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Need Help - 6/4/2006 9:33:28 AM   
Michael1948


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Status: offline 		How can I be a Good Daddy
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RE: Need Help - 6/4/2006 9:37:34 AM   
Michael1948


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RE: Need Help - 6/4/2006 9:45:42 AM   
Michael1948


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RE: Need Help - 6/4/2006 10:07:41 AM   
maybemaybenot


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Status: offline 		 If you look at the top of your screen, you will see a search feature. Type in Daddy Doms and you will find many threads that have had this as a topic.

                             mbmbn

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RE: Need Help - 6/4/2006 11:20:29 AM   
pinkee


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ORIGINAL: maybemaybenot

If you look at the top of your screen, you will see a search feature. Type in Daddy Doms and you will find many threads that have had this as a topic.

                           mbmbn


<hugs my lovely girlfriend, mbmn>
 
i know this Poster, mbmn, i think He's hoping some of the Daddy Doms will discuss DD/lg relationships.
 
Btw, it's His first post; that's why He stuttered, lmao.
 
Welcome to the boards, Michael.

 
pinkee

< Message edited by pinkee -- 6/4/2006 11:21:23 AM >

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RE: Need Help - 6/4/2006 12:53:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		To the Op...I commend you on your search for info on being a good Daddy,however also do not forget that you also must take into account your own thoughts and preferences..and IMO only of course..think about what makes a good Daddy...the loving,caring ,nurturing of your little one...the disciplines,the instruction,the patience,especially the patience to become what it is you both seek in your own special relationship...please not this is coming from a common sense viewpoint and not one of experience..be well..Tempting

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RE: Need Help - 6/4/2006 1:29:59 PM   
WinterWolf


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Status: offline 		Just some of my humble opinions.
I believe Daddy Dom's should know be good hearted and VERY patient men.
If you are into sadistic type play, you may have a hard time finding a lil girl who wants to be abused.  You will find most lg's want a loving and very emotionally secure daddy, who will be patient and make them feel special as their real daddies may have not.
I believe a Daddy Dom needs to be a master in communication.   Your lg may like to be a brat, she may not be comfy with adult type communication with her Daddy.  You have to know how to talk to her, keeping in mind that she may have security issues or serious abandonment fears.  A good Daddy must be able to control his anger and be able to discipline without making his lg feel like she is unworthy of love.

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RE: Need Help - 6/4/2006 7:29:58 PM   
DelRey


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RE: Need Help - 6/4/2006 9:19:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DelRey

LA will be here shortly with links for you


lmao!! God, I love this forum lol

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RE: Need Help - 6/5/2006 11:35:53 AM   
Kinkypupper


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Status: offline 		Taken from a existing article out of context and no i do not know the original auther but they not I deserves the credit for the words.....


a Daddy Dom:
is a Male type Dominant
Person Who has a strong Fathering
urge, However in D/s When the Daddy
Dom takes a submissive, He treats her
rather like a little girl. He guides,
teaches AND... offers her what she
needs most of all, unconditional love
and acceptance. In my view a Daddy
Dom is the most tender of Dominants.
He loves His little girl with an
unwaivering and passionate love that
is timeless. His little girl is His sunshine
the bright spot in His life. He wants
nothing more than to pull her close
and protect her from the cruel world.
But knowing, He can not, He guides and
teaches her, helping her to be ready for
this world. And then He waits, knowing
she will run to Him when she becomes
overwhelmed and scared by the
harshness of it all. The Daddy Dom
always has His little girl's best interest
in mind, He will help her set and reach
goals, He will help her improve herself
to be the best she can be, not for Him
but for herself . . and yes, He will even at
times punish her. This will no doubt
break His heart, but He will always do
whats best for her. The Daddy Dom
gains as much joy and excitement from
His little girl's daily accomplishment as
she herself does. His pride in her
shows in the tender loving way He
cares for her, she has put that twinkle
in His eyes. The Daddy Dom listens to
all her fears and concerns, knowing no
matter how silly or childish they may
sound to Him, to her they are real and
He will help her confront them. He
slays her dragons, so to speak, and He is
her Hero for it. The Daddy Dom hears
all her dreams and desires and all the
dirty little secrets, and smiles because
she is bold enough and loves Him
enough to open herself up so totally to
Him, and He kisses her face and holds
her close letting her know she is loved
no matter what. she is His little girl,
and He loves her unconditionally. Even
if during scening He brings her great
pain to release her pleasures, He will
cuddle her and show her the
tenderness she craves when she needs
it. When she feels unsure of herself He
will whisper encouraging words for
her, when she feels ugly He will
reassure her how beautiful she is to
Him . . when she is scared He will be her
safety, her medium against the world if
need to be. Even though she is all
woman, she is His little girl and
He is her Daddy.



