ChatteParfaitt
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Joined: 3/22/2011 From: The t'aint of the Midwest -- Indiana Status: offline
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I am of the opinion there are two kinds of switches, if you will. Those we tend to change roles within a given relationship, and those (like myself) who do not. My primary partner is my dom, my secondary is my sub, nobody changes roles. I've been doing this for over 30 years now, I've never switched roles within a relationship, so I don't think I'm wired that way. I'm one or the other, depending on who I am with. However, I know some delightful switch couples (or poly families) who change roles at will. It's cool to watch the synergy. There are people who say switches don't exist, we are merely confused people who need to decide. They are wrong. We do exist. I admit, we can be difficult for those who are firmly wired one way or the other to understand.
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