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RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? - 3/14/2012 9:48:22 AM

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I've been looking for a while and can't seem to find one that works out.

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RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? - 3/14/2012 11:25:39 AM

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I've been looking for a while and can't seem to find one that works out.

Too vague.

How long is a while?

What have you tried?

How that the ones you've found, not worked out?

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RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? - 3/14/2012 12:52:52 PM

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Very much better :) Now go out there and say hi to a few people!
good luck :)

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RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? - 3/14/2012 2:50:09 PM

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Aww...Sweetie! I've just checked out your profile. You do seem like a nice kid. I'm not sure this is your intent; but, your profile says to me, "Shy homebody seeks dominant girl to beat and cuddle and read 'Blue Champagne' in bed with him, on a drizzly Sunday afternoon." I wish I were younger and cuter and closer. I'd do alladat witchu. I wish you the best of luck.

To paraphrase the best advice: Be patient, be persistent, get a hold of your backbone. Get over your distaste of crowds (if that's an issue) and go meet people. Munches are a great, safe way to do just that. They tend to be held in public and most convo is*very* vanilla. There's no pressure to submit to anyone (except for the odd arsehole or two who have no social skills. But, you find them in *any* crowd.) Leave your expectations at home.

I would also say, be honest with prospective Dominas regarding yourself - your interests, goals, abilities and relative knowledge and experience (not just in BDSM). And, yes, perhaps look into earning a little more scratch - not to "impress the ladies," but to support yourself better! I wouldn't be able to consider a submissive if he had virtually no income, not because he is poor - I'm kinda poor (it's in my profile!) - but, because he would appear to have no real ambition. It's important for me, at least, to be confident that my intended wouldn't be an added financial burden.

Again, best of luck and keep you chin up!

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RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? - 3/14/2012 3:59:07 PM

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Anyone remember how it was to be young and broke? At 20 I had no money either, but managed to date just fine - we just did things that did not require a lot of money.

Yes, but when you were young movies were silent, black and white, and it cost a nickel to see one.

I'm going to run and hide now before he can retaliate.

Don't be impudent. Otters has picked up a great deal about 'coloured movies' as a result of watching very informative programmes on one of Mr Baird's televisual devices.

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RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? - 3/14/2012 4:30:23 PM

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When I was a kid we had NINE planets...so there!

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RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? - 3/14/2012 8:24:22 PM

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When I was a kid we had NINE planets...so there!

I can top that. When I was a kid, America actually manufactured stuff. Now we just buy it all from China, and we have no jobs.

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RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? - 3/14/2012 9:16:50 PM

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When I was a kid we had NINE planets...so there!

I can top that. When I was a kid, America actually manufactured stuff. Now we just buy it all from China, and we have no jobs.

Thats not completely true, thats actually the ind of work my family does (my dad, me and my brother), and its just the three of us at the shop, so thats why I don't meet very many girls at work lol

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RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? - 3/14/2012 9:20:48 PM

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When I was a kid we had NINE planets...so there!

Youngster.

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RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? - 3/14/2012 9:26:19 PM

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When I was a kid we had NINE planets...so there!

Well, when *I* was a lad, you could look out at the Atlantic Ocean and it was all fields, as far as the eye could see. I did all my archery practice there, as a mere foetus, before I was born and sent, as a mere baby, to fight the Romans at Agincourt, under Queen Harold.

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RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? - 3/14/2012 9:27:49 PM

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My ancestors overran your ancestors!

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RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? - 3/14/2012 9:29:22 PM

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My ancestors overran your ancestors!

I can believe that. They probably had SUVs in the USA even back in the Stone Age.

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RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? - 3/14/2012 9:38:19 PM

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Um. My immediate family is from ITALY.

I am probably not making sense. I left the office at midnight and I'm giggling like I got away with something.

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RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? - 3/15/2012 2:58:43 PM

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LH. Pizza for all.

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RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? - 3/15/2012 5:56:16 PM

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When I was a kid we had NINE planets...so there!

Youngster.

When Hillwilliam was young, the Earth was the center of the universe, and the world was flat.

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RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? - 3/16/2012 1:36:54 PM

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When Hillwilliam was young, the Earth was the center of the universe, and the world was flat.

Roch, when you were a young lad just setting out, many moons ago, did you teach particles in the Primordial Soup how to knot their ties and groom their moustaches in a suave and debonair way?

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RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? - 3/16/2012 1:39:39 PM

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When I was a kid we had NINE planets...so there!

Youngster.

When Hillwilliam was young, the Earth was the center of the universe, and the world was flat.

When I was young, the earth hadn't even coalesced yet. Higgs bosons were still zipping all over the place. Know what? they looked just like tiny little rolls of duct tape.

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RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? - 4/12/2012 8:46:12 AM

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You can't find what you're looking for because you have an excuse for every answer that is handed to you.
Grow up.
Quit making excuses.
Live your life.

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RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? - 4/13/2012 11:45:13 AM

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I have that same problem and do more online domination than real time. I get lots of practice though

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RE: Why is it so hard for me to find a mistress near me? - 4/13/2012 2:01:20 PM

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Step one is look her in the eye and smile.

At that point step two becomes obvious. If step two is step off, don't allow the sting to make your eyes water.

Now, is there anything else I can help you with?

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