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kalikshama -> RE: More late night pondering's..... (3/26/2012 3:59:00 PM)
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ORIGINAL: IrishMist
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Funny about that, I find people who were abused as children to have worse attitudes and manners.
and why would you automatically assume that just because a parent uses this form of discipline that the child is automatically abused?
I think anything other than a hand, such as the wooden spoon or belt mentioned, does carry the strong potential for abuse. If there's interest, let's start a new thread.
Back on topic - I notice bluntness mostly in the Dommes. I think I'm used to women using more words to get to the point, so I notice it more when they don't and don't notice when men are succinct.
Now that the Fearsome Foursome are gone, I don't notice a lot of aggression.
OP - These words are subjective - your "aggressive" might be my "blunt."
Does winterapple's comment resonate with you at all?
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"I think more than anything some people
(I don't mean you, Lisa) have stereotypes
about how submissives especially female
ones are suppose to be and how they are
suppose to behave.
A lot of the grousing seems to come
from people who come to the boards
from the chatrooms. They don't understand
they are two entirely different kettle
of fish.
A message board is about the free exchange
of ideas and opinions. Roleplay and
protocol would kill the forums.
But some seem to expect submissives
to do the girl or boy humbly asks
permission to offer his or hers worthless
opinion before their superiors thing.
And of course a female submissive who
disagrees with a male Dom is obviously
a poser."
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