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RE: Pro Domme and Lifestyle Domme - 4/29/2012 9:48:37 PM

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twice, this week (spring, i guess, ) ... i have been approached ... but BOTH times it was ... pay for an extended dungeon session for evaluation ... BEFORE W/we can interact on a personal level.

And one of them has a high enough profile, that i would Hope She was NOT bait and switching ...

I read this as, "I'm looking for a sugardaddy/sugarbaby relationship, where I am sexually dominant, and where there is a fighting chance for it to become more than just a business transaction."

If that's something you're ok with, why not?

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RE: Pro Domme and Lifestyle Domme - 4/29/2012 9:57:56 PM

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i have had a 1 paying slave turn into a personal slave. i am very picky when it comes to my personal life but him being a sexy millionaire helped a bit.....

something like that happening again is like winning the lottery,though

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RE: Pro Domme and Lifestyle Domme - 4/30/2012 4:50:20 PM

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And why was distance a problem? Only because she did not cultivate my intrigue for a couple of days ... she just tried to reel me in .. too fast ... and I had not yet ... fully bit on the bait ...

That is my theory .... and if I ever meet a Lady like Her again ... I am going to follow up and find out ... first hand.

When you have nothing to prove and nothing to lose (ie not desperate to have someone, anyone, fill the position), you end up doing things like that :) you leave it to fate/karma/whathaveyou to throw people at you, and some romanticism in you expects that if it's really meant to be, nothing would stop it from happening.

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RE: Pro Domme and Lifestyle Domme - 4/30/2012 5:53:51 PM

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I keep my personal slaves separate, however, I do have a submissive that I allow to be closer to Me than My other subs or clients. Hope this answers your question.

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RE: Pro Domme and Lifestyle Domme - 4/30/2012 7:52:37 PM

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fetisheden:
i have had a 1 paying slave turn into a personal slave. i am very picky when it comes to my personal life but him being a sexy millionaire helped a bit...

Quoted because... sure it's bait, but it's also remarkably on point. As to just how rewarding a relationship is when your dominant views you as an open-ended expense account, that's something each submissive must decide on their own.

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RE: Pro Domme and Lifestyle Domme - 5/1/2012 12:24:07 PM

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i have had a 1 paying slave turn into a personal slave. i am very picky when it comes to my personal life but him being a sexy millionaire helped a bit.....

That would work for me too. Otherwise my needs aren't going to be met.

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RE: Pro Domme and Lifestyle Domme - 5/1/2012 3:45:51 PM

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I'm just really pleased to see a thread about pro dommes that's asking genuinely interested questions and not simply moaning. Thank you OP.

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RE: Pro Domme and Lifestyle Domme - 5/1/2012 8:15:57 PM

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It is spring, and it appears the birds and bee’s be flyin; which inspires a question in my mind. It has to do with Pro Dommes.

I know there are many different flavors of Pro Dommes. Some are the proverbial chicks with whips, etc, etc.

Yet in my experience, there is also a unique subset. Dominant Ladies that have deep skills, intense interest and sometimes, even a reputation in the community. So they could be described as both Lifestyle and Professional. It is this subset that inspires my question.

Do Pro Dommes really keep an iron clad separation between clients and personal slaves? Or, do they ever actually take a “client” as a personal, after trying them out as a client? If they do not take clients as “personals”; how do they keep the iron clad separation over time? Surely, some clients must be attractive.

Please share and feel free to add any thoughts or experiences.

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Don't matter if they say they're Pro's....everyone's looking for love.

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