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slutteslave -> RE: Just what is safer today? (5/1/2012 7:31:16 PM)
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What a great series of posts. i agree that his wanting to be upfront is a great
quality. its a start! you have an opportunity here possibly. most people in his
position will respond to heart. you could help him. but then again most people
in his postion are stubborn, so helping him will be diffcult if you feel attached.
i recently had a girlfriend from highschool speculating about our hooking up
again. due to my encounters on this site i have developed a protocol of having
people who want sex with me to have both of us take an std screening together,
and then vow to be totally open about any sexual encounters outside our union.
her reponse was "even me?". as a tgirl i am highly susceptable to disease because of the
way tgirls are used by men.... and women. but mostly men. but she probably didn't
see the need for mutual protection. trust is also not the issue here. intuition and
trust have their place in a relationship. but health is paramount. without health
all is denyed. i think that might be why marriage came about, or at least one of the reasons.
besides a stable environ for children, marriage tends to try to isolate the pool of liquids
one must dive into. nature has given us weapons to keep us healthy. intuition and trust
are part of the arsenal. love certainly can be. common sense, and conservative play is another.
for some fantasy play is a good learning tool. fantasy helps you learn about your
mate also, and see clearly what you are getting into. i have noticed women
tend to tend away from fantasy and head into the real thing moreso. maybe not?
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