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MissImmortalPain -> RE: Daddy/littlegirl (3/17/2012 8:40:56 PM)

I respectully disagree. Simple words have changed more in this world than any single action ever will. But we do not have to agree about that. What we should agree on is the common respect given to another person when speaking to someone we do not know well. Unless your intent was for shock or alarm it is best to think before opening ones mouth.

You said you teach correctness as it suits you. Do you not teach your "kids" how to behave when they come in contact with the rest of the world?



NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Daddy/littlegirl (3/17/2012 9:18:21 PM)


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ORIGINAL: quickieSS

Interesting, how does that work out for you?

It works out great. I was sub when I met him and now I'm a Domme, so we are a D/D couple rather than D/s. I don't do age play though. It just....feels fake to me. Others do it and I have no problem with it as long as they like it but don't expect me to.

NBMG



quickieSS -> RE: Daddy/littlegirl (3/17/2012 9:29:47 PM)

That's cool MeanGirl, I love human sexuality, it's just so damn interesting.



quickieSS -> RE: Daddy/littlegirl (3/17/2012 9:33:07 PM)

Yes I have Janah, I'm just responding to the thread I started. Hi HellionsLight, it's a comfortable lifestyle. I think so anyway. I just feel I have a lot to give and teach. That I just love pampering and spoiling. Only within reason though. If she is a good girl, she gets spoiled, if she is bad, then I'll come up with an appropriate punishment.



angelikaJ -> RE: Daddy/littlegirl (3/18/2012 4:42:51 AM)

I have a complex and wonder-filled relationship with my Master/Owner/Daddy (to clarify: all the same person).

There is a Daddy undercurrent within it; I am supported and nurtured in a way that is very Daddy-ish.

I am His slave, whore, baby-girl and princess.

I wouldn't, nor couldn't have it any other way; He has exceeded my expectations.



MissKittyDeVine -> RE: Daddy/littlegirl (3/18/2012 7:01:06 AM)


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ORIGINAL: quickieSS

You're both correct and I have found a few people, but nothing outstanding. As far as what is over the line, if you are willing to put yourself on a website for your kinks, isn't that already saying feel free to ask me anything. I don't know. If there are some kind of underlying rules to what can be asked and what can't, by all means, point me in the right direction. How about this. Since i've so grossly alienated everyone, i'll put myself out there. Anything, and I do mean anything that you would like to know about me, go right ahead and ask. Sorry for making you feel threatened. I'll just go slam my hand in the screen door now.


It most certainly is not. Courtesy and respect still apply.



quickieSS -> RE: Daddy/littlegirl (3/18/2012 10:47:13 AM)


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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

I have a complex and wonder-filled relationship with my Master/Owner/Daddy (to clarify: all the same person).

There is a Daddy undercurrent within it; I am supported and nurtured in a way that is very Daddy-ish.

I am His slave, whore, baby-girl and princess.

I wouldn't, nor couldn't have it any other way; He has exceeded my expectations.

Your relationship seems to be the exact thing i'm looking for. Good luck in your endeavors.



quickieSS -> RE: Daddy/littlegirl (3/18/2012 10:54:30 AM)

I still don't understand how I was disrespectful. Are people just nit picking for something to bitch at? Will every post be like this? What is the difference in asking someone at a grocery if they have kids, and in a forum setting? Honestly, if I knew I was going to be chastised so hard, I never would have signed up in the first place. Can we please move on? We are beating a dead horse with a stick.



NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Daddy/littlegirl (3/18/2012 5:55:15 PM)


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ORIGINAL: quickieSS

I still don't understand how I was disrespectful.

I think it was the fact that you were asking someone who's a total stranger to you about her personal life. It's a MYOB kind of question, not unlike asking an infertile couple when they're going to have a baby.

NBMG



JeffBC -> RE: Daddy/littlegirl (3/18/2012 6:01:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: quickieSS
Your relationship seems to be the exact thing i'm looking for. Good luck in your endeavors.

That's fascinating.

I say that because while I don't identify as Daddy/whatever with Carol I absolute resonated with angelickaJ's answer. Carol and I have been together for a long time. She is lots and lots of things to me. I think that's what happens when relationships work. They become rich and complex and many-faceted.

So while I lean to "husband/wife" when describing Carol and I, I can also go with "slave, whore, baby-girl, and princess"... and a whole lot more.



JeffBC -> RE: Daddy/littlegirl (3/18/2012 6:03:41 PM)

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ORIGINAL: quickieSS
Can we please move on? We are beating a dead horse with a stick.

Sure.. it's easy. Here's how you make it move on.

You say, "Gosh, I'm sorry if I offended you MissImmortalPain. It wasn't intentional."

Then you ignore any post from anyone except her on the topic. She already has said she wasn't offended. It ends if you end it. You know... the whole "being in charge" thing.



angelikaJ -> RE: Daddy/littlegirl (3/18/2012 6:06:52 PM)

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ORIGINAL: quickieSS

I still don't understand how I was disrespectful. Are people just nit picking for something to bitch at? Will every post be like this? What is the difference in asking someone at a grocery if they have kids, and in a forum setting? Honestly, if I knew I was going to be chastised so hard, I never would have signed up in the first place. Can we please move on? We are beating a dead horse with a stick.


