plus, you're naked. Are we crying foul here?"

There is no option for femboys or twinks.

Wimmin of ALL age groups are not as interested in physical attributes as men are. I know this. Listen if I take down every single physique photo I have today and fill up my profile with all sorts of intellectual crap, which I could easily do since I'm a prolific writer, my response rate will be ZERO! ZIP! NADA! ZILCH! Believe me, I've tried it.

I've tried everything. There is NOTHING - absolutely NOTHING - that I have not tried. When I say that I'd tried every strategy in the book, I was not joking.

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ORIGINAL: Aderious



Lol, I post on BB.com and I've seen that exact thread. I even posted on it. It was made as a joke. No one there was seriously saying I had a bad physique. A few people pointed out minor (yet valid) criticisms which I acknowledged, but that is the name of the game on a bodybuilding message board. And yet, you get valid criticisms here and somehow it doesn't have the same effect? I thought you said you were intelligent?Bodybuilders are devoted to constant physical improvement. Even 250 lb guys with 7% bodyfat will readily acknowledge that they have "weak spots" that need to be brought up. It's just the name of the game. And yet you are unwilling to acknowledge any "weak spots" in your profile, personality or general attitude that might be part of the problem of you not being able to find a mate. This is a BDSM board and you have many experienced subs and doms giving you advice on a problem that you brought to them. It is afterall, just the name of the game I'm well aware of my weak spots but that doesn't change the fact that I have a better body than the overwhelming majority of the general population. As I said a few posts ago, the only place where you can find guys who can rival or surpass my body is on dedicated bodybuilding forums.

And I know what the male opinion of my physique is because I get flooded with messages from gay guys on every dating site that I join. I get as MUCH attention from gays as I get LITTLE attention from females. Of course, that's a reflection of 2 things: 1) There are vastly greater numbers of gay men online than straight wimmin and 2) Gay men (as men in general) love sex far more than wimmin do and are much more turned on by visual stimuli.I love sex as much if not more than any man I know. DAMN! does that mean I'm a gay man? Guess I better ask Win why he never told me!

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ORIGINAL: TheDarkSaint

I don't post here much.. I prefer to read.

However let ME be specific.

1. A good Master should NEVER be immature

2. Being a good Master has nothing to do with how good you think your body looks

3. And I almost hate to point out this last one, lest you get better at trying to fool people before you grow up. A GOOD Master. Even one trying to pretend to be a good Master. Would at least ATTEMPT to give the impression that they know how to take care of/protect/train their most prized possessions.

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ORIGINAL: provfivetine

I'm also a 25 year old Dom living in Boston.

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ORIGINAL: Aderious
I'm not looking for anyone to blame. Bitches do that. I am no bitch.

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ORIGINAL: Aderious

"1. You're naked. Am I supposed to be naked too? Are all we are going to do is fuck? Is that all you think about"

I am NOT naked in all of my profile photos. How did that fact elude you? When I was NOT naked in my main profile, guess how many replies I got from female subs? ZERO! Is being naked the reason why I'm not getting replies? Logical error detected!

No. There would be a fallacy if I said you were naked in all of your photos. If we are going discuss the nature of all of you photos, there is a delightful still life of your sex toys. Yeah...my original statement stands.

"2. You're intelligent (as you claim), financially stable, mature *tries to hold in giggle*, a personal trainer, like to shove things up my ass, treat me as an object, put me on a leash while I do housework with my sister submissives while you take photos of us in our stockings.

This is what I got from your profile. You don't really explain who YOU are."

So? Ask me (privately) and I'll tell you. There are plenty of people on this site who maintain blank profiles. I used to have a longer profile, but guess how much good that did me? ZERO! Now I give a basic overview, and if anyone wants to know more I can tell them via PM. What's so hard to understand about that? Yes, I am more mature than the 50 year old overweight doms and dommes on this site. Reason? One of many: I take care of my body, which shows that I have discipline. Nowhere in my profile does it say I want to treat you as an object or put you on a leash. But if you object to those things, maybe you shouldn't be on a BDSM site, genius. Try Match.com or eHarmony.

You're into objectification and leashes.

Taking care of your body does not make up for your lack of personality and vanity. And in case you haven't put 2 and 2 together, Einstein, having somebody live with you requires a relationship of some nature.

If YOU are the ones sending out the messages, then it is YOU, who must draw the interest of the receiving party.

"3. You are looking for live-in without any details of my living arrangement."

PM me for details.

I'll pass.

"4. You say no men, but you are seeking submissive men, male-dom couples...plus, you're naked. Are we crying foul here?"

There is no option for femboys or twinks.

Wimmin of ALL age groups are not as interested in physical attributes as men are. I know this. Listen if I take down every single physique photo I have today and fill up my profile with all sorts of intellectual crap, which I could easily do since I'm a prolific writer, my response rate will be ZERO! ZIP! NADA! ZILCH! Believe me, I've tried it.

Then why are you nekkid?

I've tried everything. There is NOTHING - absolutely NOTHING - that I have not tried. When I say that I'd tried every strategy in the book, I was not joking.

And yet you come off as a joke. Pity.

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ORIGINAL: Cuffkinks

Then stop whining like one.

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ORIGINAL: Aderious


So? Ask me (privately) and I'll tell you. There are plenty of people on this site who maintain blank profiles.

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Yes, I am more mature than the 50 year old overweight doms and dommes on this site. Reason? One of many: I take care of my body, which shows that I have discipline.

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"3. You are looking for live-in without any details of my living arrangement."

PM me for details.

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"4. You say no men, but you are seeking submissive men, male-dom couples...plus, you're naked. Are we crying foul here?"

There is no option for femboys or twinks.

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ORIGINAL: Aderious
And all I'm saying is that by virtue of being 1) male and 2) hetero and 3) young, I and anyone
else who fits that criteria will NOT have any success with finding subs on this site.

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail
They wore underpants, or teaingly unbuttoned and unbuckled blue jeans,  and the junk wasn't out front on the camera, obviously it's been awhile for you too.

Now wouldn't all you women agree that would be better, and somewhat of a compromise?

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ORIGINAL: Aderious

Yeah dude, your profile is clearly superior to mine since you admit to liking "booty" and "girls that can shake dat' ass." And let's not forget your stated preference for a girl who is good at "sucking dick (giving massages too)". Clearly, that's exactly what's been missing from my profile.

I'm sure that as soon as I put in a few lines about sex and physical attributes, girls will start replying in droves - my dry spell will be at an end!!!

Meanwhile, back in the REAL world....

Let's see some of the messages you're sending that are getting you so many responses, cowboy. Let's see some of the subs you're meeting from this site.

I'll believe it when I see the evidence. Until then, I don't buy a word of it.

P.S. I find it hilarious that on this thread I'm now being told, on the one hand, that my profile is too vulgar and physically-oriented, while on the other, I've got a guy who openly asks girls to suck his dick telling me that I'm not doing things right.

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ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance

However the site does work...