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LadyPact -> RE: NY unable to find scene. (3/3/2012 1:22:10 AM)
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OP, I'd say you are either exceptionally defensive for some reason or you a not a very good judge of responses or character. To start, Roch is absolutely not a bully and is probably one of the more helpful people on the boards when it comes to answering questions. You may not think so, but in My opinion, you owe him and some others who tried to help you an apology.
By your own statement, you didn't expect a lot of people in your area to be what you're into. Logically, that means you weren't going to get a lot of responses of direct information. You probably lucked out that Des gave you some leads because she happens to be in the same area. Have a look at how many posters are on the site, then take into consideration that they are all over the world. Are the odds becoming a little clearer?
What people tried to tell you is that Fetlife has a different type of set up than CM does. CM has an upcoming events section, but Fet was designed specifically with finding groups and events in mind. Also, it's great for specific fetishes, whereas CM allows you to search for specific people. Fet allows you to search by location and that can be a benefit in cases like yours. The people who suggested that to you were trying to help you.
Comments like Mine? I'm not going to lie to you. I would LOVE to be in your position. I miss being in similar circumstances. You may be "so over" going downtown, but there are a lot of people who don't have that as an option or never had that kind of access. You'll just have to forgive those of us who were joining the conversation to talk about varying situations.
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