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RE: slave or sub - 6/8/2006 10:35:52 AM

pinkee

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I am a new sub never owned and with little experience. Why when I am approached on CM do Doms and Masters insist on calling me slave? Whats up with that? I had one Dom tell me its so you will become what you are called ????
Any insight into this would be helpful.
Thanks very much in advance.
irish

Give your first name; get Theirs, and decide what orientation you are in the context of a r/l relationship with the Dom or Master of your choice. IMHO. Sounds as if you've been speaking to HNGs.

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RE: slave or sub - 6/8/2006 1:19:38 PM

akisha

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I've been called both and i'll accept either. I've had the same Dominant/Top call me both sub and slave in the same day. depends what we're doing etc. Plus i've found Dominants that i've been involved with will name me what they wish anyway.

But if someone insists on telling me what i am, i tend to delete, ignore and as a last resort block. If i'm feeling irritated that day anyway, i tend to tell them off , that ofcouse makes me not a "true sub" lmao

Really it's up to you to decide whether or not you'll answer to a label given to you or if you'll stand up and say look my name is *x* and that is how i'd like to be addressed until such a time arrises that you may call me something else.

** side note and Totally off topic** Nice photo CrappyDom, *smiles* pretty hot *w*

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RE: slave or sub - 6/8/2006 1:39:20 PM

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ORIGINAL: akisha

** side note and Totally off topic** Nice photo CrappyDom, *smiles* pretty hot *w*

i totally agree, though sorry also off topic.

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RE: slave or sub - 6/9/2006 12:15:39 AM

NJSubGirl

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I believe it is what YOU believe you are... Im new to this .. And the word "slave" use to scare me until i learned what it really meant...
Just do some research and find out what title suits you better....
I prefer PET :)

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RE: slave or sub - 6/9/2006 8:11:49 AM

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I didn't like being called master so she calls me Daddy, and I prefer to call her my pet instead of slave or sub or some other "title". People jus do what they do. No sense in letting their actions change your emotional state. Be happy!

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