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'bondage princess', had sex session with stranger... an... - 4/19/2012 10:39:39 PM   
marsman


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Status: offline 		John Lewis assistant, 21, advertised herself as 'bondage princess', had sex session with stranger... and then cried rape because she was trying for baby with boyfriend
UK Daily Mail, 19 April 2012

    Kirsty Sowden met victim Andrew Boarer on no-strings attached website

    She arranged encounter in which she wore dog collar and was spanked

    But the shop worker then contacted police to say she had been raped

    Mr Boarer was arrested at his workplace in front of his colleagues

    Investigation cost nearly £14,000 and wasted 376 hours of police time

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2132067



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RE: 'bondage princess', had sex session with stranger..... - 4/20/2012 4:22:05 AM   
Anaxagoras


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Status: offline 		A pretty sad story though - the boyfriend sounded like a psycho.

The Mail described her as a dominatrix and yet she was the one being collared and spanked! In the eternal Peon vs. The Daily Mail battle, two points go to Peon...

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RE: 'bondage princess', had sex session with stranger..... - 4/20/2012 4:24:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		poor guy. one of my biggest fears.

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RE: 'bondage princess', had sex session with stranger..... - 4/20/2012 7:00:36 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Anaxagoras

A pretty sad story though - the boyfriend sounded like a psycho.

The Mail described her as a dominatrix and yet she was the one being collared and spanked! In the eternal Peon vs. The Daily Mail battle, two points go to Peon...


Exactly what were you reading that made the boyfriend appear like a "psycho?"  Her saying "he would kill me if he knew?"  He wanted to have a baby with her and she is off getting her freak on behind his back, yet HE is the one you think is psycho?

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RE: 'bondage princess', had sex session with stranger..... - 4/20/2012 9:18:08 AM   
Anaxagoras


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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady
quote:

ORIGINAL: Anaxagoras
A pretty sad story though - the boyfriend sounded like a psycho.

The Mail described her as a dominatrix and yet she was the one being collared and spanked! In the eternal Peon vs. The Daily Mail battle, two points go to Peon...

Exactly what were you reading that made the boyfriend appear like a "psycho?"  Her saying "he would kill me if he knew?"  He wanted to have a baby with her and she is off getting her freak on behind his back, yet HE is the one you think is psycho?

Well I might be wrong but it seemed to be "kill" in the literal sense of the word since that was what was relayed by the victim of the accusation in court.

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RE: 'bondage princess', had sex session with stranger..... - 4/20/2012 12:02:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		"BDSM princess" = kinky swinger looking for service top. A "princess" wanting to bottom should have been the first clue that she had control issues. You won't catch me within a mile of a "bratty" "princess" "goddess" "daddy's girl" or a "switch". I am just to simple, to straightforward and to extreme to get involved with those types. I'd be in jail if I messed with those kind.



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RE: 'bondage princess', had sex session with stranger..... - 4/20/2012 10:20:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Anaxagoras
The Mail described her as a dominatrix and yet she was the one being collared and spanked! In the eternal Peon vs. The Daily Mail battle, two points go to Peon...


The Mail doesn't let facts get in the way of a good story...

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RE: 'bondage princess', had sex session with stranger..... - 4/21/2012 5:43:39 AM   
Anaxagoras


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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
quote:

ORIGINAL: Anaxagoras
The Mail described her as a dominatrix and yet she was the one being collared and spanked! In the eternal Peon vs. The Daily Mail battle, two points go to Peon...

The Mail doesn't let facts get in the way of a good story...

Or maybe they just need a real dominatrix to educate them on the meaning of the word, with a lesson they won't forget...

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RE: 'bondage princess', had sex session with stranger..... - 4/21/2012 2:19:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze


quote:

ORIGINAL: Anaxagoras
The Mail described her as a dominatrix and yet she was the one being collared and spanked! In the eternal Peon vs. The Daily Mail battle, two points go to Peon...


The Mail doesn't let facts get in the way of a good story...



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RE: 'bondage princess', had sex session with stranger..... - 4/22/2012 3:29:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		......Oh this pisses me off.

I am a submissive. I am happy to write legal waivers of responsibility for Those participating with me in kink fests of sick proportions. . . . In fact, regarding certain ones (such as rape roleplay), I insist on it for legal reasons. It's part of the Safe, Sane, Consensual piece....

Even this line doesn't give much comfort: Sowden, met her victim online.... because

I was raped in a non-play way as a young girl. I know what it feels like to be on the other end of the fence and it has been through BDSM that I've been able to safely explore the things that happened and move on in a healthy way. That would not have happened if I had not had a trusted Person I knew I was absolutely safe with--One who was prepared to deal with the possible emotional backlash of re-enacting the actual rape. One who would come over at messed up hours of the wee morning when I woke up sobbing from nightmares.

Had it not been for this Life, I would have not been able to take some of my power back and own the situation by flipping it into the realm of kink.

I don't usually wish harm on people, but I think it would be very fitting for Miss Sowden to endure true torture, since she likes pain and all. England still has many devices used in the witch trials. A good harlot's chair would be fitting.

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RE: 'bondage princess', had sex session with stranger..... - 4/22/2012 8:41:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		I can never understand these people who pretend they were raped because they are in a relationship with someone else. Surely it's a lot simpler just to shut up about it and not tell your existing partner (not that I cheat at all and I don't play, I just have monogamous relationships). it is not as if her current boyfriend with whom she wanted to have a child is going to be checking her out to find evidence she was with someone. Why not just think - wish I'd never done that but let's just forget it and carry on. Why make up a big tale about being raped and tell the lies so very badly you will inevitably be found out?

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RE: 'bondage princess', had sex session with stranger..... - 4/22/2012 8:49:21 AM   
FantasyKisses


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Status: offline 		I believe in complete and upfront honesty. It's part of the Old Guard tenant. So if (and this is as unlikely as ..... there being a real dungeon in Maine! haha! *pats self on the back for cleverness!*). So if I had been in her shoes, I would have sat Mine down and told Him--I've had that talk once. That was enough. And that was years ago. Nope.

The disappointment on your Partner's face alone ..... But at least you don't have to worry about it coming back and biting you in the ass.

I'm guessing since she didn't wait a full ten seconds to strip that they didn't use a condom.....

Freaking classy, isn't it? Oh look, I just choked up a bit of bile in my throat.... How nice....

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RE: 'bondage princess', had sex session with stranger..... - 4/30/2012 2:13:08 AM   
adomiman


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Status: offline 		Well it must ALL be true if you read it in the Daily Mail, After all the reputation of said publication never ever includes apologies for misleading information.

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