kalthus -> RE: Am I just being greedy? (5/27/2012 10:25:42 PM)
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact I'm not a switch. I'm assuming you are putting your question in this category because you enjoy either both topping and bottoming or feel comfortable in either a sub or D role, but your post didn't specify that. I would say that I'm mostly Dom/Top, but occasionally someone suggests a form of play that males me thing - you know, that could be fun... And I thought I night get the most balanced response from this group. quote:
Even as your own post points out, you're in a learning phase. How are you going to know what you like if you don't try things out for a while?...... You'll have no clue unless you actually DO certain activities. Plus, you are trying to learn to do them safely. quote:
As far as the kinky sex with various people, that is a personal choice. Not everybody who plays casually includes physical sex with their S/m. Just be up front and honest about it so that people can make an informed choice. Oh, and please remember the safer sex practices. Thats all fine. I'm interested in doing these things right, well and safely, not just as often as possible. Eventually, I guess, I would like an exclusive relationship. When I find the right woman, that would be nice. I suppose it's just a shift for me from the vanilla wold, which looks down on the idea of multiple partners or learning.... Partner A is great for cuddles. PArtner B is teaching me how to cook really great French food, but thats it, we don't do anything else. Partner C has a job and doesn't want to make time for a permanent boyfriend, so we spend ther weekend together when she's free. Bloody hell, you'd get SHOT for that!!
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