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RE: how do i make a girl tie me up? - 5/15/2012 11:09:40 AM   
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A lot of kinksters, (specifically, people who are interested in being dominated) often lose track of reality in that they don't remember there's another breathing human being that has her own desires and wants. If you aren't capable (and willing) to approach those, you're back to square one again.


That was well said.


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RE: how do i make a girl tie me up? - 5/15/2012 10:21:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't know if this is off topic, but I guess the concern I would have is "what happens after being tide up"?. I mean does the dom/sub relationship mean she truly can do what she wants? I assume that some boundaries are discussed before hand?

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RE: how do i make a girl tie me up? - 5/18/2012 9:51:11 AM   
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RE: how do i make a girl tie me up? - 5/18/2012 11:49:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		You need to pull a knife on them. That's the only way to get them to do it man.

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RE: how do i make a girl tie me up? - 5/18/2012 3:05:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Soyokaze

You need to pull a knife on them. That's the only way to get them to do it man.



In spite of the quote above,

What do you mean .. make THEM TIE YOU UP? ???

See a Pro Domme and give Her Your exact Order .. it will cost you 300 or 400 hundred ...

But You will GET EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT!

Which is YOUR fantasy .. no one else's



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RE: how do i make a girl tie me up? - 5/18/2012 3:27:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CougarRick

I don't know if this is off topic, but I guess the concern I would have is "what happens after being tide up"?. I mean does the dom/sub relationship mean she truly can do what she wants? I assume that some boundaries are discussed before hand?



Like, do you know about the basics, such as: communication, trust building and developing a relationship?

If You are in a real relationship .... there are no boundaries ...

With a Pro Domme, you discuss the boundaries ... Because you are paying Her~!

In a relationship you DO IT ...

TO PLEASE HER!


So .. after you are TIED up ... She does what She wants .... you have NO CHOICE!

Because your goal is to please HER!

Clearly trust building, communication, etc., are important ...

Otherwise you could be Her dinner!



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RE: how do i make a girl tie me up? - 5/18/2012 3:30:35 PM   
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Seems I am stuck forever .. with the number of posts ... 765 ...




< Message edited by seekingOwnertoo -- 5/18/2012 3:32:16 PM >

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RE: how do i make a girl tie me up? - 5/18/2012 3:49:32 PM   
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Error ...

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RE: how do i make a girl tie me up? - 5/26/2012 4:04:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think there's a fairly serious point behind this question - if you aren't associating with a known kinkster, how can you tell what your partner is into? When do you reach the point when you can tell someone you know from work, college or church that - well, I have these ideas, you know? And it is scary because worst case scenario, she tells everyone you know.

Well, this is just me, but -

If you're looking for a serious relationship with this lady, then you need to know if this is something she's actually into. I'd be inclined to have a beer with her, and put a copy of 'The Secretary' on the DVD. Don't worry about how she 'reacts', because unless she tears your clothes off and hog ties you with the lamp flex, her responses can't be relied on. She'll pretend it's silly, or just took dumb. When the things finished, have a chat about the film. Sound her out - 'so which character do you associate with more? Me? Well don't freak out, but I kind of associate with the woman who gets tied up.' If she seems to be reasonably interested, then you can talk about your own interest with a bit more coinfidence.

If you are just friends with this girl and you wanted her to tie you up, then I'd just ask. Don't make a big deal out of it. Hand her a rope and say 'could I try something? I'd really like to know what it feels like to be tied up for a while. Could you do my hands behind my back, then pull my feet up and tie it round them?' If you don't have any sexual feelings for her, then she might just go for that.

But - yeah, maybe it's best to just start with a kinky person - you know they won't run off screaming.


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RE: how do i make a girl tie me up? - 5/26/2012 4:58:56 PM   
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RE: how do i make a girl tie me up? - 5/26/2012 5:06:11 PM   
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You just be honest and ask her if she's into it. Otherwise, you hire a pro.


Yeah, what addicted2it said.

Why can't I every write it as succinctly as that?

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RE: how do i make a girl tie me up? - 5/28/2012 6:07:42 PM   
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does anyone have any advice for how to bring this up and get her to do it? thanks.
Words are usually effective.

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