RedMagic1
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact From talking to a number of female submissives over the years, it's really not all that unusual for some to want the Dom in the relationship to be bigger and stronger. That's especially true for those who enjoy the feeling of being overpowered or take down scenes because they want those kinks as part of the relationship. Sure, and some men have giantess fetish, so the desire you describe can be focused on either women or men. Maybe the most common thing I've heard though, is among vanilla women, who want a man who can pick them up easily, so they can feel like a little girl again. Most of us, though, male or female, aren't 6'6" and jacked. Fortunately, for most women, height and muscles are wants, not needs, and other things can be just as, or more important. I absolutely do believe a woman (or a man) who won't date someone below the top 5% in height or top 5% in education is engaging in potentially self-sabotaging behavior. It just isn't the case that everyone else in the world is a bad catch. What if the shoe were on the other foot, and we were talking about a man who would only date a giantess/amazon? Would you decline to call him superficial? I would say that he is probably too focused on his kink, and there would be a lot of quality women in the world who might be able to satisfy his fetish through creative role play, and he was blind to them.
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