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littlewonder -> RE: what are som things i should ask a Master im trying to get to know on a deeper level (5/2/2012 11:18:44 PM)

like others said, don't try so hard. Slow down. Don't seem so desperate. Next time you want to get to know some guy online, just breathe and remind yourself that it's not real until you meet in person, face to face. Use online simply as a guide to know if you want to ever even meet the guy or not.



Alecta -> RE: what are som things i should ask a Master im trying to get to know on a deeper level (5/2/2012 11:25:35 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Kahllia
I just feel like its not going anyplace and he has no time and. Im braking my back to try and. Talk to him but its like I never said a thing and I just feel stupid and ignored and I I guess you could say my will is a bit broken


Sounds like a drop. Now that the initial excitement and adrenaline is over, you're disappointed to not still be in its thrall. Just cool off and ease back on both yourself and him. Remember, you want a long term relationship, and you want to start with being friends first. SO first, be friends.



Kahllia -> RE: what are som things i should ask a Master im trying to get to know on a deeper level (5/2/2012 11:28:55 PM)

Umm I try hard al just about every thing I do lol not trying. Is not. Me just how I am but idk I think im just not good at this lol I know im not I don't really know how to flirt or when someone is hitting on me UN less its something super straight forward.just feel lame now



Alecta -> RE: what are som things i should ask a Master im trying to get to know on a deeper level (5/2/2012 11:31:57 PM)

lol just relax. You're trying too hard to succeed :) Learn to pace yourself and be natural!
Think back about how you met your other regular friends, and how you and them became friends, what you were like, and just do that.



Kahllia -> RE: what are som things i should ask a Master im trying to get to know on a deeper level (5/2/2012 11:50:43 PM)

I can't do that if I get no answer to any questions I ask and nothing is ever really asked of me or he falls a sleep. I think I am just better off just playing with people. I don't think im good at this



Alecta -> RE: what are som things i should ask a Master im trying to get to know on a deeper level (5/2/2012 11:55:07 PM)

Maybe you're best off looking for a relationship from people you actually meet in real life? Like at munches and parties and such. In the very least you'd know they're in the same locale ;)



Kahllia -> RE: what are som things i should ask a Master im trying to get to know on a deeper level (5/2/2012 11:56:05 PM)

And I met all my frinds in person and they. Talked to me lol. I never tryed to make friends lol



Kahllia -> RE: what are som things i should ask a Master im trying to get to know on a deeper level (5/2/2012 11:57:43 PM)

I guess I've always been to shy to go to something like that



Kahllia -> RE: what are som things i should ask a Master im trying to get to know on a deeper level (5/3/2012 12:01:10 AM)

Its not a big deal. Thanks for the help I think. Its just not ment to be



Alecta -> RE: what are som things i should ask a Master im trying to get to know on a deeper level (5/3/2012 12:01:32 AM)

Take a friend?
Munches are usually quite good about being accommodating towards new participants and those who're shy. The big tip is to speak to the organiser and let them know you're shy, they should be able to set you up with a "chaperone", so to speak.



Kahllia -> RE: what are som things i should ask a Master im trying to get to know on a deeper level (5/3/2012 12:09:12 AM)

Ill look into it



kalikshama -> RE: what are som things i should ask a Master im trying to get to know on a deeper level (5/3/2012 5:33:55 AM)

There's a bunch of groups in your area: https://fetlife.com/search/groups?q=San+luis+obispo+

(Fetlife is best for finding events. It's free to become a member.)



Kahllia -> RE: what are som things i should ask a Master im trying to get to know on a deeper level (5/3/2012 8:20:26 AM)

Okay! c:



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