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Aderious -> RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site (2/21/2012 8:56:09 PM)
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ORIGINAL: sincelo
Op i agree. When looking in your age range and only at modelesque type women, you will run into many that are not genuine women. Many are men pretending to be women or scammers or whathaveyou. This is to be expected i would think and really no different to any other dating site. There are, however, many real woman and there are reasons that they are not replying or initiating contact with you. I realize that i am not in your demographic though i once was so i will speak from that frame of mind though more polite because back then i had a lot of men hitting on me each day and after awhile you do develop a bit of a "fuck off" attitude about it and it took something a bit special to get into my head. Given your profile and posts i can tell you that i would not have responded to you.
Okay let me start with the positives. I absolutely love the suit picture and especially when i was in my early twenties, a man in a nice suit made me weak. You do use the English language well and that is so appreciated in this medium. You also are very aware of what it is that you want and i can easily see whether i fit into that vision or not.
The negative for me (and this would have been me personally) I don't do body builders. I find them to be overly narcissistic as a group and spend more time dedicated to themselves than any relationship (even a D/s relationship needs tending to). You tend to see women in this age group as a homogeneous group when really they are likely at their most diverse as they explore who they are and who they will become. I see the male body as utilitarian by nature. It is not pretty but i love how it makes me feel. Those bare strong arms around me are sexy but puffed out at the side like that you just look like you are trying to look big. I don't mean that rudely. You are very in shape. It is just how i perceive the male body. I love men and i love how they feel and yes i can even say they look sexy but i don't think i have ogled a nude male and got all ooooooh he is hot. Now if you had a pair of jeans on and your chest was bare and you were sitting at the beach or something ... that would be sexy. Instead of cutting your head off you could try turning your head so that your face is not in the shot. The cut off head just seems disjointed. When you run around screaming "I'm hot and smarter than everyone else" it just makes you seem silly and hard to take serious. Let others determine that you are smart and hot and ... well any character. Allow your audience to make up his or her own mind since they will anyway. And please ... women/woman not wimmin/wyman or whatever perversion of the English language seems cool at the moment. You are bright so let's show it.
You claim that taking care of yourself is an expression of your domliness. By your definition then wouldn't a thin woman be dominant as well? She has all of this self control.
In conclusion I will just say good luck to you Aderious.
Thanks, this is the proper way to do critique. I would never think of insulting someone who expressed themselves the way you did. You brought up some good suggestions which I will apply on other sites, most likely. Unfortunately, I'm not going to stop spelling wimmin the way I do because I'm a masculinist. The conventional spelling is too egalitarian for my taste. I'm not a believer in gender equality.
"You claim that taking care of yourself is an expression of your domliness. By your definition then wouldn't a thin woman be dominant as well? She has all of this self control"
Not necessarily dominant per se, but certainly it's an indication of positive character attributes which go above and beyond the physique itself. Namely discipline, work ethic and maturity. Incidentally, the types of girls whom I find most attractive and reserve the greatest amount of respect for are female fitness competitors who lift weights and train seriously. Any female sub who I took under my wing would be placed on a rigorous fitness and diet regimen. I would sculpt her from the ground up and give her the body of a fitness model.
The rest of you can learn a ton from this individual and the way she chose to express herself. I'm extremely parsimonious in praising females so this statement carries all the more weight coming from me.
P.S. My arms look puffed out because I'm flaring my lats. It's not really an intentional gesture on my part. The upper arms rests on the lat when the latter is well developed, as it is on my frame. Lats happen to be my most well developed muscle group.
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