Aswad
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ORIGINAL: amaidiamond Why on earth do people feel it acceptable to say things on the net that they would know were not appropriate in face to face conversation. In all fairness, I've made that precise suggestion face to face, albeit more carefully couched. I simply assumed she'd already tried getting off, or it would've been mentioned earlier. Cuz, let's face it, that's as natural as a remedy can ever get, and we're all adults on a forum for kinksters. While I haven't made a survey, the women I've asked about it have reported transient fatigue and relaxation after orgasm, both of which are conducive to sleep. Most of the guys I've asked report using it consciously for the purpose of sleep, and many have made it part of their sleep routine, particularly when they're single. However, it's also a very mild effect, for either gender, so it's not likely to be sufficient if one has a bout of persistent insomnia. I'd say it's mostly a question of him being insensitive in his wording, and if anyone disagrees with that, I'd love to hear why. IWYW, - Aswad.
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"If God saw what any of us did that night, he didn't seem to mind. From then on I knew: God doesn't make the world this way. We do." -- Rorschack, Watchmen.
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