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Pleasing my Mistress during her period - 3/14/2012 3:13:00 PM   
subforyou51


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Status: offline 		Would love hear from you about pleasing my Mistress during her peroid. I have had a few women over the years that love to be played with and even made love to during their period. Some I have even please when they had a Tampon in. But my persent Mistress can't wear a tampon. I would love to oral please her during her peroid. She is unsure about this but I would love to please her. I feel I could always clean up after we are done. What are your thoughts on this. Is it healthy for both of us or is there any thing that we may have to worry about?
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RE: Pleasing my Mistress during her period - 3/14/2012 4:37:31 PM   
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If she prefers not being pleased during that time, why are you insisting?  Who is in charge in your relationship?


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RE: Pleasing my Mistress during her period - 3/14/2012 5:01:20 PM   
Boudica


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Status: offline 		My subbie hubbie loves to do this for me. Tho there are times when I am REALLY not interested in anything related to sex. He will usually become extra attentive, give me Godiva and throw in a long massage. Often the massage will get me going enough that I allow him to serve orally. He's always pleased with himself that he made me feel so much better and got me smiling again.
It sounds like your Mistress might just be self-conscious about receiving oral service during her period. Your reassurance and enthusiasm should help her overcome it, if that's the case. Good lick!

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RE: Pleasing my Mistress during her period - 3/14/2012 5:03:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		Why are you forcing your kink on someone who is clearly stating they dont want it?

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RE: Pleasing my Mistress during her period - 3/14/2012 5:04:21 PM   
subforyou51


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Status: offline 		She is in charge. She was just worried that might be too much for me.

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RE: Pleasing my Mistress during her period - 3/14/2012 5:11:15 PM   
subforyou51


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Status: offline 		Thank you Boudia for your advice. It is all new to us and she was just worrried that it might turn me off. But the opposite is true. Was just wondering if the were any health issues for her or for me.
Thanks again

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RE: Pleasing my Mistress during her period - 3/14/2012 5:16:23 PM   
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RE: Pleasing my Mistress during her period - 3/14/2012 5:19:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		Shower, because otherwise it's a mess. If you do want to do it somewhere else, I strongly suggest buying dark red towels to protect the surface and not ruin the towels. Which you then need to wash in cold water. And like has been mentioned. Massages, hot tea, Advil and no arguing about missing the game.

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RE: Pleasing my Mistress during her period - 3/14/2012 5:22:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		Look, you may think this is all about her worrying about you, however, apparently you have already told her you get turned on by it.  If she is still uncertain, then her hesitancy has nothing to do with worrying about how you feel.  It has to do with her being unsure as to whether she wants to do that during her time.  Personally I was sore during that time.  Oral sex was uncomfortable as well as any sex.  Maybe she is the same way. 

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RE: Pleasing my Mistress during her period - 3/14/2012 5:23:54 PM   
Boudica


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RE: Pleasing my Mistress during her period - 3/14/2012 5:57:39 PM   
subforyou51


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Status: offline 		Thank you Peppermint for your advice. You have giving me a lot to think about.

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RE: Pleasing my Mistress during her period - 3/14/2012 6:04:35 PM   
hausboy


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Oral to vaginal contact without a barrier is not completely without risk--oral to vaginal contact w/menstrual blood has an increased risk of transmission of herpes, HIV, hepatitis etc.


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RE: Pleasing my Mistress during her period - 3/14/2012 6:24:14 PM   
MissImmortalPain


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Status: offline 		Everyone is being so serious about this so I'm just going to add.....RED WINGS FOR THE WIN.

As for real advice....She either wants to do it or doesn't. If she does, she will. If she doesn't, shut up and stop asking.

*oh* and if you do some how talk her into it I would actually suggest black sheets (but that just might be me)

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RE: Pleasing my Mistress during her period - 3/14/2012 6:42:53 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		I like the dark red towel idea, because I like dark red towels.

Dude, if she says no, FUCKING LISTEN TO HER. There are times when a person just doesn't want to be messed with sexually. Other times, it's all a go. It's good that you're enthusiastic about what you enjoy.

And... I wish I had a bathtub big enough for entertainments THANK YOU LADY PACT for giving me those kinds of thoughts. (Did you ever watch Dynasty? Whenever you heard a shower running, you knew Joan Collins and her tart were going at it! )

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RE: Pleasing my Mistress during her period - 3/14/2012 6:44:28 PM   
Aileen1968


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Status: offline 		Fuck her in the ass. That's always pleasing during my period.

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RE: Pleasing my Mistress during her period - 3/14/2012 8:48:16 PM   
subforyou51


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Status: offline 		Thank you Aileen. She like that to.

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RE: Pleasing my Mistress during her period - 3/14/2012 8:53:56 PM   
Hillwilliam


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Status: offline 		Do what she wants and deal with it. She might want a tummy rub or she might want you to earn your 'red wings'. Regardless, She is calling the shots. You have 2 possibilities.


1. Comply

2. Leave.



Wasn't that just so fucking simple?

< Message edited by Hillwilliam -- 3/14/2012 8:54:31 PM >

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RE: Pleasing my Mistress during her period - 3/15/2012 7:41:19 AM   
kalikshama


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Status: offline 		Hmm, if she can't use a tampon does that mean she can't use a diaphragm or Soft Cup? (Soft Cups leak for me but my diaphragm doesn't if we are relatively gentle during intercourse not on my heaviest days.)

I'm adding this for her general convenience, not your kink: I can only use short brands of tampons such as OB - if she doesn't use tampons because they are uncomfortably long, she could try OBs. (Since we are in Health & Safety I'll note that OBs do not have applicators so one must wash hands before and after inserting.)

What would please me the most during my period is being massaged and having meals cooked.

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RE: Pleasing my Mistress during her period - 3/15/2012 7:52:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		When I was having my cycles, when pleased me was getting massages, wine coolers and anal sex.

One BF enjoyed getting his red wings but I found it nasty because of the mess and the cramps afterwards (brought on heavier bleeding).

Its just not my kink.

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RE: Pleasing my Mistress during her period - 3/15/2012 8:39:04 AM   
bighappygoth39


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Status: offline 		When I first started seeing my partner, I was also worried he might get put off by having him do that, but he managed to reassure me it wouldn't, and it didn't, which was all good as I'm usually extra horny when I'm on my period.

Good luck with it, anyway, and as has been said; if she isn't comfortable with it, don't push it.
Just reassure her it won't put you off and leave it at that unless she mentions it again.

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