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RE: Your Opinion please - 3/5/2012 8:29:43 AM

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Just sayin.. MI and GA are closer to the UK *grins*

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RE: Your Opinion please - 3/5/2012 11:00:31 AM

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Hihi Simon! :) Thanks for your kind words! You would have been proud of me yesterday - "one of my most masculine moments"... I was covered head to toe with deck stain, scratched by branches and dirty down to my very core (I mean with actual dirt!) But we now have a freshly stained arbor with trimmed down honeysuckle that looks great and will weather and last longer and the plants will thrive better in the coming summer! :)

When are you coming for a visit? Thunder is in July you know.

Calibirthday is in July as well. Hmmm....

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RE: Your Opinion please - 3/5/2012 11:12:48 AM

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as is the wedding....

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RE: Your Opinion please - 3/5/2012 11:20:51 AM

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as is the wedding....

no plus ones there, though... and hey! fingers crossed for Hot Irish Action, missy!!

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RE: Your Opinion please - 3/5/2012 11:44:39 AM

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as is the wedding....

no plus ones there, though... and hey! fingers crossed for Hot Irish Action, missy!!

yanno, I love you. YOU can tell me to just STFU, and I won't be annoyed..LOL

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RE: Your Opinion please - 3/5/2012 12:05:05 PM

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as is the wedding....

no plus ones there, though... and hey! fingers crossed for Hot Irish Action, missy!!

yanno, I love you. YOU can tell me to just STFU, and I won't be annoyed..LOL

Why would I ever tell you to STFU? We are sisters!!

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RE: Your Opinion please - 3/5/2012 5:06:37 PM

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WARNING

The following post may contain strongly expressed opinions. The author recognizes that these are her opinions, based on her definitions and worldview, and understands that they may not be applicable to anybody else. It is not the wish or intention of the author to imply in any way that her opinions, definitions, desired dynamic, relationship style, or worldview is in any way universally applicable, or that they constitute the only possible way of approaching the issue.

I like men to look like men, but I'm not really all that attracted to the really macho thing. I guess I like a little softness to a man.

The preceding statement(s) represent the views and opinions of the author and the author alone, and should in no way be considered an attempt by the author to define or determine anything for anybody but herself.

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RE: Your Opinion please - 3/5/2012 6:47:11 PM

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Brilliant disclaimers, Lore!

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RE: Your Opinion please - 3/6/2012 4:05:30 AM

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I defenitely like to dominate over a macho man, the stronger the better... I dont find it interesting to top a girly or a weak person, it doesnt make any sense to me or feed my strong side that like to conquer and subdue a strong person...

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RE: Your Opinion please - 3/6/2012 8:07:08 AM

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... I dont find it interesting to top a girly or a weak person, it doesnt make any sense to me or feed my strong side that like to conquer and subdue a strong person...

Hello GoddessB and welcome to the forums! You know, I suspect that you were not equating being girly to being weak in your post above, but I just wanted to make sure that peeps reading understood that a guy having a female side does not (and should not, IMO) equate in any way to being "weak"- of mind, of body, nor of spirit.

Certainly in the expression of a gender-based kink - the sissy sort of play, there can be expressed flouncing or mincing. All fine and good if that is what a person or their partners are into.

For me, I don't mince. I never have, and I probably never will. Having a girly side for me is nothing short of the greatest strength in my life. I buck society, I challenge myself and others, I "see" outside myself, and I embrace differences that I might not if I did not have this part of me, in me so intimately.

There is no weakness in being authentic.

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RE: Your Opinion please - 3/6/2012 8:29:17 AM

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There is no weakness in being authentic.

I think this needs to be a bumper sticker and plastered across the screen of all parties upon logging in. In bright red flashing letters.

AND.......nominated for one of Sunny's quote thingies!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: Your Opinion please - 3/6/2012 8:43:06 AM

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Hello GoddessB and welcome to the forums! You know, I suspect that you were not equating being girly to being weak in your post above, but I just wanted to make sure that peeps reading understood that a guy having a female side does not (and should not, IMO) equate in any way to being "weak"- of mind, of body, nor of spirit.

Certainly in the expression of a gender-based kink - the sissy sort of play, there can be expressed flouncing or mincing. All fine and good if that is what a person or their partners are into.

For me, I don't mince. I never have, and I probably never will. Having a girly side for me is nothing short of the greatest strength in my life. I buck society, I challenge myself and others, I "see" outside myself, and I embrace differences that I might not if I did not have this part of me, in me so intimately.

There is no weakness in being authentic.

I absolutely loved this post. Thank you for explaining things how I've wanted to since this thread was posted. I tried to think of a way to say that when my manly man is dressed in stockings and heels for me, he is nowhere near 'girly' in the way that some people might think. I think people can be a bit quick to think that 'girly' can equal the whole mincing, camp thing, when in fact it doesn't.
Just because a manly man might be comfortable enough in his own body to not protest about wearing said clothes, I don't feel it takes anything away from his masculinity. If anything, in my eyes, it makes him even more attractive and manly to me. I fully understand that a lot of the ladies on here prefer their men to look like men, which is fair enough. I know there are also a lot of ladies who prefer the full TVs, which is also fair enough. Each to their own, as I like to say.
Thank you OttersSwim for making some things clearer.

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RE: Your Opinion please - 3/6/2012 10:11:20 AM

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I 3rd that sentiment. There are some very important ideas in that post. Gender stereotypes and expectations can be a staightjacket of their own and I think it is important to break free of them.

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RE: Your Opinion please - 3/10/2012 7:14:25 PM

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I prefer to dom an Alpha male. His submission is more of a struggle and gift to obtain.

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