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oddlots347 -> Would you be flexible??? (4/15/2012 11:04:48 AM)
Lets say you are looking for that 24/7 relationship. I understand that all relationships are and will be different and that there is no booklet that says this is the way a relationship needs to be to succeed. That being said, what would be somethings you would expect out of your sub/slave that there would be no room for negotiations from you at all.

MissImmortalPain -> RE: Would you be flexible??? (4/15/2012 11:14:55 AM)
Honesty.

Bucephalus -> RE: Would you be flexible??? (4/15/2012 12:20:01 PM)
Honesty, trust (obviously) and respect. Other than that, I can be fairly fair and flexible.

RedMagic1 -> RE: Would you be flexible??? (4/15/2012 12:20:46 PM)
Mental and emotional health. Empathetic. Happy.

JeffBC -> RE: Would you be flexible??? (4/15/2012 12:24:56 PM)
Like others, my non-negotiable list has more to do with her being a healthy human than being some nebulous sub/slave thingamabob. Give me a healthy woman and toss in that ineffable "chemistry" thing and I'm good to go.

Arturas -> RE: Would you be flexible??? (4/15/2012 12:36:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: oddlots347 Lets say you are looking for that 24/7 relationship. I understand that all relationships are and will be different and that there is no booklet that says this is the way a relationship needs to be to succeed. That being said, what would be somethings you would expect out of your sub/slave that there would be no room for negotiations from you at all. What does a Master say? Only one. Honesty. Arturas

RedMagic1 -> RE: Would you be flexible??? (4/15/2012 12:46:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arturas What does a Master say? Only one. Honesty. Damn it! I got the test wrong, again.[:(] Signed, Slaveyfake unreal unmasterly mistake-maker

DarkSteven -> RE: Would you be flexible??? (4/15/2012 12:50:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Bucephalus Honesty, trust (obviously) and respect. The above, plus dedication to making it work, a relative level of sanity, and a sense of humor.

Arturas -> RE: Would you be flexible??? (4/15/2012 12:57:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arturas quote: ORIGINAL: oddlots347 Lets say you are looking for that 24/7 relationship. I understand that all relationships are and will be different and that there is no booklet that says this is the way a relationship needs to be to succeed. That being said, what would be somethings you would expect out of your sub/slave that there would be no room for negotiations from you at all. What does a Master say? Only one. Honesty. Arturas What does a Master again say? Only one. Honesty. All others are derived from this base building block in all human relations. Arturas

OsideGirl -> RE: Would you be flexible??? (4/15/2012 3:24:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JeffBC Like others, my non-negotiable list has more to do with her being a healthy human than being some nebulous sub/slave thingamabob. Give me a healthy woman and toss in that ineffable "chemistry" thing and I'm good to go. This^^^^ It's more about who someone is, than what someone is.

Endivius -> RE: Would you be flexible??? (4/15/2012 3:56:04 PM)
The only three things I have ever expected with no room for wiggling : Honest, Accountability, Effort. Everything else is just a grey area to me. But those three, they are are the golden triad.

littlewonder -> RE: Would you be flexible??? (4/15/2012 4:36:22 PM)
he has lots and lots and lots of things that are non-negotiable. When we first met he told me of those things. I could agree to be his slave or walk away. I chose to stay because I love him. Then again there are things I am non-negotiable about as well but thankfully those things are the same as his so no problems for us.

littlecherie -> RE: Would you be flexible??? (4/16/2012 6:07:24 AM)
Master is big on honesty. Majorly. Don't hide my feelings from him, good or bad.

NuevaVida -> RE: Would you be flexible??? (4/16/2012 6:38:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: JeffBC Like others, my non-negotiable list has more to do with her being a healthy human than being some nebulous sub/slave thingamabob. Give me a healthy woman and toss in that ineffable "chemistry" thing and I'm good to go. This^^^^ It's more about who someone is, than what someone is. This. For him, yep - honesty, character, and a positive outlook on life.

DesFIP -> RE: Would you be flexible??? (4/16/2012 10:51:32 AM)
Putting aside character traits which make me a good person, I know The Man would not be happy with a partner who was not a bondage bunny. He wants someone who gets off on it for herself, not just willing to suffer through it for him. And blow jobs. Plus although he claims he knows how to cook, he'd starve. The most I've seen him do in ten years is grill a steak, and I'm the one marinating it.

JanahX -> RE: Would you be flexible??? (4/16/2012 11:56:32 AM)
cant say for what Im looking for in a sub - but what I look for in a partner is integrity.

Madame4a -> RE: Would you be flexible??? (4/16/2012 12:02:22 PM)
beyond the ones folks have stated.. honesty, respect.. blah blah blah... in no particular order. .. intelligence, thoughtfulness, sense of humor... and a very good sense of self

SailingBum -> RE: Would you be flexible??? (4/16/2012 2:44:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: oddlots347 Lets say you are looking for that 24/7 relationship. I understand that all relationships are and will be different and that there is no booklet that says this is the way a relationship needs to be to succeed. That being said, what would be somethings you would expect out of your sub/slave that there would be no room for negotiations from you at all. She needs to make me smile BadOne

sirfox27 -> RE: Would you be flexible??? (4/16/2012 8:13:31 PM)
honest,respectful of others and sexually compatible.

oddlots347 -> RE: Would you be flexible??? (4/16/2012 8:18:11 PM)
WOW!!! Thank you all so much for the input. I was on the same thought as the majority of the posts, but then some had posted ideas that really got me thinking. Thank you all again.

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