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RE: Ideas for Fin Sub tribute - 5/4/2012 11:04:32 PM

Alecta

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Oh stop, you sweet sadist.
Messing about with food is my hard limit ;)

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RE: Ideas for Fin Sub tribute - 5/4/2012 11:49:57 PM

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I'm not experienced in financial domination, but damn. A goat? What use do I have for a goat?

I'm a stereotype, though. I'd be thrilled with a few fashion corsets. So what can I say, really?

(I shouldn't comment on things at 2:45am.)

Addendum: After clicking on the site, I can see the significance of the organization, but still.

(I still shouldn't comment on things after 2 in the morning.)

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RE: Ideas for Fin Sub tribute - 5/5/2012 6:23:26 AM

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For the record, I have no problem with financial domination, it's quite hot to be honest.
It's just when you think you're chatting to someone interested in dominating you in other ways, and then they hit you with the tribute thing. Dishonest.

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RE: Ideas for Fin Sub tribute - 5/5/2012 10:52:50 AM

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ORIGINAL: luxInferior

For the record, I have no problem with financial domination, it's quite hot to be honest.
It's just when you think you're chatting to someone interested in dominating you in other ways, and then they hit you with the tribute thing. Dishonest.

No offence but you do know how a lot of women will read that?

"I think financial domination is hot, I don't mind spending money on that, but when I talk to a woman about what gets me off and expect her to spend time on turning me on and being my fetish deliver system, I get really pissed off if she wants something out of it..."

Seriously, there is a difference between a relationship and random dude wanting to talk about domination, I considered a few times using the tribute line, not because I want money, but it's the best way to get rid of people who treat me like a fetish delivery system.

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RE: Ideas for Fin Sub tribute - 5/5/2012 10:55:10 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
Seriously, there is a difference between a relationship and random dude wanting to talk about domination, I considered a few times using the tribute line, not because I want money, but it's the best way to get rid of people who treat me like a fetish delivery system.

I have actually done this quite a bit.
It works, and it does wonders for the soul, especially in combination with pain or flu meds.

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RE: Ideas for Fin Sub tribute - 5/5/2012 10:55:58 AM

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Goat $50

No kid-ding here—this gift is an invaluable resource for rural communities.
A hardy goat is the gift of sustainability, which means fertilizer and food for families—especially those living in areas that cannot support less durable critters.

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but after you eat the goat you are crap out of luck especially if it cant breed before you have it for dinner

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RE: Ideas for Fin Sub tribute - 5/5/2012 10:59:52 AM

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but after you eat the goat you are crap out of luck especially if it cant breed before you have it for dinner

Funny :) Did you know that's the real reason Taoist and Indian societies deemed cows sacred? So that people wouldn't jump on slaughtering and eating the animals out of desperation before they've gotten all other potential use out of the animal...

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RE: Ideas for Fin Sub tribute - 5/5/2012 12:27:03 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

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ORIGINAL: luxInferior

For the record, I have no problem with financial domination, it's quite hot to be honest.
It's just when you think you're chatting to someone interested in dominating you in other ways, and then they hit you with the tribute thing. Dishonest.

No offence but you do know how a lot of women will read that?

"I think financial domination is hot, I don't mind spending money on that, but when I talk to a woman about what gets me off and expect her to spend time on turning me on and being my fetish deliver system, I get really pissed off if she wants something out of it..."

Seriously, there is a difference between a relationship and random dude wanting to talk about domination, I considered a few times using the tribute line, not because I want money, but it's the best way to get rid of people who treat me like a fetish delivery system.

No offence taken, LadyConstanze. I see what you're saying.

Personally, of the few messages I've sent to local people I might want to know, the content hasn't been anything like trying to get wanking fodder. I've only really ever struck up conversations based on the recipient's interests or something in their profile that I genuinely want to find out more about. You know, like how you'd strike up conversation anywhere else. But I understand that you ladies get inundated with such requests though, I'd be frustrated by now too if I had to put up with that.

It's just when you get messages that feign an interest in getting to know you for what ever reason, then after you've wasted a bit of time structuring a thoughtful reply you realise from their next message that they're just some chancer trying to find people to buy them stuff. That I find irritating and dishonest.

There's plenty of people out there looking to be financially dominated, so why aren't they just honest about what they are looking for and target their messages towards those people instead?

But also, in response to the part of your quote I highlighted in red- I'd like to think Dommes get something out of a sub without remuneration! If not, I need to ask for the bill from my current Mistress and work out some sort of payment plan...

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RE: Ideas for Fin Sub tribute - 5/5/2012 12:59:52 PM

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I think the whole problem is that when guys just want to talk kink with us, it makes us feel like a fetish delivery system and it takes the fun out of it.

We get the other kind of message, a guy asking "Hi, how are you, blah blah blah" and then we get "So tell me what you want to do to me" - ehhh, do they think women think automatically "Oh internet stranger, geeze, must think about kinky things I could do to him..." Women simply don't tick that way and it can be pretty offensive if strangers think this is some sort of drive-by kink speed dating service and we're the women they've seen in BDSM porn, and why don't we get with the program...

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