< Message edited by Kinkypupper -- 6/5/2006 11:37:02 AM >

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RE: Need Help - 6/5/2006 3:11:28 PM   
Petruchio


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Status: offline 		Well damn. Pupper gave such a thoughtful answer that it woud spoil any smartass comment I might come up with.

Good job, Pupper.

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RE: Need Help - 6/5/2006 5:12:16 PM   
sweetbbwsub31


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Status: offline 		Wow! I really like that. Thank you for sharing it Kinkypupper.

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RE: Need Help - 6/6/2006 4:16:21 AM   
keme


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Status: offline 		wow almost makes a girl want a Daddy... Thank you Kinkypupper

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RE: Need Help - 6/6/2006 4:27:02 AM   
talibahh


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

quote:

ORIGINAL: DelRey

LA will be here shortly with links for you


lmao!! God, I love this forum lol


LMAO  ... that was my exact reaction!  
 
tali

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RE: Need Help - 6/6/2006 4:38:06 AM   
talibahh


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WinterWolf

Just some of my humble opinions.
I believe Daddy Dom's should know be good hearted and VERY patient men.
If you are into sadistic type play, you may have a hard time finding a lil girl who wants to be abused.  You will find most lg's want a loving and very emotionally secure daddy, who will be patient and make them feel special as their real daddies may have not.
I believe a Daddy Dom needs to be a master in communication.   Your lg may like to be a brat, she may not be comfy with adult type communication with her Daddy.  You have to know how to talk to her, keeping in mind that she may have security issues or serious abandonment fears.  A good Daddy must be able to control his anger and be able to discipline without making his lg feel like she is unworthy of love.



from one lg's point of view... a lot of this is spot on (for me)... not all of it, but a lot of it!
 
smiles,
tali

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RE: Need Help - 6/6/2006 4:47:11 AM   
talibahh


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From: NSW Australia
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kinkypupper

Taken from a existing article out of context and no i do not know the original auther but they not I deserves the credit for the words.....


a Daddy Dom:
is a Male type Dominant
Person Who has a strong Fathering
urge, However in D/s When the Daddy
Dom takes a submissive, He treats her
rather like a little girl. He guides,
teaches AND... offers her what she
needs most of all, unconditional love
and acceptance. In my view a Daddy
Dom is the most tender of Dominants.
He loves His little girl with an
unwaivering and passionate love that
is timeless. His little girl is His sunshine
the bright spot in His life. He wants
nothing more than to pull her close
and protect her from the cruel world.
But knowing, He can not, He guides and
teaches her, helping her to be ready for
this world. And then He waits, knowing
she will run to Him when she becomes
overwhelmed and scared by the
harshness of it all. The Daddy Dom
always has His little girl's best interest
in mind, He will help her set and reach
goals, He will help her improve herself
to be the best she can be, not for Him
but for herself . . and yes, He will even at
times punish her. This will no doubt
break His heart, but He will always do
whats best for her. The Daddy Dom
gains as much joy and excitement from
His little girl's daily accomplishment as
she herself does. His pride in her
shows in the tender loving way He
cares for her, she has put that twinkle
in His eyes. The Daddy Dom listens to
all her fears and concerns, knowing no
matter how silly or childish they may
sound to Him, to her they are real and
He will help her confront them. He
slays her dragons, so to speak, and He is
her Hero for it. The Daddy Dom hears
all her dreams and desires and all the
dirty little secrets, and smiles because
she is bold enough and loves Him
enough to open herself up so totally to
Him, and He kisses her face and holds
her close letting her know she is loved
no matter what. she is His little girl,
and He loves her unconditionally. Even
if during scening He brings her great
pain to release her pleasures, He will
cuddle her and show her the
tenderness she craves when she needs
it. When she feels unsure of herself He
will whisper encouraging words for
her, when she feels ugly He will
reassure her how beautiful she is to
Him . . when she is scared He will be her
safety, her medium against the world if
need to be. Even though she is all
woman, she is His little girl and
He is her Daddy.




so beautiful... i want my Daddy
 
tali

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"It is a mistake to try to look too far ahead. The chain of destiny can only be grasped one link at a time" ~ Sir Winston Churchill

in giving You my freedom, i gain the freedom to be me ...
~ tali ~

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