First, thank you.
We have been together for over 3 yrs.
He found me here.

Second, I generally wouldn't be asking complete strangers in a grocery store if they have kids... and if a man asked me in a grocery store if I had them, I might get a squicky vibe from them.

One of the things most women on here (and other forums as well as dating sites) are aware of, is that there is a group of men who purposely seek out women who have children because their interest isn't in the women at all... but in their off-spring.

I have met one person from here who desired a Daddy/lg relationship and as I got to know him a little, did a check and he was listed as a sexual predator.

We don't know you nor know who you are.
I wouldn't have answered that question nicely either.

edit: missing commas



DesFIP -> RE: Daddy/littlegirl (3/18/2012 6:33:05 PM)

As Angelika said, there is a population of predators seeking out single mothers on kink sites. I've gotten mail on a different site from one of them. As such, a strange male asking if we have minors automatically puts us on defensive.

Especially when it had no apparent relationship to your op. Had you asked if single fathers treated their partners in a similar way that they treat their offspring, because you've noticed such a pattern in yourself, you would not have aroused suspicion. But it was not germane to your op and you offered no example from your own life to explain why you asked it.



JeffBC -> RE: Daddy/littlegirl (3/18/2012 8:54:37 PM)

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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ
One of the things most women on here (and other forums as well as dating sites) are aware of, is that there is a group of men who purposely seek out women who have children because their interest isn't in the women at all... but in their off-spring.

ewwwwwwww

And in support of the OP, I didn't know that either

and... ewwwwwwww



quickieSS -> RE: Daddy/littlegirl (3/19/2012 12:32:29 AM)

Damn good point Angelika, and duly noted. I can't believe i'd let something so apparent such as that leak by. I apologize MissPain and anyone else that may have been caught in this minor disagreement. I don't have kids, but if I did, the point made wouldn't have been in question. These types do exist.



quickieSS -> RE: Daddy/littlegirl (3/19/2012 12:33:59 AM)

Just like anyone else, I have faults. It never even occurred to me that this was a thing. Angelika is right, there are sick people in the world.



lizi -> RE: Daddy/littlegirl (3/19/2012 12:52:43 AM)


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ORIGINAL: quickieSS

Damn good point Angelika, and duly noted. I can't believe i'd let something so apparent such as that leak by. I apologize MissPain and anyone else that may have been caught in this minor disagreement. I don't have kids, but if I did, the point made wouldn't have been in question. These types do exist.


When I was looking, I ran into several, not one, several, men who were looking for such a thing and asked me about having children and openly said why they wanted to know. It isn't some rare occurrence, as several women I've talked to from here have all had episodes of the same type of thing happen as well. It also isn't something that this type of man looks for covertly, the ones I encountered are pretty open about it. They seem to think that being on a kink site makes it ok somehow to bring out their kink into the open.

Last month I had someone contact me who had seen my postings on the forum and wanted advice on being a 'good Daddy Dom'. We exchanged a few general emails, he then asked at that point very openly about adult activities that I perhaps engaged in with my offspring- who are all adult at this point, but he wanted to know about their upbringing and if such things occurred in the past between myself and my children. After a bit of time and effort his profile finally disappeared from CM, who knows if he's back with a new one.





PowerXXXchange -> RE: Daddy/littlegirl (3/19/2012 3:32:12 AM)

RE: Daddy/littlegirl
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When I was looking, I ran into several, not one, several, men who were looking for such a thing and asked me about having children and openly said why they wanted to know. It isn't some rare occurrence, as several women I've talked to from here have all had episodes of the same type of thing happen as well. It also isn't something that this type of man looks for covertly, the ones I encountered are pretty open about it. They seem to think that being on a kink site makes it ok somehow to bring out their kink into the open.



And, just being hypothetical, IF we lived in a society where pedophilia was illegal and law inforcement agencies were on the ball... and also IF it was generally assumed that pedophiles used the Internet to look for victims... (we do and they do)

Then would it not be fair to assume that somewhere there might be a federal or state law enforcement agency who in the course of simply doing what they are sworn to do, would be aggressively monitoring and phishing in alternative sexual sites? ( a good thing, IMHO)

I have had strangers in a chat session want to take the conversation there, and be amazingly direct about describing their interests in incest. The other chatter was either a law enforcement officer or a very uncool person... I assume it is simply a clumsy but good cop looking out for the innocents.

Please forgive me for taking this discussion in a slightly different direction... Very new here.

P



IrishMist -> RE: Daddy/littlegirl (3/19/2012 5:04:32 AM)

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What is the difference in asking someone at a grocery if they have kids, and in a forum setting?

Most people would NEVER just walk up to a stranger in a grocery store and ask if they have kids.




Madame4a -> RE: Daddy/littlegirl (3/19/2012 5:45:41 AM)

you might have better luck offline in your local community



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