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wtf? nude but no sex? - 4/2/2012 3:18:51 PM   
seductdom


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Status: offline 		I don't follow the logic of posting nude then saying you do not want sex at all...

I've seen this by several different people on several adult sites, not just CM...have to wonder why post up nude then tell everyone you don't want any sex...
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RE: wtf? nude but no sex? - 4/2/2012 3:24:15 PM   
Kaliko


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Status: offline 		Well, I don't really know what exactly you're referring to, but...posting nude (or almost nude) pictures is fun. Isn't that reason enough? :)



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RE: wtf? nude but no sex? - 4/2/2012 3:25:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		And this has what to do with BDSM?????

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RE: wtf? nude but no sex? - 4/2/2012 3:30:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		What does nudity have to do with sex?  People go to nudist places all the time.  Those people are not jumping in and out of bed all day and night.  So maybe they are nudists?

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RE: wtf? nude but no sex? - 4/2/2012 3:30:57 PM   
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RE: wtf? nude but no sex? - 4/2/2012 3:35:40 PM   
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RE: wtf? nude but no sex? - 4/2/2012 3:43:32 PM   
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RE: wtf? nude but no sex? - 4/2/2012 3:45:46 PM   
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I don't follow the logic of posting nude then saying you do not want sex at all...

You think that's bad.....what about those that want sex with their clothes on?

< Message edited by poise -- 4/2/2012 3:46:16 PM >

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RE: wtf? nude but no sex? - 4/2/2012 3:48:13 PM   
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RE: wtf? nude but no sex? - 4/2/2012 6:46:06 PM   
Musicmystery


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Well, I don't really know what exactly you're referring to, but...posting nude (or almost nude) pictures is fun. Isn't that reason enough? :)




I like how you think.

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RE: wtf? nude but no sex? - 4/2/2012 10:01:02 PM   
CynthiaWVirginia


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ORIGINAL: seductdom

I don't follow the logic of posting nude then saying you do not want sex at all...

I've seen this by several different people on several adult sites, not just CM...have to wonder why post up nude then tell everyone you don't want any sex...


I didn't have vanilla type sex (my clothes stayed on at all times) with any of my past bottoms or subs, but yes, I made them strip. It made them feel more vulnerable, was a bit embarrassing, and helped me to put them into the headspace where I wanted them to be. At a play party this past weekend, my boy's piercer needed a roll of paper towels, and I had bo go downstairs in some pink lacy underwear to go get them, lol. This was not an invitation for others to do whatever they wanted to my submissive...I just wanted him to feel watched by others and to feel more vulnerable.

Also keep in mind that some people are exhibitionists...and others are voyeurs. When you go to a bar that has exotic dancers, do you expect to watch those nekkid women dance and enjoy this for what it is, or...do you get miffed for not being allowed to fuck them?

Patience. With some subs, we have to take time to earn their trust, respect, dependence and love before oral/vaginal/anal sex becomes part of the relationship.

Some people are into BDSM and have vanilla partners who have set limits on their playtime with others. Some partners only allow non-sexual service, impact play, and bondage.

Good luck with your search.

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RE: wtf? nude but no sex? - 4/3/2012 2:58:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: seductdom

I don't follow the logic of posting nude then saying you do not want sex at all...

.......have to wonder why post up nude then tell everyone you don't want any sex...


Wow! That question makes you seem like a neanderthal. I can think of plenty of reasons why someone would post nude pics but not want to have sex with you.

Have you ever looked a picture from Playboy? How many of the models have you fucked? Probably none. Moreover, they probably wouldn't let you fuck them even if you met them (in fact, I'm 100% certain of that).

Just because a woman has a nude picture, that does not mean that you get to fuck her.

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RE: wtf? nude but no sex? - 4/3/2012 3:35:57 AM   
LafayetteLady


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Status: offline 		I get what you are saying, but let's face it, this site is far from Playboy, and the real people on here?  Far from the type magazines look to take pictures of in the nude.

I also get the OP's point as well.  Yes, there are lots of people who want a service oriented BDSM relationship, but posting nude and saying they want a partner with no sex involved is like saying "here's what you won't be getting." 

