lizi
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ORIGINAL: PowerXXXchange RE: Daddy/littlegirl quote: When I was looking, I ran into several, not one, several, men who were looking for such a thing and asked me about having children and openly said why they wanted to know. It isn't some rare occurrence, as several women I've talked to from here have all had episodes of the same type of thing happen as well. It also isn't something that this type of man looks for covertly, the ones I encountered are pretty open about it. They seem to think that being on a kink site makes it ok somehow to bring out their kink into the open. And, just being hypothetical, IF we lived in a society where pedophilia was illegal and law inforcement agencies were on the ball... and also IF it was generally assumed that pedophiles used the Internet to look for victims... (we do and they do) Then would it not be fair to assume that somewhere there might be a federal or state law enforcement agency who in the course of simply doing what they are sworn to do, would be aggressively monitoring and phishing in alternative sexual sites? ( a good thing, IMHO) I have had strangers in a chat session want to take the conversation there, and be amazingly direct about describing their interests in incest. The other chatter was either a law enforcement officer or a very uncool person... I assume it is simply a clumsy but good cop looking out for the innocents. Please forgive me for taking this discussion in a slightly different direction... Very new here. P This absolutely crossed my mind, that it was the 'good guys' looking out for kids. Let's say I had 4 such encounters, looking back, that seems about right. I would say at least 1/4 to 1/2 of those were probably men really looking for women with children- I think that's a fair percentage, maybe higher because I do think the percent of bad guys vs good guys out there hunting them down is higher on the side of the bad guys, as I'm sure places of law enforcement simply don't have whole groups of people to devote to phishing schemes on the internet. In fact when people have spoken to me on the subject and suggested actually asking these men questions that will further incriminate them -my answer is no, I wouldn't do it and wouldn't suggest it to another woman as it might be law enforcement on the other end, who would view your further interest in such activities as being highly suspicious. I won't have anything to do with it in any form, I block and report the instant it happens. Not that it does much good sometimes, I've had to follow up with requesting that action be taken. Back to the OP, if he asked me a question of having children as polite small talk it would definitely come across as a red flag. Venue doesn't matter, the grocery store would give me the same sudden, wary feeling. No one here was beating a dead horse when they spoke of it and they were not taking him to task in my opinion, they were voicing a real concern that most of us have.
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