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RE: wtf? nude but no sex? - 4/3/2012 5:36:15 AM   
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Well, I don't really know what exactly you're referring to, but...posting nude (or almost nude) pictures is fun. Isn't that reason enough? :)




You need to have lots more fun.

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RE: wtf? nude but no sex? - 4/3/2012 6:54:34 AM   
Killerangel


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ORIGINAL: seductdom

I don't follow the logic of posting nude then saying you do not want sex at all...

I've seen this by several different people on several adult sites, not just CM...have to wonder why post up nude then tell everyone you don't want any sex...


There doesn't have to be any logic. People can do what they like, especially in such a personal area. Stop trying to think that everything should conform to your own view of things and remember that everyone has their own reasons for doing what they like. Is that so hard to figure out? What's the logic in trying to impose your own logic on someone else?

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RE: wtf? nude but no sex? - 4/3/2012 7:52:05 AM   
Rochsub2009


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ORIGINAL: Killerangel


quote:

ORIGINAL: seductdom

I don't follow the logic of posting nude then saying you do not want sex at all...

I've seen this by several different people on several adult sites, not just CM...have to wonder why post up nude then tell everyone you don't want any sex...


There doesn't have to be any logic. People can do what they like, especially in such a personal area. Stop trying to think that everything should conform to your own view of things and remember that everyone has their own reasons for doing what they like. Is that so hard to figure out? What's the logic in trying to impose your own logic on someone else?


Particularly when deciding that you get to fuck them simply because they posted a naked pic would constitute rape in most places.

OP, you're not a rapist, are you?

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RE: wtf? nude but no sex? - 4/3/2012 7:55:43 AM   
risktaker9


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ORIGINAL: seductdom

I don't follow the logic of posting nude then saying you do not want sex at all...

I've seen this by several different people on several adult sites, not just CM...have to wonder why post up nude then tell everyone you don't want any sex...


Maybe you just didn't make the cut of being someone they wanted to have sex with.

So anyone who posts nude pictures should be available to have sex? There are sure going to be long lines outside of any actor/actresses doors from this point on now that we've been enlightened. If we take pictures by the ocean does that mean we have to swim in it or that we can swim in fact? If a someone is standing next to a cool car does it mean it belongs to them? If you see the luscious food pictures in magazines or on food boxes does it mean it will look like that after you cook it?

Why the heck is it so hard to figure out that sometimes you can look but not touch...have you never been to a museum before? So I guess anyone posting nudes is consenting to sexual activity

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RE: wtf? nude but no sex? - 4/3/2012 8:01:08 AM   
LafayetteLady


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ORIGINAL: risktaker9


quote:

ORIGINAL: seductdom

I don't follow the logic of posting nude then saying you do not want sex at all...

I've seen this by several different people on several adult sites, not just CM...have to wonder why post up nude then tell everyone you don't want any sex...


Maybe you just didn't make the cut of being someone they wanted to have sex with.

So anyone who posts nude pictures should be available to have sex? There are sure going to be long lines outside of any actor/actresses doors from this point on now that we've been enlightened. If we take pictures by the ocean does that mean we have to swim in it or that we can swim in fact? If a someone is standing next to a cool car does it mean it belongs to them? If you see the luscious food pictures in magazines or on food boxes does it mean it will look like that after you cook it?

Why the heck is it so hard to figure out that sometimes you can look but not touch...have you never been to a museum before? So I guess anyone posting nudes is consenting to sexual activity



See, I didn't take the OP as implying that he exchanged emails with these people and they expressed no interest in them.  I took it as they post provocative nude pictures of themselves and then within their profile state they aren't interested in having sex with their partner once they find one.

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RE: wtf? nude but no sex? - 4/3/2012 8:16:19 AM   
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See, I didn't take the OP as implying that he exchanged emails with these people and they expressed no interest in them.  I took it as they post provocative nude pictures of themselves and then within their profile state they aren't interested in having sex with their partner once they find one.


You could certainly be right. I thought he seemed butthurt, which to me meant he had invested something along the way like a little time to write to them and was then disappointed in his efforts. People sometimes have an inflated view of what their efforts should mean, happens on here a lot.

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RE: wtf? nude but no sex? - 4/3/2012 8:50:54 AM   
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